I can't believe this is still being talked about....actually yes I can.
I can say this about our league. We've made H2H an integral part because it's designed to be a competitive-casual league. In short, it's 50 bucks a team, so the money isnt a big deal. It's BEATING your friend/co-worker that is the big deal. Some people actually like that approach. That doesn't make it wrong or right, it just makes it what it is. All 48 owners in these leagues like this approach without fail. The ones that do not, are likely in different leagues that do the standings and tie-breakers differently. They are free to leave if they would like, but even if they prefer a more "points-based" method for standings, they remain in the league because it's a great league. It's competitive. It's challenging. There is a lot of strategy but new-comers are not over-whelmed. It's FUNNNNNN.
We put an emphasis on H2H and individual matchups and that makes it fun for US. Some of the harder-core players even plan their draft sheets around winning the division and making sure that their lineups are stronger for division games. Just for an extra edge. That's great team management on the meta-scale if you ask me. I believe Draft Dominator (i dont use DD anymore) will even allow you to weigh players for specific weeks.
Back to the original question...we went with the way MFL has it based upon our selected tie-breaking criteria (it went all the wat to points) as the ultimate tie-breaker for this year and will have a vote in the off-season about how to do tie-breakers for the following seasons.
Thanks to all for the discussion on this topic. Talking about things with an open mind allows one to appreciate each side.