dear prudence (1 Viewer)

[tommyboy]

Dear Prudence,

I have been married to my wife for two years, and we’ve been together for five. We have a great relationship, and both of us consider ourselves incredibly lucky to have found each other. However, so that I could understand her better, she recently told me some things about her past that have troubled me quite a bit. She said she has had quite a wild sexual past. She has slept with male strippers, been involved in aggressive sex with multiple partners that involved hitting, slept with a number of married men, cheated in most relationships, enjoyed getting choked during sex, and possibly even shared a sexual partner with her mother. She said she did these things because she was sad and depressed and sex made her feel better. She told me these things not to make me jealous or to hurt me, but for me to understand she is happier since she met me than she ever has been and doesn’t need to do these things anymore. I am having a hard time getting these images out of my head. Furthermore, I’m afraid this sounds like sexual addiction and that it could resurface. I’m desperate for advice.

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—Reeling Husband

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2015/04/dear_prudence_my_wife_s_sordid_sexual_past_is_haunting_me.html?wpsrc=fol_tw

this man needs our help

 

[mquinnjr]

New anonymous confessions thread, just in time for Friday. What's the email address again?

 

[ClownCausedChaos2]

Screw him. Where's his wife?

 

[TenTimes]

She told me these things not to make me jealous or to hurt me, but for me to understand she is happier since she met me than she ever has been and doesnt need to do these things anymore.

cute

 

[timschochet]

Won't you open up your eyes?

 

[tommyboy]

this guys such a beta he's missing the obvious dump on chest opportunities here.

 

[-fish-]

sounds like any tuesday night.

 

[Al O'Pecia]

Reeling Husband

Should be Railing Husband with a dirty birdy like that as a wife.

 

[St. Louis Bob]

sounds like any tuesday night.

It didn't say anything about her trying to stab him.

 

[kevzilla]

sounds like any tuesday night.

It didn't say anything about her trying to stab him.

That's just on the weekends. He's an officer of the court, for crying out loud.

 

[Christo]

Look at all the wild things I did sexually! But I'm over that now. Love ya, honey. Pass the corn nuts.

 

[Binky The Doormat]

The birth of another cuck.

 

[msommer]

Won't you open up your eyes?

So should have been in the top 20 songs of the 80'ies, how could I forget....

 

[tommyboy]

that paragraph seems like it was written by a 17yr old porn addict,

 

[timschochet]

Won't you open up your eyes?

So should have been in the top 20 songs of the 80'ies, how could I forget....

80s?

ETA- You must mean the Siouxie cover. That's pretty good, not as good as the original though.