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Did I do the "right" thing (1 Viewer)

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i am up 9 (would have been up 21 if he didnt swap edwards for stallworth)

i have t bell left he has horn and crumpler

approximately every 20 yds = 1 pt, tds are 6...

going to be close....

 
he put in braylon edwards instead...it will probably cost me the game and my season (i am 0-2 in that league), but it didn't feel "right" knowing that and letting them take a zero...thoughts?
Wow - you are a better man than I.My competitiveness would never have let me make that call.
 
As a human being, you did the right thing, but It's a game, and part of the game is keeping up with your team. I wouldn't have gone out of my way to tell him.

 
How is this...my opponent this week has both Larry Johnson and Tomlinson in his lineup. I emailed him earlier in the week to say that the scheduling gods were smiling upon me to come up against him with those studs on a bye week.

As it turns out he doesn't post his lineup and gets his Week 2 lineup.....with IDP's he has 6 starters on a bye week.....even if he has posted his best possible lineup I still would have smashed him this week.

 
You showed integrity w/ your FIL.

I'm sure your wife knows...and tonight is thinking "wow, I love this man, I need to show him how much."

Dude, you killed two birds with one stone. There are more important things than FF.

That said, even if I'm playing my best buddy, I'm just playing dumb about Stallworth and pretending I didn't know either. Family is different, especially in-laws...
:confused:
:pickle: Some of the best action I ever got was after my FIL told my wife how much respect he had for me.

 
he put in braylon edwards instead...it will probably cost me the game and my season (i am 0-2 in that league), but it didn't feel "right" knowing that and letting them take a zero...thoughts?
Do you really have to suck up to your father-in-law? Is your relationship that shakey? If it were my father-in-law I wouldn't have told him and would have given him a hard time. Of course he would have done the same to me.
 
You showed integrity w/ your FIL.

I'm sure your wife knows...and tonight is thinking "wow, I love this man, I need to show him how much."

Dude, you killed two birds with one stone. There are more important things than FF.

That said, even if I'm playing my best buddy, I'm just playing dumb about Stallworth and pretending I didn't know either. Family is different, especially in-laws...
:confused:
:pickle: Some of the best action I ever got was after my FIL told my wife how much respect he had for me.
:lol: as for the original post? "right/moral" thing? i guess. "smart" thing? no

no offense, but hopefully you lose to drive home an important lesson in letting people make their own decisions.

 
he put in braylon edwards instead...it will probably cost me the game and my season (i am 0-2 in that league), but it didn't feel "right" knowing that and letting them take a zero...thoughts?
:hey: I am commisioner of a league in which I did a very similar thing last year. I have a great track record in this league, and several of the other owners will openly root against my team because of the success I've enjoyed over the years. Anyways, my opponent one week didn't have a single QB he could start against me (due to injuries and bye week, and our free agent deadline had also passed so he couldn't just pick up a waiver wire QB), so I made him aware of this and even helped him to engineer a trade to acquire one just minutes before gametime. I second-guessed myself too, :unsure: especially since my 'good sportsmanship' cost me the game, and even worse - the team that he traded with was my divisional nemesis all year and he got the better end of this deal. :ph34r: This really added insult to injury because I was in a very tight divisional race with said nemesis who was on the other side of the trade (and the division winners in this league get a 'bye' to the 'final four' and are virtually guaranteed to 'finish in the money').Evidently, the fantasy football gods were greatly impressed with this sacrifice because I ended up winning my division (by one game) over my nemesis who benefited most from this trade I had practically brokered. Also, I ended up defeating this nemesis team in our superbowl game. :thumbup: Admittedly, if I had lost the division or the superbowl as a result of my generosity I may have felt differently, but hopefully the positive karma of helping your opponent to field a competitive team this week will rub off on you as well.
 
I've called my dad before when I was playing him because I know he doesn't put too much effort into it and only does it for something to do. Also, I have a few buddies who call me all the time, and even today had a buddy who I was playing call me to ask if Vinatieri was out. He said he couldn't find it anywhere. While I'm sure he could have lookd harder, I gave him the benefit of the doubt and told him. He didn't realize he was playing me. I told him just next time if he's playing me to please refrain from asking me these kinds of questions. He understood.

 
Brewdude said:
Pittsburgh United said:
Brewdude said:
You showed integrity w/ your FIL.

I'm sure your wife knows...and tonight is thinking "wow, I love this man, I need to show him how much."

Dude, you killed two birds with one stone. There are more important things than FF.

That said, even if I'm playing my best buddy, I'm just playing dumb about Stallworth and pretending I didn't know either. Family is different, especially in-laws...
:confused:
:pickle: Some of the best action I ever got was after my FIL told my wife how much respect he had for me.
Definetely makes sure the wife and even the MIL find out about this. You should be rewarded greatly.
 
Brewdude said:
Pittsburgh United said:
Brewdude said:
You showed integrity w/ your FIL.

I'm sure your wife knows...and tonight is thinking "wow, I love this man, I need to show him how much."

Dude, you killed two birds with one stone. There are more important things than FF.

That said, even if I'm playing my best buddy, I'm just playing dumb about Stallworth and pretending I didn't know either. Family is different, especially in-laws...
:confused:
:pickle: Some of the best action I ever got was after my FIL told my wife how much respect he had for me.
Definetely makes sure the wife and even the MIL find out about this. You should be rewarded greatly.
Yeah...it was assumed you are bragging to your wife about this. The FIL will put a good word in. You can send him a card later.
 
I'd have called him too, right after kickoff. It's not my job to do the other guys homework. I spend many hours a week researching fantasy football and if my opponent chooses not to then that give me an advantage. Why would I want to call him and give that advantage I earned away?
:yes: It's not an honesty issue. It's not your job to keep up with everyone else's lineups in addition to your own.
 
Wu-banger said:
I'd have called him too, right after kickoff. It's not my job to do the other guys homework. I spend many hours a week researching fantasy football and if my opponent chooses not to then that give me an advantage. Why would I want to call him and give that advantage I earned away?
:goodposting: you need to end your membership... this is what happens when this country let's kids grow up soft.
this is what happens when generalizations meet ignorance.
 
There's doing the right thing, and then there's being stupid. This isn't a moral issue, it's a freaking fantasy football game. What next, you'll call your opponent to give them weather conditions so they can play better plays.

Good luck, you deserve to be 0-3!

 
It was said previously above but you did the rest of your league a disservice by helping your father in law.

Now how will you feel if your opponent today beats out another team by one game when the season is over? or it causes another team not to make the playoffs?

If you are playing in a free league or a $10 league with a $100 year end pot then it's not as big a deal but if you are playing for big money then you did the wrong thing.

Our league is a fairly high stakes one, final pot is about 5k and we've been together 15 years.

The guys in my league would clothesline their Mothers if it got them an extra point on Sunday.

 
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he put in braylon edwards instead...it will probably cost me the game and my season (i am 0-2 in that league), but it didn't feel "right" knowing that and letting them take a zero...thoughts?
Karma bro Karma.My oppenet this week forgot to start a defense. I emailed him sat night. He started the Pats D and in our league, got 1 point. I now have karma in the bank and it only cost me 1 point. He was favored by 15 and i will win by 10. Karma? I dont know, maybe any given Sunday. But, it is all karma.And hey, your job doesnt depned on this, your family doesnt and yoru life doesnt. So what does it hurt?You did good.
 
he put in braylon edwards instead...it will probably cost me the game and my season (i am 0-2 in that league), but it didn't feel "right" knowing that and letting them take a zero...thoughts?
Karma bro Karma.My oppenet this week forgot to start a defense. I emailed him sat night. He started the Pats D and in our league, got 1 point. I now have karma in the bank and it only cost me 1 point. He was favored by 15 and i will win by 10. Karma? I dont know, maybe any given Sunday. But, it is all karma.And hey, your job doesnt depned on this, your family doesnt and yoru life doesnt. So what does it hurt?You did good.
Your opponent's name was Karma? You shouldn't let girls play, they get too emotional.
 
I'd have called him too, right after kickoff. It's not my job to do the other guys homework. I spend many hours a week researching fantasy football and if my opponent chooses not to then that give me an advantage. Why would I want to call him and give that advantage I earned away?
:yes: It's not an honesty issue. It's not your job to keep up with everyone else's lineups in addition to your own.
:goodposting: I'd would have liked to see Sinrman call all of his opponents a year or two ago when he had 200+ teams. I still don't know how he managed so many...
 

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