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Ever regret inviting someone to 3 of your leagues? (1 Viewer)

JohnnyU

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For some dumb reason I've allowed one owner to be in all 3 of my fantasy legends leagues the last year to replace other owners. This guy is so negative and abrasive, and brags about himself constantly, and appears to be stupid by the English he uses (not that I would hold that against him). He also posts to everyone what he considers bad trade offers. I offered Mendenhall and Sweed for James Davis and a #1 pick. The trade can be looked at in many ways, but to post how stupid it is is out of line IMO. What do you do about making the mistakes of getting ##### owners? Here are some of the posts on the league message boards for you to enjoy, and this is just the tip of the iceberg.

Here is a thread where we need to find another owner -

His response -

if you want to be best league on net better then mine yes Chuck.

You the commish.... u let teams crumble you should take it out of your pocket.

thats my attitude and thats why my leagues will always be best on net. not yours!

im here to make money. my leagues i run im there to give back what i win every where else.

i just have a diffeent attitude then most i guess. its all good Chuck!

but you did what you had to do and i have no problem with it and i did suggest it and i am not only commish out there that ate a loss because of hit and run owners. or inadequate owners.

or whatever it was that caused that team to be discounted. it happens most everywhere.

you learn from it and move on! 50.00 is no biggie! it was worth the cost to get the team filled and sounds like well worth the 50 discount we gave them.

i would never charge the league. thats just difference between me and you Chuck. No biggie. It all worked out for the good of all of us. I dont need to keep stirring the pot!

I responded -

Hey, I'm the commish of the league, not the bank. It's not up to me to fork over money from my personal account to fund a league, other than my share. Also, I'm not in a competion with anyone to run the "best" league on the internet. We've done just fine in our leagues without that kind of talk. Listen Dave, it's not up to me to prevent teams from crumbling. The rules are setup for everyone, and there's a lot of rope for owners to hang themselves. It's not up to me to micro manage the league. If anyone has a problem with a trade we have a veto system. I don't kick owners out of the league for making a bad trade.

He responded -

i am the bank, the commish, and a few other things ive been called.

(good and bad)

(i really do own banks!) haha

my attitude is i pay u to play in my leagues. you pay on time

and you play fair. really my only two requirments.

three openings now also. 125 per team. 14 teams well over 2000 in prizes every year and free software. one guy passed away suddenly

and much younger then me. one guy ran his down worst then this one in return

for favorable trades in other leagues. and yes i would have never caught on if not

for a snitch that told on him. out the door he went! fired! KICKED OUT!

because his team is shot, i threw my championship team into the pool along with the

team thats owner died and any owner not paid up by june first. thought it was fairest way to do it. again throwing away my championship team to make player pool better for the cheaters team. and yes he was always a little snot that tried to get advantages anyway he could. a orginal memeber from the 80's. just never caught him actually cheating until recently thanks to a snitch or two thats always been loyal. i got attorneys, movie stars. u name it in mine thats been in mine for ever. yes i klicked c.thomas Howell out too. hes wants back. it was for late payment for winning his league though. not cheating! we go way back.

poker and golf buddy's and of coarse fantasy football! i want to gve him his drafted team back but a lawyer has it now. oh well. #### always happening. enough blah blah blah

Here's a thread about the possiblity of getting rid of kicers and his response -

I was dissapointed to even have to waste my valuable time reading that BS thread.

Of coarse I have been around long before the internet was created AND SO HAS DAMN KICKERS!

Match ups, or secureing a good kicker in a hi octane offense has always and will always

be a part of the fantasy game and adds a lot of stragety to it weather u realize it or not!

Get out of your dream word!

Adding a flex is fine by me but not at expense of kickers. Because of your terrible D SCORE penalties

I would highly recomend adjusting that. D's are probably close to kickers IN FANTASY VALUE

depending league to league D rules.

Head coaches add a little zing to leagues that use that.

Man, maybe if you played fantasy back when kickers like Blanda and Cockroft were around you'd

show a little more respect for them then that BS tread. I would have never opened it if I knew what it was actually about! And there is always a big difference between the top 5 and 20-25 range EACH AND EVERY YEAR.

That darn PUKESBURG KICKER GOT ME last year more then one league. On Monday night last play of game.

Wouldn't want it any other way. That's what these games are about and the kicker will always be a part of it.

(EXCEPT MAYBE RETARTED LEAGUES)

Thread in FLL3 where someone posts there players on the block -

it sure beats commishes list!!!!

FLL 3 thread about possibly getting rid of kickers -

I disagree with you 110% as do a lot of FBG guys on that forum. KICKERS have always and will always be a big part of match ups and the BEST fantasy leagues. And by the way I use PUNTERS TOO IN a way. D's get a point for punts inside 20. It's an MFL option.

Thanks for spoiling my farthers day with GARBAGE! haha ]

I said -

> Hey, I didn't start the thread, so don't shoot the

> messenger. Kickers are garbage however when they

> range from 150 - 105 pts from rankings 1 to 26 like

> they do in our league and most other leagues as

> well.

He said -

I shoot every messenger that starts crap! That is still a 33% difference between 1 and 25 and like every starting line-up position of most every league it's all about match ups each week and scoreing as many points as you can. You can maximize several kickers over a coarse of a year to get you more points then someone that sits on the best kicker all year. I think?

Oh well, This next month plus before spring camps kick up is the most bored month of the entire year.

I hate tennis! Britsh Open is about only thing this next month to watch so I guess it's the ample time for good ole kicker debates! I doubt I would play in a league without them. I lose too much of a tatical advantage to guys like U that are too worried about the next free agent sleeper you have to beat yus all too.

this is exactly what i was trying to point out. us SMART owners can figure how to utilize match ups to burn you HATE -kicker whinners that would never take the time because your to busy thinking there a pain in the but and complaining about them.

them 20 to 30 % figures is the lazy way of figureing. by maximizing weekly match ups there is another 20 to 30% to be won that doesnt show up in the year end results.

dont ever forget that BOSS! i may never give u another tip again! be happy

I've deleted his negative comments about trade offers, so I can't post them.

It's not like he had it in for my leagues from the start - "I am fairly new with Chuck's legend leagues but it's obvious to me he runs great leagues that are set up the way I prefer them to be and is an extraodinary good commish."

 
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For some dumb reason I've allowed one owner to be in all 3 of my fantasy legends leagues the last year to replace other owners. This guy is so negative and abrasive, and brags about himself constantly, and appears to be stupid by the English he uses (not that I would hold that against him).
This guy appears to be several levels below stupid. He can barely communicate at all.
 
This guy is a riot! I don't know what is funnier: the way that he writes (does he speak that way too) or his weird way of thinking. Either way, this is GOLD and you should do everything in your power to keep him around in all of your leagues just for the comedic value alone!

 
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I thought you brought him in as another guppy? SOMEBODY has to pay for our hobby year after year, and I'd prefer it was somebody else! ;)

 
As a commish of a dozen leagues over the last few years, I feel your pain. I've had a few of these jokers as well, and about 3 or 4 years ago, removed several of them, and it was the best thing I ever did for the league. Why some guys would rather verbally fight, constantly sending insults instead of ENJOYING football, is beyond my understanding.

 
This guy is a riot! I don't know what is funnier: the way that he writes (does he speak that way too) or his weird way of thinking. Either way, this is GOLD and you should do everything in your power to keep him around in all of your leagues just for the comedic value alone!
Exactly - guys like this make leagues more fun. It takes all types.
 
Is he from Nigeria and did you invite him after he informed you that you won $1,000,000 US Dollars?

 
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I responded -

Hey, I'm the commish of the league, not the bank. It's not up to me to fork over money from my personal account to fund a league, other than my share. Also, I'm not in a competion with anyone to run the "best" league on the internet. We've done just fine in our leagues without that kind of talk. Listen Dave, it's not up to me to prevent teams from crumbling. The rules are setup for everyone, and there's a lot of rope for owners to hang themselves. It's not up to me to micro manage the league. If anyone has a problem with a trade we have a veto system. I don't kick owners out of the league for making a bad trade.
So you're the commissioner and this is a financial issue?
 
Not a commish but I love having people like that in my leagues. Nothing like beating the guys that run their mouth off all season. I've got a clown in one league that announces he's the team to beat every year about week 2 or 3. Never makes the playoffs, but he runs smack every year during the 1st month. Commish in one league finally kicked out a guy that complains non stop every year. I'm sad to see him go, it's fun to beat guys that you really do dislike. I beat the guy in a Championship game a few years ago by like .3 points, it was a classic game & he was silent for a few days after the game. Sure enough, he comes on a few days later spouting off that he won his other 6 leagues. Wouldn't be near the fun if I liked everyone in my leagues.

 
I responded -

Hey, I'm the commish of the league, not the bank. It's not up to me to fork over money from my personal account to fund a league, other than my share. Also, I'm not in a competion with anyone to run the "best" league on the internet. We've done just fine in our leagues without that kind of talk. Listen Dave, it's not up to me to prevent teams from crumbling. The rules are setup for everyone, and there's a lot of rope for owners to hang themselves. It's not up to me to micro manage the league. If anyone has a problem with a trade we have a veto system. I don't kick owners out of the league for making a bad trade.
So you're the commissioner and this is a financial issue?
Yes, I'm the commish. I took the $50 out of what we normally would give the highest scoring non playoff team. These funds were accumulated by excess paid to allow for any future increase in hosting site fees. They usually amount to a toal of $50 each year. His argument is that I should fork over the $50 to get a new owner rather than take it out of league paid fees.
 
C. Thomas Howell owes money from winning a FF league and gets kicked out. Don't hear that everyday. Oh and get of your dream world.

 
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(EXCEPT MAYBE RETARTED LEAGUES)
Ehhhhhhh...if you are going to use that word to describe something negatively, someone should let him know what he's going to want to go ahead and make sure he spells it correctly.
 
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JohnnyU if the overwhelming majority of owners don't like this guy and want him out then you simply need to let him know at the end of this season that his franchise will not be renewed.

It sucks to have to tell someone that but, if the other owners agree, it has to be done.

 
I guess you can count me in the minority that thinks that JohnnyU comes off as the bigger d-bag in this case.

I think we should invite this guy to the shark pool for him to have a fair rebuttal.

 
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Ehhhhhhh...if you are going to use that word to describe something negatively, someone should let him know what he's going to want to go ahead and make sure he spells it correctly.
Try it. See what happens.
I meant the owner that is clearly not endearing himself to the rest of his league...or more specifically the starter of this thread.I know what happens, hence my edit...but my comment was pointed at the guy who thinks commissioners should fund leagues just for the fun of it.

 
I guess you can count me in the minority that thinks that JohnnyU comes off as the bigger d-bag in this case.I think we should invite this guy to the shark pool for him to have a fair rebuttal.
I'm ok with that. Let's not forget the crazy posts in our message board.
 
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As a commish of a dozen leagues over the last few years, I feel your pain. I've had a few of these jokers as well, and about 3 or 4 years ago, removed several of them, and it was the best thing I ever did for the league. Why some guys would rather verbally fight, constantly sending insults instead of ENJOYING football, is beyond my understanding.
Obviously there's a right way and a wrong way, but generally I see nothing wrong with trash talking so long as it's a two way street.
 
I guess you can count me in the minority that thinks that JohnnyU comes off as the bigger d-bag in this case.
I think posting league messages here to try to make someone look bad.........................looks bad. I really don't care if Susie and Rosie hate Yvonne. And I really don't care to hear Yvonne come here to defend herself either. But the problem seems easy enough to solve one way or another. Boot the guy and give him his money back for his teams this year. Or keep his money and put up with it. It really is that simple.
 
(EXCEPT MAYBE RETARTED LEAGUES)
Ehhhhhhh...if you are going to use that word to describe something negatively, someone should let him know what he's going to want to go ahead and make sure he spells it correctly.
Try it. See what happens.
I meant the owner that is clearly not endearing himself to the rest of his league...or more specifically the starter of this thread.I know what happens, hence my edit...but my comment was pointed at the guy who thinks commissioners should fund leagues just for the fun of it.
Gotcha.I couldn't work through the butchered grammar of dude's first sentence. You have more dedication than I, sir.

 
you should tell him how to find this place.
He posts here all the time, so what would that accomplish?
Who is he at FBG?
I wouldn't do that. No matter what a jerk he is I don't think it's right that I go that far. Those in my leagues know who I'm talking about and that's good enough.
Let me get this straight----You'd:1. Start a thread like this calling out an owner publicly2. Reveal his first name as Dave3. Say that he "appears to be stupid by the English he uses"4. Post messages from a private FF league message board onto the largest public fantasy football forumBut, you don't think it's right to post a forum username? Pretty interesting.
 
Seems harmless enough? Slightly annoying perhaps but in an interesting way at least. At least he's into the league. :rolleyes:
I wouldn't call constant abrasive insults harmless. We didn't do this befoe him, and I really don't want to see it now. It's not even trash talking, which I welcome, it personal slander. I didn't even post the "stupid trade offer" comments. I knew from the very first hour of this guy in our league I would have issues with him, yet I still invited him to all of my leagues. I'm a real dumba--.
 
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you should tell him how to find this place.
He posts here all the time, so what would that accomplish?
Who is he at FBG?
I wouldn't do that. No matter what a jerk he is I don't think it's right that I go that far. Those in my leagues know who I'm talking about and that's good enough.
Let me get this straight----You'd:1. Start a thread like this calling out an owner publicly2. Reveal his first name as Dave3. Say that he "appears to be stupid by the English he uses"4. Post messages from a private FF league message board onto the largest public fantasy football forumBut, you don't think it's right to post a forum username? Pretty interesting.
:thumbup: I understand the need to vent as a commissioner but a public forum frequented by your league-mates doesn't seem to be the right place. It takes time to build trust with owners, and if I was an owner in your league I would not appreciate this no matter how much the guy deserved it.
 
I understand the need to vent as a commissioner but a public forum frequented by your league-mates doesn't seem to be the right place. It takes time to build trust with owners, and if I was an owner in your league I would not appreciate this no matter how much the guy deserved it.
Thus the reason why I'm not naming his team name or fbgs name. Look, it's very frustrating having someone like this in my leagues, and I'm mad at myself for letting it happen. I don't think anyone in our leagues care about me posting my frustration because it sure as hell hasn't done any good addressing it within the leagues. If they do, then maybe they can step up and take over as commish. I've been doing it for 6 years and I'm about done with it. I would love not having to be the commish, but I keep doing it because I care about the leagues and want to see them continue with success. However, it's almost to the point where it's not worth it anymore. I think I may give up being the commish of 2 of the 3 Fantasy Legends Leagues after this season.
 
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From the information you provided none of his post contained profanity, threat of personal harm, or any inflammatory language. I dont see what the problem is.

 
The guy clearly is a d.o.u.c.h.e.b.a.g, so I would give him his money back and send him packing. In fact, he should be booted out simply for poor use of the English language (and grammar).

I feel your pain, JohnnyU.

 
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From the information you provided none of his post contained profanity, threat of personal harm, or any inflammatory language. I dont see what the problem is.
I haven't posted some of the personal ones because I deleted them. Stuff like "Your stupid trade offers", and constant "I wouldn't do that in my leagues", and "this or that is garbage, or r-e-t-a-r-d-e-d (he likes that one)", "Only an idiot would .......". Hell, are you saying you wouldn't be bothered by someone saying that I should pay out of my own pocket to get a new owner? Maybe I'm just too sensitive, or more likely I'm tired of being the commish.
 
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From the information you provided none of his post contained profanity, threat of personal harm, or any inflammatory language. I dont see what the problem is.
I haven't posted some of the personal ones because I deleted them. Stuff like "Your stupid trade offers", and constant "I wouldn't do that in my leagues", and "this or that is garbage, or r-e-t-a-r-d-e-d (he likes that one)", "Only an idiot would .......". Hell, are you saying you wouldn't be bothered by someone saying that I should pay out of my own pocket to get a new owner? Maybe I'm just too sensitive, or more likely I'm tired of being the commish.
Seems like it's one guy. Being a commish has a lot of frustrations. One of the perks should be being able to play with other FF'ers that are also enjoyable. Just MO. Get rid of him, I'm pretty sure that a) your league mates will understand, b) you'll enjoy your situation more and c) no one else wants to deal with this guy.
 

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