I saw the thread where you guys mark each time you are intimate with your better half. Women deserve better then that. They just want a little more effort. Husbands feel sex should be expected from their wives. We really have the porn industry to thank for that expectation. Women find it degrading not because of the act, no matter how raunchy the scene is, but how fake it is because the women are not getting what they deserve. They should be adored, feel like they are more than just a physical release and above all the want you to take complete control.
I work in a setting where women out number men employees 3:1. I saw a large group of women ranging from college to grandma huddled over the TV in the common area. The Today show was one 50 shades of grey preview was on. I heard nothing but giggles and ooohhhh comments. I could not see the TV, but I saw my wife stop forwarding through the commercials last night to stop and watch that the movie preview will be shown on the Today show. Gentlemen, you should not let this opportunity slide by. If your wife is interested in seeing this movie, do not roll your eyes. Discuss with them what is it about the book/movie that does it for women. I recommend reading this book or another romance novel your wife has read. Or if not get her to read them.
When I saw my wife reading it I noticed that our sex life increased. I also noticed her choice of books became more fetish involved. The books themselves are a terrible read. But, I learned a lot about what my wife was looking for. If you don't mind a little more work I would recommend talking to her about the books. Listen to what she likes about them and learn her fantasies. you could realize that you are more sexually compatible then you realize. Even have a whole new relationship. I know I feel in love with my wife all over again.
I work in a setting where women out number men employees 3:1. I saw a large group of women ranging from college to grandma huddled over the TV in the common area. The Today show was one 50 shades of grey preview was on. I heard nothing but giggles and ooohhhh comments. I could not see the TV, but I saw my wife stop forwarding through the commercials last night to stop and watch that the movie preview will be shown on the Today show. Gentlemen, you should not let this opportunity slide by. If your wife is interested in seeing this movie, do not roll your eyes. Discuss with them what is it about the book/movie that does it for women. I recommend reading this book or another romance novel your wife has read. Or if not get her to read them.
When I saw my wife reading it I noticed that our sex life increased. I also noticed her choice of books became more fetish involved. The books themselves are a terrible read. But, I learned a lot about what my wife was looking for. If you don't mind a little more work I would recommend talking to her about the books. Listen to what she likes about them and learn her fantasies. you could realize that you are more sexually compatible then you realize. Even have a whole new relationship. I know I feel in love with my wife all over again.
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