Okay, I found the thread about the alleged scamming on another site, and now I'm more confused than I was.
Cliff's notes?
Someone known as CurlyNight was allegedly involved in a car accident with an illegal alien, which was relayed to a message board by another poster who collected funds for some sort of... well... fund. Then it all gets murky, and everyone thinks she was a fake, that the poster who collected money either took it or gave it to her and she wasn't really hurt, and at least one person claimed to have had phone sex with her. A bunch of guys called each other names and everyone made up in the end, but hated her and the other poster a lot, even though I can't see any confirmation that she did anything wrong.
I'm not really sure what I read. But it was long.