The pollardsdivision lynch mob in here is silly. OP says "a teacher kissed my girl goodnight on the forehead" and everyone screams, "BURN HIM ALIVE!". Then pollardsdivision says, "yeah, with the way the world is I'm not even comfortable kissing my own nieces and nephews because it's not worth the risk of someone raising an eyebrow" and everyone gets on his case and implies that there's something wrong with him. But the problem is actually that everyone assumes everybody else is a pedo nowadays...People with kids are on constant high alert around other adults (even relatives), and people without kids know they're constantly being scrutinized while interacting with kids (even by relatives). For someone to say "eff it, I just stay away from kids altogether (even relatives)" is FAR more normal than the lynch mob in realizes.