I do care about Politician Spock's story and I wish his family well. I do.
But it is just the slightest bit amusing to me that somehow this thread has become all about Politician Spock.
Not sure where you are getting the disconnect here.
There was one killer friday and many victims. People attending the zoo next weekend are no more associated to the victims than people with Aspergers are associated to the killer.
I called BS on both. Now people are throwing me under the bus as a bad parent. I don't know why.
I didn't suggest I was associated to the victims in any way. I just wrote that it have me chills. You accused me of trying to make the thread about me. THAT was BS.
Also, I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't think you're a bad parent. I might do things differently, but you obviously care a lot about your son. I wish you the best of luck.
I have defended you quite often in the past but that post was pointless at best and darn stupid at worst. I can easily see how that was viewed as a means to draw attention to yourself. People react disproportionately when it is you making the comment
* but that doesn't mean you should get a free pass either.
*Just today someone made an off color comment about having a 16 year old daughter who brought her volleyball team to their house for a BBQ, and no one batted an eye but all hell would have broken loose if you had authored that comment.
It's the price you pay for being you.