OK, here is my final attempt at compromise. Here's what I get:
1. All illegal immigrants already here who have not committed a felony can pay a fine (for breaking the law by coming here) and are given legal status. They will have all the rights of citizens except they will never be allowed to vote, and for the rest of their lives if they are found guilty of a felony they are deported. Naturally their children if born here are citizens subject to all laws and rights.
2. A guest worker program is established for those industries that need labor at below minimum wage. Guest workers at the end of their allotted stay have the right to stay and get a green card if they so choose.
3. Immigration laws should be liberalized to allow for poor people from Mexico and Latin America to "get in line."
Here's what I will give:
1. No citizenship, ever, for illegal immigrants.
2. Secure the borders by any reasonable financial means.
3. Deport any illegal who arrives here AFTER this program is in place.
4. Fine companies or persons who hire illegals after this program is in place.
We'll start with "what you get".
1. "All the rights of citizens" is kind of an issue. The one and only goal for "my side" in any immigration reform agreement is to ensure that the problem is not repeated. That means not rewarding people for illegally entering the country. In this case, you're suggesting that current illegals be allowed to receive welfare, foodstamps, Obamacare subsidies, Medicare/Medicaid, Social Security, and other benefits, even if they're not working. That rewards them for breaking the law, which subsequently encourages others to break the same law.
2. Obviously, allowing foreign guest workers to compete in the labor market under different rules than Americans is a non-starter. If you want to reduce or eliminate minimum wage, be my guest, but it has to apply to everyone equally, and it really has nothing to do with an immigration reform proposal.
3. Sure.
With regard to "what you will give".
1. I'm not sure what this accomplishes, since you want them to receive all the benefits of being a citizen. Not to mention, illegals currently can't become citizens. In other words, "my side" already has this item, so you're not really giving anything up.
2. Meh. Fully securing the borders is a lost cause. Yeah, we need to spend money on it regardless, for national security reasons, but we both know it's not possible to patrol it with armed officers 24x7.
3. This is already the law. We don't enforce it, but you're not really giving anything new here.
4. This is also the law now, so you're not really giving anything new. That said, this is the only item where you're making an effort. However, the punishment needs to be brutal, like $100K or more per incident, to ensure that it doesn't happen.
All told, you're asking for quite a bit, but not offering anything new to "my side". That is, everything you're offering is something we already have.