Mawae said that if the NFL contends the union walked away from mediation, "
that's a fabrication and a lie. We sat in that room ... Tuesday and Wednesday of last week for 16 hours. ... We met face-to-face a total of 30 minutes."
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I'm having a hard time understanding this.
No kidding. Mr. Mawae, if you walked out on Thursday, it doesn't matter what you did on Tuesday and Wednesday, you still walked out on Thursday.
Let's assume for a minute that his statement is accurate. Are you actually going to sit around the 3rd day after basically being ignored the other 2?
Who says he was being ignored? He may be trying to get you to think that. But that's not what he actually said.I'm not privy to NFL/NFLPA mediation practices. But the mediations I have been involved in had very little in the way of "face time" between the parties. There would be an initial introductory face-to-face session where the parties might state their current positions/wants and their objections to prior proposals, but then the parties would each retire to their respective rooms/suites for the ongoing negotiation. The mediator would work back and forth between the two sides taking proposals and counter-proposals back and forth. So, yes, you might sit there for a while whilst the mediator is over in the other side's room discussing with them your last counter offer you sent with him. And you'll wait some more while they formulate a counter-proposal, which the mediator then brings back for you to consider.
If the NFL's mediation practice is like that sort, Mawae either has a wrongheaded idea of how the process is supposed to work, which means we can ignore him, or he's intentionally trying to mislead us and spin criticism away, which reflects poorly on him. But, again, I've not been a party to an NFL mediation format so take my insight, or lack thereof, with a pound or two of salt.
The mediator in those situations is not a judge, he's a tool for negotiation. He'll carry proposals back and forth and try to explain where the other side is coming from without the emotional charge that would be attached if that party were saying it himself. But he may also try to inject some pragmatism and objectivity (as in "this is how I see it playing out...") into the matter to encourage some movement by a party. He might play devil's advocvate with an idea so that party revises it and puts a solid proposal forward. He's unbiased as to the actual issue, so his assesment, at least in theory, should be neutral and without agenda. He just tries to help the parties find the middle ground, if one is to be found.
Critics of mediation will say that a mediator does have a bias. It's getting a deal done so the mediator can market himself for future mediations. Some would argue that he then puts his own gain above that of brokering an agreement for the maximum benefit of both parties. He instead tries to get the less resolute party to cave so he can pad his resume. And, of coourse, one could argue that no one is capable of being completely neutral on an issue so some subconscious bias may sneak in as well.