So what I'm struggling with a little bit is the wording of "at least one card is black." What is the difference between the scenario above, and the scenario where I look at one of the cards and then tell you "at least one of the cards is black. What are the odds there is also a red card?"
If you look at only one card and then say "at least one card is black," you're not giving me all the information you have. You should have told me, "I know that at least one card is black, and I know this from looking only at one card, not both."
If you look at two cards, you'll tell me "at least one is black" 75% of the time. If you look at just one card, you can tell me "at least one card is black" only 50% of the time. When you tell me "at least one card is black," you're eliminating only 25% of the cases -- but if in fact you've only looked at one card, you could properly eliminate 50% of the cases, so you're not giving me all of the relevant information.
Or the scenario where I look at both cards and make a choice to tell you that "at least one of the cards is black."
Yes, this case is different from looking at just one card.
I completely understand the situation where I look at both cards and I am asked if I have a black card. I must answer yes 100% of the time I have a black card in my hand, so the odds of the other being red is 2/3. But if I have a choice of which color to reveal, (i.e. at least one is black, or at least one is red), it would seem to me the odds would be 50/50 on also having the other color.
Right. "At least one is black" is different from "the one on the left is black" or "the one I looked at first is black" or whatever. In the first case ("at least one is black"), the cards are opposite colors 67% of the time, while in the other cases (e.g., "the one I looked at first is black"), the cards are opposite colors 50% of the time.