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Is that something you've looked into?Because it's illegal to own an air craft carrier?
Is that something you've looked into?Because it's illegal to own an air craft carrier?
I have - got a carry permit. I'm working up to it.Is that something you've looked into?
You could also be really, really cruel, and say it's because at the end of the day, as a societal group, men need a physical release of violence and we just don't go to war anymore like we used to. If we had more World War II type events every decade or so I doubt we would see the mass shootings we have. I think. Who knows.
I think this is getting to a lot of the issue, but I have 0 clue what to do with it.I honestly have always believed this is what pro football is for. Everyone knows (or should know) the story of First Bull Run, how the northern crowds lined up to watch the action, how generals during that war were treated by the press as sports stars are today. So the modern man gets his violent aggression out by watching the Patriots vs. the Eagles. And the more violent guys get their jones by watching UFC. But maybe that's still not enough for some...
I thought that was the Bangles.1. Almost all of these mass shooters are male. It's tough to find instances of women. In fact, the only one I can personally think of was the girl who shot at a school in the 70s and said she didn't like Mondays (the subject of the Boomtown Rats song.)
4 outta 5. Should I start hiding money?I think part the reason is the 'copycat' nature of it. The Columbine killers invented the school massacre and a bunch of other loser, white, heterosexual males followed suit.
I would imagine white, male, heterosexuals under 30 are diagnosed as ADD/ADHD and medicated at a much higher rate than average. Does that matter?
How many of these killers are taking mind altering prescription drugs? have fathers in their lives? Have been abused? are addicted to porn? grew up playing violent video games?
This is an interesting observation. I would add the following: Gangs are a support system, its replaces family when the parents aren't doing their duty for whatever reason. So while gangs shoot and kill each other over turf, respect, revenge etc, they generally target a known enemy. And the urban gangs are mostly black or hispanic.2. White. Think about it. More white people versus any other group. Minorities tend to be urban where the troubled youth are sucked into gang life or other criminal endeavors. Further, urban schools in these areas are often more 'prepared' with resources that are built around gang and criminal activity that tends to make it not a 'soft target' like these suburban/rural schools that typically are not dealing with those same issues.
When did this happen?There one thing that all / most men want. We want women.
At some point women decided that bad behavior in men was now acceptable
Now this doesn't apply to shooters and such. But if women quit banging gang members there would be a lot less gang members.
Women have the power to change society. If women are taught and believe that killing their own unborn baby is no big deal. Then why are we shocked at the violence in our streets
Praying Mantises? (Manti?, Mantians?)Males are more aggressive than females in pretty much every species except maybe seahorses.
Spotted Hyena females are usually bigger and more dominant than males.Males are more aggressive than females in pretty much every species except maybe seahorses.
well, that explains the laughingSpotted Hyena females are usually bigger and more dominant than males.
They also have a "satan's doorbell" that is so large that it resembles a male member. Oh and they also look like they have a scrotum. ool
And scientists just messed that one up by labeling the wrong one as males.Males are more aggressive than females in pretty much every species except maybe seahorses.
Seriously? It's basic biology. Throw in some nurture argument and WALA!All true. And I don't know why.
I thought they made a new subforum dedicated to how terrible straight white males are. This thread should be moved there.1. Men are horrible and should be exterminated- yea feminism!
2. Whites are horrible and should be exterminated- yea everyone else!
3. Heterosexuals are horrible and should be extermindated- yea gays!
HTH
Oh so the old movies like Public Enemy and Scarface were lying, Roaring 20s gangsters didn't have tons of women around them? What about the casual acceptance of domestic violence against wives that existed up until only rather recently?While we were watching the Kardashian's ???
How about when they took prayer out of the classroom. Like that better? I'm pretty sure nobody can pinpoint when the shift happened.Oh so the old movies like Public Enemy and Scarface were lying, Roaring 20s gangsters didn't have tons of women around them? What about the casual acceptance of domestic violence against wives that existed up until only rather recently?
I'm just saying its how it has always been. All that chivalrous knights and genteel South are BS myths. People have always been the same.How about when they took prayer out of the classroom. Like that better? I'm pretty sure nobody can pinpoint when the shift happened.
Everything is fluid and has been since Adam ate the apple and the first ape slapped his enemy.
Can't believe it took 15-20 posts for that thread-closing comment.Small dong issues.
testersone & some stuff.Men commit murder at a rate of 9 times more than women. Men choose shooting and beating their victims much more as compared to more subtle methods that women tend choose to use.
For the love of God why?!?!?!?!
I just figured it was too hard to aim with your nose glued to your cellphone.Women like to kill people slowly. Just ask my wife.
Black Widows?Males are more aggressive than females in pretty much every species except maybe seahorses.
I have personally dealt this for decades. It took me a while to figure it out (kudos to wikkid for his part in helping me understand it).I think this is getting to a lot of the issue, but I have 0 clue what to do with it.
I think we tend to forget that our way of society is just a blip on the evolutionary scale. For thousands and thousands of years we needed our aggression to help with our small group of others - defense, getting food, reproduction, building, whatever. Now in the course of just a 100 or so years, all of that has been negated for the most part. No mandatory participation in military, as somebody else pointed out, there is no rite of passage of any sort, on an on. Our genetics are probably screaming as we sit on our asses at work all day. Add to that the lack of community as we no longer depend on each other on a small personal level for survival anymore. It's very new to us as a species and it just might be showing itself in some really weird and negative ways.
I agree with a lot of what you say here, except the bolded, unless I am misunderstanding you. I don't think we are socialized to be aggressive as kids through play and sports. I think being aggressive is genetically who we are. That's why sports are popular and boys love them, not the other way around.I have personally dealt this for decades. It took me a while to figure it out (kudos to wikkid for his part in helping me understand it).
Having grown up in sports and playing competitive football and basketball from ages 12-22, I developed some aggressive mental habits as well as my natural testosterone production. Then from 22 on, my focus and energy was placed on a desk job. An occasional rec league or pickup game was never enough to fill that void and when even those get taken away, I floundered...even to the point of depression.
Now that I'm 40, my testosterone is waning and I've changed careers to a more social, physical line of work. Those two things have allowed me to again feel "normal" or balanced.
While my life experience is vastly different from the typical mass shooters, I believe our issues are rooted in the same problem: we developed the aggressive fighting side of our lives through our childhood environments and as that mentality is suppressed and vilified, we don't know how to handle it. A kid who is abused/alone and lives in a dark world of violence gets out of HS and is told he is a loser, and a freak with no way to deal with his anger and aggression and the testosterone is still pumping. They then go to the fight (mass shooting) or flight (suicide) instinct. I'm sure there is more to it than that, but I imagine this plays a big part and is why girls never get there, they just don't have the testosterone driving and developing that outward aggression.
"Developed" may not have been the right word. I was trying to say that we nurtured or encouraged our aggression through our childhood environments. I agree it is there naturally, but that it is also increased through encouragement and use.I agree with a lot of what you say here, except the bolded, unless I am misunderstanding you. I don't think we are socialized to be aggressive as kids through play and sports. I think being aggressive is genetically who we are. That's why sports are popular and boys love them, not the other way around.
I may have misunderstood what you were getting at though.
It's a big nature vs nurture question for sure, but I don't really think there is a way to rid males of aggressive tendencies. I think definitely different males have different levels (just as we have different levels of testosterone), but to think we could get to a point where we can just teach males to not be aggressive, competitive, active, etc is wrong. It doesn't work."Developed" may not have been the right word. I was trying to say that we nurtured or encouraged our aggression through our childhood environments. I agree it is there naturally, but that it is also increased through encouragement and use.
As someone who doesn't have kids, I'd be interested to hear more from parents and teachers who can relate to how things have changed since we grew up. Is the lack of socialization really as drastic as people say? How does social media affect kids? Stuff like that.It's a big nature vs nurture question for sure, but I don't really think there is a way to rid males of aggressive tendencies. I think definitely different males have different levels (just as we have different levels of testosterone), but to think we could get to a point where we can just teach males to not be aggressive, competitive, active, etc is wrong. It doesn't work.
A big problem I see in schools today is that they are geared for how girls work. I look at my boys days in their middle school (they are now both in high school, which is only slightly better) and it would have driven me crazy. Gym class only twice a week. Very short period of recess, where it isn't "cool" for the older kids to actively play anything. Then sit still in a class room for 8 hours a day while you have hormones and energy levels going crazy. It's insanity.
And something Jayrod helped me understand when we were batting this around years ago was the role of faith in heading all this off. This ol' heathen ended up pointing J more deeply into his beliefs simply because it resolved him better than society could.I have personally dealt this for decades. It took me a while to figure it out (kudos to wikkid for his part in helping me understand it).
Having grown up in sports and playing competitive football and basketball from ages 12-22, I developed some aggressive mental habits as well as my natural testosterone production. Then from 22 on, my focus and energy was placed on a desk job. An occasional rec league or pickup game was never enough to fill that void and when even those get taken away, I floundered...even to the point of depression.
Now that I'm 40, my testosterone is waning and I've changed careers to a more social, physical line of work. Those two things have allowed me to again feel "normal" or balanced.
While my life experience is vastly different from the typical mass shooters, I believe our issues are rooted in the same problem: we developed the aggressive fighting side of our lives through our childhood environments and as that mentality is suppressed and vilified, we don't know how to handle it. A kid who is abused/alone and lives in a dark world of violence gets out of HS and is told he is a loser, and a freak with no way to deal with his anger and aggression and the testosterone is still pumping. They then go to the fight (mass shooting) or flight (suicide) instinct. I'm sure there is more to it than that, but I imagine this plays a big part and is why girls never get there, they just don't have the testosterone driving and developing that outward aggression.
Are you suggesting that a lower churchgoing population is contributing to more school shootings?wikkidpissah said:And something Jayrod helped me understand when we were batting this around years ago was the role of faith in heading all this off. This ol' heathen ended up pointing J more deeply into his beliefs simply because it resolved him better than society could.
When our culture decided, a couple of gens ago, that personal freedom was the way to go, we threw ginormous babies out with the bathwater. We fairly well just tossed two pillars of society - parish & community - and severely altered another, family, as it had been known for millenia. In the end, this was probably for the best, but deciding to go out on a limb AND prune some branches at the same time might not have been the best idea.
I grew up knowing precisely what the world wanted from me. I was to believe and behave precisely as my ancestors had, only with more hope & charity to go with the faith due to improved circumstances. It may seem weird to people used to body art and multifarious personal & gender identifications but, in the world i was born into, if your cousin or brother-in-law got fired or divorced or tested community standards in any way with "unacceptable" displays of individuality, your entire family suffered the consequences. And belief was ingrained, more or less - if things went awry, not only did you have a handbook to go to but plenty of folks looking to hand you one if you'd tossed yours.
Then vroomp, we're all out there practicing the trick of who we are as individuals and, oh look, we've thrown away the net. In fact, a lot of the netminders are soooo pissed over losing their jobs that they're setting up spikes in the landing zones.
So, the first generation free to believe whatever they wanted chose largely to believe in nothing. Worse, they chose to believe in themselves. At the same time, we began watching boxes all evening fairly well based in schooling our selfishness. Bad luck, really. The theory of how that boobytrapped our insides is too involved for these pages, but it is there from which our shooters spring.
One might make that connection, but that is far away from what i am implying. The lack of trustworthy answers for those fending for themselves behaviorally is most certainly a contributor, however.Are you suggesting that a lower churchgoing population is contributing to more school shootings?
I think we could say the lack of being locked into a church community heading this off before it gets to a shooting spree is contributing.Are you suggesting that a lower churchgoing population is contributing to more school shootings?
I would disagree and don't think you can say that.I think we could say the lack of being locked into a church community heading this off before it gets to a shooting spree is contributing.
Women are just as aggressive as men. They just prefer passive aggressiveness to physical aggressiveness.Males are more aggressive than females in pretty much every species except maybe seahorses.
Women have as much rage as men. But passive aggression is not aggression.Women are just as aggressive as men. They just prefer passive aggressiveness to physical aggressiveness.