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Making stuff up out of thin air now Rich?5. tommyGunZ and timschochet immediately jump to "OMG racism!?WTF!?!?!" 100% believable.
Making stuff up out of thin air now Rich?5. tommyGunZ and timschochet immediately jump to "OMG racism!?WTF!?!?!" 100% believable.
Fair enough. 98% believable.Making stuff up out of thin air now Rich?5. tommyGunZ and timschochet immediately jump to "OMG racism!?WTF!?!?!" 100% believable.
Pretty much my only thought on this whole situation, but I looked on Google images and she is not hot.She looks hot. I would open her can.
Makeup and tons of coverings can do wonders.Pretty much my only thought on this whole situation, but I looked on Google images and she is not hot.She looks hot. I would open her can.
LOOK AT ME! I DON'T DRINKPretty much my only thought on this whole situation, but I looked on Google images and she is not hot.She looks hot. I would open her can.
Good call...TGz post is just a back handed and disgusting attempt to attack one of the better posters here...Interesting that you immediately take a reasonable question by someone as 'outrage' just because you disagree with their politics.tommyGunZ said:Interesting that this is the kind of thing that sets off Andy's outrage meter.
Speaks volumes.
It would speak volumes if we didn't already know all about you.
magic carpet ride down?She should have just taken a flying horse.
:whoosh:I always ask for a "can of Coke" so I don't get stuck with a small glass. I've never been refused on a flight. If the woman didn't want anybody touching her drink why didn't she bring her own on board?
At games most of the time they keep the cap from your bottle so it's not as much of a weapon. I was never offended by this nor did I think the vendor was making a veiled reference that I was a terrorist.
Is anybody else surprised that women can be Muslim Chaplains? Is that true in middle eastern countries as well?
Yeah, she could have just put what he said into her own words.ShamrockPride said:I believe that the guy said that to her. The fact is most people would just look down and avoid eye contact in such a confrontation that they watched play out.
The second part where the pilot said that stuff...that definitely didn't happen. He probably apologized, but to bring up "white privilege?" FOH.
I guess there could always be a tone in someone's post that I don't pick up on, but outrage?tommyGunZ said:Interesting that this is the kind of thing that sets off Andy's outrage meter.
Speaks volumes.
tl;drI am fairly skeptical of this. From what I can see there the entire thing is what the Muslim woman says happened. This is on a plane so obviously there would have been multiple witnesses of at least the guy turning around and yelling at her. Has anyone commented about it? Anyone else post anything on social media? I mean, that would be something I would expect a number of people to post about.
Here is the thing. Racism and prejudice absolutely do exist. But not everything that happens to someone of a minority group is because of that. Yet, if you end up with a victim mentality that everything is about racism then guess what happens? You see it in every circumstance.
A perfect example of this. A colleague of mine in the same position and the same location. On customer service surveys if we do not get all "5" ratings (top rating) on all ratings then we fail. It is not easy. Both of us whom are in the top 5% within our company would end up talking about the surveys that we fell short on. For me, I looked at various circumstances like we work in an affluent market which tends to have higher standards on customer service and not overly generous in giving all 5's. For him? It was because he was black. No other reason. Great guy and we are on that fence of work friends/real friends but if something bad happens- it is because he is black. A customer does not like him? Because he is black. A customer does not buy a product from him? Because he is black. A customer yells at him? Because he is black.
On top of that, you have the people who use the racism card as a weapon. In my industry, I have been the victim of this on so many occasions, I can not begin to have an idea of how many times. From somewhat veiled remarks to outright accusations. When you have this happen to you and you know the situation has absolutely nothing to do with race, you become skeptical in all other instances.
Finally, we are getting bombarded with the leftist narrative about race. Most recently in the form of police use of force. When you have situations that all people know is that the police officer is white and the person who died is black and then they are off to the racism races, it gets tiring and again, you start to wonder about even the genuine times there was racism because the law of averages say that it is not all racism.
Now I am generally skeptical of most anything these days when it comes to some form of political/social narrative, whether it is from the right or the left perspective. It is like how I refuse to open up anything in my facebook feed that says "Blah blah blah and what happens next left me in tears" Or "Blah blah blach and you wont believe what they did" or whatever other form because it is all stuff pumped up to get your attention. Whether it is some stupid thing on facebook or some political/social narrative, the more outrageous the more likely it is that it is either a lie, half truth or being presented in the extreme. That is kind of how I see this.
You know, in a series of 3 ounce bottles that all fit in a gallon zip lock.:whoosh:I always ask for a "can of Coke" so I don't get stuck with a small glass. I've never been refused on a flight. If the woman didn't want anybody touching her drink why didn't she bring her own on board?
At games most of the time they keep the cap from your bottle so it's not as much of a weapon. I was never offended by this nor did I think the vendor was making a veiled reference that I was a terrorist.
Is anybody else surprised that women can be Muslim Chaplains? Is that true in middle eastern countries as well?
Or one you buy once past TSA.You know, in a series of 3 ounce bottles that all fit in a gallon zip lock.:whoosh:I always ask for a "can of Coke" so I don't get stuck with a small glass. I've never been refused on a flight. If the woman didn't want anybody touching her drink why didn't she bring her own on board?
At games most of the time they keep the cap from your bottle so it's not as much of a weapon. I was never offended by this nor did I think the vendor was making a veiled reference that I was a terrorist.
Is anybody else surprised that women can be Muslim Chaplains? Is that true in middle eastern countries as well?
My favorite Snoop line!Yeah, she could have just put what he said into her own words.ShamrockPride said:I believe that the guy said that to her. The fact is most people would just look down and avoid eye contact in such a confrontation that they watched play out.
The second part where the pilot said that stuff...that definitely didn't happen. He probably apologized, but to bring up "white privilege?" FOH.
"He mean Lexus but he ain't know it."
Yeah, I can't believe she didn't pay $6 for a can of coke so she wouldn't have to ask a flight attendant not to open one and just hand it to her. Nervy woman.Or one you buy once past TSA.You know, in a series of 3 ounce bottles that all fit in a gallon zip lock.:whoosh:I always ask for a "can of Coke" so I don't get stuck with a small glass. I've never been refused on a flight. If the woman didn't want anybody touching her drink why didn't she bring her own on board?
At games most of the time they keep the cap from your bottle so it's not as much of a weapon. I was never offended by this nor did I think the vendor was making a veiled reference that I was a terrorist.
Is anybody else surprised that women can be Muslim Chaplains? Is that true in middle eastern countries as well?
No we can't because it's very real.- can we stop with the white privilege bull#### already?
Great post Chad. Couldn't have said it better myself. It's very difficult to break out of a victim mentality. I do a lot of work with recovering drug addicts and the ones who are most successful are the ones who refuse to even look at how they were victimized, but instead focus of their own responsibility and their own actions, both in the past and going forward.I am fairly skeptical of this. From what I can see there the entire thing is what the Muslim woman says happened. This is on a plane so obviously there would have been multiple witnesses of at least the guy turning around and yelling at her. Has anyone commented about it? Anyone else post anything on social media? I mean, that would be something I would expect a number of people to post about.
Here is the thing. Racism and prejudice absolutely do exist. But not everything that happens to someone of a minority group is because of that. Yet, if you end up with a victim mentality that everything is about racism then guess what happens? You see it in every circumstance.
A perfect example of this. A colleague of mine in the same position and the same location. On customer service surveys if we do not get all "5" ratings (top rating) on all ratings then we fail. It is not easy. Both of us whom are in the top 5% within our company would end up talking about the surveys that we fell short on. For me, I looked at various circumstances like we work in an affluent market which tends to have higher standards on customer service and not overly generous in giving all 5's. For him? It was because he was black. No other reason. Great guy and we are on that fence of work friends/real friends but if something bad happens- it is because he is black. A customer does not like him? Because he is black. A customer does not buy a product from him? Because he is black. A customer yells at him? Because he is black.
On top of that, you have the people who use the racism card as a weapon. In my industry, I have been the victim of this on so many occasions, I can not begin to have an idea of how many times. From somewhat veiled remarks to outright accusations. When you have this happen to you and you know the situation has absolutely nothing to do with race, you become skeptical in all other instances.
Finally, we are getting bombarded with the leftist narrative about race. Most recently in the form of police use of force. When you have situations that all people know is that the police officer is white and the person who died is black and then they are off to the racism races, it gets tiring and again, you start to wonder about even the genuine times there was racism because the law of averages say that it is not all racism.
Now I am generally skeptical of most anything these days when it comes to some form of political/social narrative, whether it is from the right or the left perspective. It is like how I refuse to open up anything in my facebook feed that says "Blah blah blah and what happens next left me in tears" Or "Blah blah blach and you wont believe what they did" or whatever other form because it is all stuff pumped up to get your attention. Whether it is some stupid thing on facebook or some political/social narrative, the more outrageous the more likely it is that it is either a lie, half truth or being presented in the extreme. That is kind of how I see this.
I see.Great post Chad. Couldn't have said it better myself. It's very difficult to break out of a victim mentality. I do a lot of work with recovering drug addicts and the ones who are most successful are the ones who refuse to even look at how they were victimized, but instead focus of their own responsibility and their own actions, both in the past and going forward.I am fairly skeptical of this. From what I can see there the entire thing is what the Muslim woman says happened. This is on a plane so obviously there would have been multiple witnesses of at least the guy turning around and yelling at her. Has anyone commented about it? Anyone else post anything on social media? I mean, that would be something I would expect a number of people to post about.
Here is the thing. Racism and prejudice absolutely do exist. But not everything that happens to someone of a minority group is because of that. Yet, if you end up with a victim mentality that everything is about racism then guess what happens? You see it in every circumstance.
A perfect example of this. A colleague of mine in the same position and the same location. On customer service surveys if we do not get all "5" ratings (top rating) on all ratings then we fail. It is not easy. Both of us whom are in the top 5% within our company would end up talking about the surveys that we fell short on. For me, I looked at various circumstances like we work in an affluent market which tends to have higher standards on customer service and not overly generous in giving all 5's. For him? It was because he was black. No other reason. Great guy and we are on that fence of work friends/real friends but if something bad happens- it is because he is black. A customer does not like him? Because he is black. A customer does not buy a product from him? Because he is black. A customer yells at him? Because he is black.
On top of that, you have the people who use the racism card as a weapon. In my industry, I have been the victim of this on so many occasions, I can not begin to have an idea of how many times. From somewhat veiled remarks to outright accusations. When you have this happen to you and you know the situation has absolutely nothing to do with race, you become skeptical in all other instances.
Finally, we are getting bombarded with the leftist narrative about race. Most recently in the form of police use of force. When you have situations that all people know is that the police officer is white and the person who died is black and then they are off to the racism races, it gets tiring and again, you start to wonder about even the genuine times there was racism because the law of averages say that it is not all racism.
Now I am generally skeptical of most anything these days when it comes to some form of political/social narrative, whether it is from the right or the left perspective. It is like how I refuse to open up anything in my facebook feed that says "Blah blah blah and what happens next left me in tears" Or "Blah blah blach and you wont believe what they did" or whatever other form because it is all stuff pumped up to get your attention. Whether it is some stupid thing on facebook or some political/social narrative, the more outrageous the more likely it is that it is either a lie, half truth or being presented in the extreme. That is kind of how I see this.
Yeah, well keep complaining about white privilege and see how far that advances a solution. There's a lot of white people out there who are struggling right now and I can assure you it sure doesn't feel like any privilege to them. It's what we call a non-starter, and the only thing it does is piss people off and turn them away from participating in the solution.No we can't because it's very real.There are certain people in society who are constantly under suspicion: young black males, young Hispanic males, and Middle Eastern looking people of all types. If you are unfortunate enough to be in one of these 3 groups, you have to deal with constant indignities: by police, at the airport, by officials of all types. If you are fortunate enough not to be one of these, particularly if you are white, you get certain benefits in society. Benefits in terms of not being harassed, in terms of economic and social opportunities. That's the way it is, and if you and others are sick of hearing people complain about it, then it needs to end.- can we stop with the white privilege bull#### already?
It's because you read what your eyes want you to read. Nowhere in my post did I even make the comparison to this lady. I wasn't talking about her at all. I was speaking to the general points made in the post by Chad. I already gave my opinion about what happened to Ahmad, and I said it was crappy if true.I see.So this very accomplished woman is not only a liar, but no different from a drug addict, and instead of complaining about this she needs to "focus on her own responsibility."Great post Chad. Couldn't have said it better myself. It's very difficult to break out of a victim mentality. I do a lot of work with recovering drug addicts and the ones who are most successful are the ones who refuse to even look at how they were victimized, but instead focus of their own responsibility and their own actions, both in the past and going forward.I am fairly skeptical of this. From what I can see there the entire thing is what the Muslim woman says happened. This is on a plane so obviously there would have been multiple witnesses of at least the guy turning around and yelling at her. Has anyone commented about it? Anyone else post anything on social media? I mean, that would be something I would expect a number of people to post about.
Here is the thing. Racism and prejudice absolutely do exist. But not everything that happens to someone of a minority group is because of that. Yet, if you end up with a victim mentality that everything is about racism then guess what happens? You see it in every circumstance.
A perfect example of this. A colleague of mine in the same position and the same location. On customer service surveys if we do not get all "5" ratings (top rating) on all ratings then we fail. It is not easy. Both of us whom are in the top 5% within our company would end up talking about the surveys that we fell short on. For me, I looked at various circumstances like we work in an affluent market which tends to have higher standards on customer service and not overly generous in giving all 5's. For him? It was because he was black. No other reason. Great guy and we are on that fence of work friends/real friends but if something bad happens- it is because he is black. A customer does not like him? Because he is black. A customer does not buy a product from him? Because he is black. A customer yells at him? Because he is black.
On top of that, you have the people who use the racism card as a weapon. In my industry, I have been the victim of this on so many occasions, I can not begin to have an idea of how many times. From somewhat veiled remarks to outright accusations. When you have this happen to you and you know the situation has absolutely nothing to do with race, you become skeptical in all other instances.
Finally, we are getting bombarded with the leftist narrative about race. Most recently in the form of police use of force. When you have situations that all people know is that the police officer is white and the person who died is black and then they are off to the racism races, it gets tiring and again, you start to wonder about even the genuine times there was racism because the law of averages say that it is not all racism.
Now I am generally skeptical of most anything these days when it comes to some form of political/social narrative, whether it is from the right or the left perspective. It is like how I refuse to open up anything in my facebook feed that says "Blah blah blah and what happens next left me in tears" Or "Blah blah blach and you wont believe what they did" or whatever other form because it is all stuff pumped up to get your attention. Whether it is some stupid thing on facebook or some political/social narrative, the more outrageous the more likely it is that it is either a lie, half truth or being presented in the extreme. That is kind of how I see this.
I can't believe some of the things I read in this forum. I really can't.
Small price to pay to guarantee no one touches your soda can or what ever ridiculous thing she wants.Yeah, I can't believe she didn't pay $6 for a can of coke so she wouldn't have to ask a flight attendant not to open one and just hand it to her. Nervy woman.Or one you buy once past TSA.You know, in a series of 3 ounce bottles that all fit in a gallon zip lock.:whoosh:I always ask for a "can of Coke" so I don't get stuck with a small glass. I've never been refused on a flight. If the woman didn't want anybody touching her drink why didn't she bring her own on board?
At games most of the time they keep the cap from your bottle so it's not as much of a weapon. I was never offended by this nor did I think the vendor was making a veiled reference that I was a terrorist.
Is anybody else surprised that women can be Muslim Chaplains? Is that true in middle eastern countries as well?
Don't need to make up stuff where you're concerned.Making stuff up out of thin air now Rich?5. tommyGunZ and timschochet immediately jump to "OMG racism!?WTF!?!?!" 100% believable.
You captured all that quite well.1. Flight attendant treated a can of Coke (complimentary, and policy on United is not to give full can, but merely a small cup) differently than a beer (not complimentary)? 100% believable.
2. Flight attendant claimed it was because passenger might use unopened can as a weapon? Not very believable.
3. Passenger across the aisle screamed about Muslims and weapons? Not very believable.
4. Pilot apologized re: white guilt and privilege? 0% believable.
5. tommyGunZ and timschochet immediately jump to "OMG racism!?WTF!?!?!" 100% believable.
Due to the obvious lie regarding the pilot, I'll assume that points number 2 and 3 are also false.
And how did they hijack your plane, captain? They threatened to shake an unopened can of coke & spray people with it. Coke can be quite corrosive.You captured all that quite well.1. Flight attendant treated a can of Coke (complimentary, and policy on United is not to give full can, but merely a small cup) differently than a beer (not complimentary)? 100% believable.
2. Flight attendant claimed it was because passenger might use unopened can as a weapon? Not very believable.
3. Passenger across the aisle screamed about Muslims and weapons? Not very believable.
4. Pilot apologized re: white guilt and privilege? 0% believable.
5. tommyGunZ and timschochet immediately jump to "OMG racism!?WTF!?!?!" 100% believable.
Due to the obvious lie regarding the pilot, I'll assume that points number 2 and 3 are also false.
Laughable. So it needs to end by white people committing crimes more, like those poor unfortunate groups you mentioned? Nobody decided to "profile" them for no reason whatsoever.No we can't because it's very real.- can we stop with the white privilege bull#### already?
There are certain people in society who are constantly under suspicion: young black males, young Hispanic males, and Middle Eastern looking people of all types. If you are unfortunate enough to be in one of these 3 groups, you have to deal with constant indignities: by police, at the airport, by officials of all types. If you are fortunate enough not to be one of these, particularly if you are white, you get certain benefits in society. Benefits in terms of not being harassed, in terms of economic and social opportunities. That's the way it is, and if you and others are sick of hearing people complain about it, then it needs to end.
How dare anyone point out the fact that discrimination still exists in far more subtle ways. We don't want to piss off white people!Yeah, well keep complaining about white privilege and see how far that advances a solution. There's a lot of white people out there who are struggling right now and I can assure you it sure doesn't feel like any privilege to them. It's what we call a non-starter, and the only thing it does is piss people off and turn them away from participating in the solution.No we can't because it's very real.There are certain people in society who are constantly under suspicion: young black males, young Hispanic males, and Middle Eastern looking people of all types. If you are unfortunate enough to be in one of these 3 groups, you have to deal with constant indignities: by police, at the airport, by officials of all types. If you are fortunate enough not to be one of these, particularly if you are white, you get certain benefits in society. Benefits in terms of not being harassed, in terms of economic and social opportunities. That's the way it is, and if you and others are sick of hearing people complain about it, then it needs to end.- can we stop with the white privilege bull#### already?
I wonder how many people think that same thing when reading your posts...I can't believe some of the things I read in this forum. I really can't.
Sounds like your typical leftist message board poster to me.Andy Dufresne said:Muslim chaplain claims discrimination on United flight
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Am I being naive?
Oh wait, there's more.
In a Facebook post she claims that the pilot "...also apologized for everything and said that as a white male he recognized his privilege and said he didn't know what it must be like to be a minority and go through something hateful like this." There is ZERO chance he said this.
It dos seem more like a prepared statement. Perhaps there is company protocol for standard apologies by white males which was written by the airlines legal department, and vetted by their H.R. and P.R. people. Maybe right next to the flight manual in the cockpit is a protocols manual for employees and he was reciting the playbook.Sounds like your typical leftist message board poster to me.Andy Dufresne said:Muslim chaplain claims discrimination on United flight
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Am I being naive?
Oh wait, there's more.
In a Facebook post she claims that the pilot "...also apologized for everything and said that as a white male he recognized his privilege and said he didn't know what it must be like to be a minority and go through something hateful like this." There is ZERO chance he said this.
Try throwing an open can vs. an unopened can. You can get a lot more velocity on the unopened can mainly because the opened can loses velocity/energy with the fluid spilling out all over the place.What a world. A kerfuffle over beverage service on a flight becomes a litmus test for bigotry. Maybe this can be viewed as a glass of coke half full, rather than half empty moment. Maybe we have come far. She invokes Dr. King. He was fighting some rather fundamental issues. She is addressing remnants of attitudes.
I am unclear how the can may be used as a weapon. I guess malleable metal ban be fashioned into a cutting edge. I am unclear how the opened or unopened aspect makes a can more dangerous. I trust someone will provide an answer. I mean, just because it is not apparent to me does not make it so.
I wonder what I would have done, if anything, had a male passenger addressed a female in that manner in my presence. I suppose it is possible that people and their issues can lead to such behavior, but I have rarely witnessed such quick and rude escalation of behavior, though I guess I have occasionally seen strange, incongruous, to me at least, reactions in my time.
Do we still have Air Marshalls on flights? If so would they file reports on their view of such incidents? Are Air Marshall reports public documents, or are they subject to some national security privilege against production?
I am not prepared to make sweeping societal pronouncements from what seems an anomalous and isolated incident. I guess some will argue this was not single, or isolated, but part of a pattern they discern.
When part of your experience is getting yelled at because you are Muslim (the man was pretty clear).... what does left or right have to do with it?The problem with the takes of tommy, tim and some others on the far left is that they assume any time anything negative happens to a muslim, black or hispanic, that it is because of racism. Are those groups discriminated against far too much? Absolutely, but jumping to the race card every single time is why, for many, it sounds old and tired. Yes, sometimes, race is a major factor, and when that can be shown without much doubt, the perpetrators should be called it, but jumping to the conclusion every time is just wrong.
This is one of the most racists things Ive read on this board.....and thats saying a lot.No we can't because it's very real.- can we stop with the white privilege bull#### already?
There are certain people in society who are constantly under suspicion: young black males, young Hispanic males, and Middle Eastern looking people of all types. If you are unfortunate enough to be in one of these 3 groups, you have to deal with constant indignities: by police, at the airport, by officials of all types. If you are fortunate enough not to be one of these, particularly if you are white, you get certain benefits in society. Benefits in terms of not being harassed, in terms of economic and social opportunities. That's the way it is, and if you and others are sick of hearing people complain about it, then it needs to end.
Yeah it tells you the story was all over social media. And that's about it.FWIW, I see no reason not to believe her story at this time. The statement from United tells me that something certainly did happen.
Oh, you corporate defense attorneys.Yeah it tells you the story was all over social media. And that's about it.FWIW, I see no reason not to believe her story at this time. The statement from United tells me that something certainly did happen.
They banned unopened drinks at sports events too. This (IIRC) started at the MNF Saints-Jets game where Kyle Turley threw his helmet onto the field at the outrageous injustice of the refs not calling a flagrant foul on the Jets, and when he was thrown out the fans started throwing their bottles onto the field, creating quite the dangerous scenario. That was a national tragedy, thank the stars this horrible practice is now banned.What a world. A kerfuffle over beverage service on a flight becomes a litmus test for bigotry. Maybe this can be viewed as a glass of coke half full, rather than half empty moment. Maybe we have come far. She invokes Dr. King. He was fighting some rather fundamental issues. She is addressing remnants of attitudes.
I am unclear how the can may be used as a weapon. I guess malleable metal ban be fashioned into a cutting edge. I am unclear how the opened or unopened aspect makes a can more dangerous. I trust someone will provide an answer. I mean, just because it is not apparent to me does not make it so.
I wonder what I would have done, if anything, had a male passenger addressed a female in that manner in my presence. I suppose it is possible that people and their issues can lead to such behavior, but I have rarely witnessed such quick and rude escalation of behavior, though I guess I have occasionally seen strange, incongruous, to me at least, reactions in my time.
Do we still have Air Marshalls on flights? If so would they file reports on their view of such incidents? Are Air Marshall reports public documents, or are they subject to some national security privilege against production?
I am not prepared to make sweeping societal pronouncements from what seems an anomalous and isolated incident. I guess some will argue this was not single, or isolated, but part of a pattern they discern.