I passed on the job!
It would be my dream job (working with Yankees, Mets, Jets, Giants among other things)...at age 33 and single.
I decided not my dream job nearing 40, married, and trying to start a family.
I ultimately decided against it for three reasons:
1) Cost of living equation. 30% pay increase not close to covering, especially since wife would have to quit her job.
2) It's not a straight promotion. It's the same job title with a 'senior' added to it, and 50% more volume. But I currently work out of the corp office, hang out on weekends with my bosses, play golf with the President, etc. I think I'm inline for something here in the Corp Office that would be a promotion....especially considering a conversation I had with a VP about this offer.
3) Family and quality of life. All of our family lives in the SE, and we both love the climate here.
Breaks my heart to pass on it...and I really don't want my turn down to be viewed negatively (don't think it will)....but I hope I'm doing the responsible thing.