NV- seriously... check this thread. There have been a bunch of people who have come through for visits and posted their itineraries after checking back and forth with the local yocals; those would be a great place to start.
What kind of things are you guys interested in? Where are you staying?
I always recommend to try and cluster activities around neighborhoods to avoid having to schlep (that's NY-talk) all around the city every day. What those activities are will be completely up to you guys though.
We're staying at the W Hoboken, because prices are insane the weekend we're travelling with the NYC Marathon.I haven't been before, so we'll do some touristy stuff (statue of liberty, museum of natural history, rockefeller plaza). I like music, sports and beer but from the looks of things, the Yankees will be eliminated and hockey won't be on. There aren't a ton of bands in the city that I want to see on these particular days either, which is a bit disappointing but this is when the wife and I can get away together, so what can you do.
I've looked into the tour of the Brooklyn Brewery. I'd like to check out Williamsburg as well, so may spend an afternoon in this area (maybe do the brooklyn bridge thing on the way back).
My wife is a runner and wants to run in Central Park. We may also do the bike rental here.
We may or may not see a show, likely won't do the zoo. We spend a lot of time in Toronto, so don't necessarily want to do big-city things we can do at home, more uniquely New York type stuff. We're not foodies but would probably go for one big classy meal, and I love a good pub.
We're both up for a lot of walking, and that's our preferred way to go place to place, obviously with the subway being a big factor as well.
Would love recommendations on pubs, pizza joints
Half-Baked Itinerary so far
Thursday:
7AM - Leave
5PM - Arrive at W Hoboken
8PM - Jerry Seinfeld Live at Staten Island
Friday (Tourist Day)
9AM - Central Park Bike Tour
11:30AM - Museum of Natural History
2PM - Rockefeller/Fifth Avenue/Top of the Rock/Dinner/Shopping
8PM - Show?/Times Square? (thinking a show would be slightly less on this night then Saturday) - would likely try for 50% off from TKTS for show, not too picky and not willing to pay $250+ for Book of Mormon.
Saturday
9AM - Ellis Island/Liberty Island Cruise
12PM - South St. Seaport/Wall Street
2PM - Afternoon in Williamsburg/Brooklyn Brewery Tour?
5PM - Brooklyn Bridge (back to Manhattan)
Evening - ?
Sunday
9AM - Find vantage point for NYC Marathon
10:30AM - Jogging in Central Park
Noon - Tom's Restaurant (Seinfeld)
Afternoon - ?
Evening - ?
Monday
Leave - Cooperstown on the way home.
Other things I'm sort of considering...
Thursday night, depending when we get in, Fountains of Wayne have a concert in Morristown, NJ... definitely not the NYC concert experience I was expecting but I do love this band. Jerry Seinfeld also has a show on Staten Island this night but it's sold out, so I'd have to pay big on StubHub and also likely skip Cooperstown.
I've read some of the itineraries, not to mention 100 things on tripadvisor, etc... looking for unique things.