Politician Spock
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Given we are currently living in what could be the worst financial period any of us experience in our lifetimes, some members of this community will be experiencing financial nightmares. The purpose of this thread is to help them through their nightmares. In order to be of help, certain rules must be followed:
RULES FOR THIS THREAD
Rule 1) Treat others in this thread with the same amount of respect that is required in the suicide thread. Even the consideration of having to file bankruptcy is a very emotional filled thought process, and sharing those thoughts, while beneficial, can be very difficult for one to do. In order to be an effective support group, people need to feel safe to share in this thread. Anything that could possibly make someone regret sharing what they shared is considered a violation of this rule.
Rule 2) Anything shared in this thread stays in this thread. In other words, do not take anything shared in this thread and use it in other threads for any reason. Even an insinuation elsewhere on this site that refers to something posted in this thread is a violation of this rule.
Rule 3) Do not ask for legal advice in this thread. If you need legal advice (and you probably do if you are already considering bankruptcy) then you need to ask those legal questions to a lawyer. If you cannot afford a bankruptcy lawyer, there are service such as Upsolve.org that can provide you access to free or cost effective legal assistance. This is not an endorsement of Upsolve.org. It is simply an example of a service for those who can’t afford bankruptcy attorneys. There are others. Please use them instead of attempting to use this thread in lieu of real legal assistance.
Rule 4) Do not give legal advice in this thread. Being a support group, this may seem impossible to avoid. If you think you’ve crossed the line, or are even in a gray area, please preface your post with “THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE. PLEASE SPEAK TO A LAWYER BEFORE ACTING ON ANY SUGGESTIONS IN THIS POST!”
Rule 5) Do not assume anything you read in this thread is legal advice.
Rule 6) Keep politics out of this thread. This should be assumed given this thread is in the Free For All forum. However, what is considered political in this thread will be determined by a wide interpretation of what is political. For example, while sharing your personal opinion of whether or not a person should be able to file bankruptcy would likely not be considered political in another thread in the Free For All, it IS without any doubt considered political in this thread. It is also considered political to post any opinion of who or what is to blame for COVID-19 bankruptcies. This thread is for supporting those who are struggling with the possibility of having to file bankruptcy during this historic period of time that we are in, and not for sharing your opinion about bankruptcy. The use of "COVID-19" in the thread title is simply an acknowledgment that this current period in our nation's history is defined by the pandemic, and is not endorsing the belief that political decisions did not lead to more bankruptcies than the pandemic would have caused on its own.
Rule 7) Do your best to avoid arguments in this thread. Disagreement is allowed but will be given a short leash. It’s okay for a person struggling with bankruptcy to get opinions that disagree, but reading two people argue back and forth about who is right and who is wrong does not help the person who needs help.
Question: How are the thread rules enforced? Reporting a post will result in a site moderator applying the site rules to the post in question, just like in any other thread. However, while the moderator may be familiar with the rules of the this thread, do not assume they are. We cannot expect them to be enforcing different sets of rules for different threads throughout the site. So unless a post has violated a site rule, reporting a post in this thread will likely not produce the outcome you were hoping for in regards to the thread rules above. To get a thread rule above enforced, please PM a Thread Ombudsman. A thread ombudsman is appointed by the site moderators as someone familiar with and willing to enforce the thread rules. While you may receive warnings and have your posts reported by them, Thread Ombudsmen do NOT have any power to punish your site account. The only power a thread ombudsman has is to share their opinion of your compliance/non-compliance of the thread rules to the site moderators. The site moderators can reject a thread ombudsman's opinion, and may even ask other thread ombudsmen to share their opinion as well before taking any action. Any power to take action on your site account due to a rule violation of this thread is 100% held by the site moderators and will reflect the same standards they use for the site rules. The ombudsman process is simply to reduce the burden on site moderators of having to have detailed knowledge of specific thread rules such as this thread needs. If you think you'll be treated unfairly by a current thread ombudsman, then you can either take a chance that the site moderators will ignore the opinion of the thread ombudsman when they report you, or simply avoid posting in this thread.
Current Thread Ombudsmen (appointed and removed by site moderators):
@Politician Spock
RULES FOR THIS THREAD
Rule 1) Treat others in this thread with the same amount of respect that is required in the suicide thread. Even the consideration of having to file bankruptcy is a very emotional filled thought process, and sharing those thoughts, while beneficial, can be very difficult for one to do. In order to be an effective support group, people need to feel safe to share in this thread. Anything that could possibly make someone regret sharing what they shared is considered a violation of this rule.
Rule 2) Anything shared in this thread stays in this thread. In other words, do not take anything shared in this thread and use it in other threads for any reason. Even an insinuation elsewhere on this site that refers to something posted in this thread is a violation of this rule.
Rule 3) Do not ask for legal advice in this thread. If you need legal advice (and you probably do if you are already considering bankruptcy) then you need to ask those legal questions to a lawyer. If you cannot afford a bankruptcy lawyer, there are service such as Upsolve.org that can provide you access to free or cost effective legal assistance. This is not an endorsement of Upsolve.org. It is simply an example of a service for those who can’t afford bankruptcy attorneys. There are others. Please use them instead of attempting to use this thread in lieu of real legal assistance.
Rule 4) Do not give legal advice in this thread. Being a support group, this may seem impossible to avoid. If you think you’ve crossed the line, or are even in a gray area, please preface your post with “THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE. PLEASE SPEAK TO A LAWYER BEFORE ACTING ON ANY SUGGESTIONS IN THIS POST!”
Rule 5) Do not assume anything you read in this thread is legal advice.
Rule 6) Keep politics out of this thread. This should be assumed given this thread is in the Free For All forum. However, what is considered political in this thread will be determined by a wide interpretation of what is political. For example, while sharing your personal opinion of whether or not a person should be able to file bankruptcy would likely not be considered political in another thread in the Free For All, it IS without any doubt considered political in this thread. It is also considered political to post any opinion of who or what is to blame for COVID-19 bankruptcies. This thread is for supporting those who are struggling with the possibility of having to file bankruptcy during this historic period of time that we are in, and not for sharing your opinion about bankruptcy. The use of "COVID-19" in the thread title is simply an acknowledgment that this current period in our nation's history is defined by the pandemic, and is not endorsing the belief that political decisions did not lead to more bankruptcies than the pandemic would have caused on its own.
Rule 7) Do your best to avoid arguments in this thread. Disagreement is allowed but will be given a short leash. It’s okay for a person struggling with bankruptcy to get opinions that disagree, but reading two people argue back and forth about who is right and who is wrong does not help the person who needs help.
Question: How are the thread rules enforced? Reporting a post will result in a site moderator applying the site rules to the post in question, just like in any other thread. However, while the moderator may be familiar with the rules of the this thread, do not assume they are. We cannot expect them to be enforcing different sets of rules for different threads throughout the site. So unless a post has violated a site rule, reporting a post in this thread will likely not produce the outcome you were hoping for in regards to the thread rules above. To get a thread rule above enforced, please PM a Thread Ombudsman. A thread ombudsman is appointed by the site moderators as someone familiar with and willing to enforce the thread rules. While you may receive warnings and have your posts reported by them, Thread Ombudsmen do NOT have any power to punish your site account. The only power a thread ombudsman has is to share their opinion of your compliance/non-compliance of the thread rules to the site moderators. The site moderators can reject a thread ombudsman's opinion, and may even ask other thread ombudsmen to share their opinion as well before taking any action. Any power to take action on your site account due to a rule violation of this thread is 100% held by the site moderators and will reflect the same standards they use for the site rules. The ombudsman process is simply to reduce the burden on site moderators of having to have detailed knowledge of specific thread rules such as this thread needs. If you think you'll be treated unfairly by a current thread ombudsman, then you can either take a chance that the site moderators will ignore the opinion of the thread ombudsman when they report you, or simply avoid posting in this thread.
Current Thread Ombudsmen (appointed and removed by site moderators):
@Politician Spock
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