***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (5 Viewers)

[jon_mx]

Looks like the dream run is over with the crazy nympho gang bang girl.

She had come out to LA for a six week teaching assignment, and now she's been reassigned to another state. Sigh. There goes all the free sex I could handle. She was seriously addicted to me, it was ridiculous. Completely insatiable and begged to get with me every moment of the day like my junk was magic. We hadn't known each other 20 minutes before the clothes came off and it was a week before I even got her name. And she was starting to look for another girl to join in the mix. Double sigh. At least I had a month of the craziest sex of my life. She promises to visit and wants to move here in a few years, so maybe we'll pick things up at a later date.

Which state is she moving to?

 

[Sarnoff]

Looks like the dream run is over with the crazy nympho gang bang girl.

She had come out to LA for a six week teaching assignment, and now she's been reassigned to another state. Sigh. There goes all the free sex I could handle. She was seriously addicted to me, it was ridiculous. Completely insatiable and begged to get with me every moment of the day like my junk was magic. We hadn't known each other 20 minutes before the clothes came off and it was a week before I even got her name. And she was starting to look for another girl to join in the mix. Double sigh. At least I had a month of the craziest sex of my life. She promises to visit and wants to move here in a few years, so maybe we'll pick things up at a later date.

Odds that this is something she does around town-- picks a new guy every 6 weeks?

She couldn't last six weeks without picking up a new guy. Barely six days. I don't mind at all, I'm not looking for "a relationship", just the sechs. We were both open about wanting things to remain "open".

 

[jonboltz]

Looks like the dream run is over with the crazy nympho gang bang girl.

She had come out to LA for a six week teaching assignment, and now she's been reassigned to another state. Sigh. There goes all the free sex I could handle. She was seriously addicted to me, it was ridiculous. Completely insatiable and begged to get with me every moment of the day like my junk was magic. We hadn't known each other 20 minutes before the clothes came off and it was a week before I even got her name. And she was starting to look for another girl to join in the mix. Double sigh. At least I had a month of the craziest sex of my life. She promises to visit and wants to move here in a few years, so maybe we'll pick things up at a later date.

Odds that this is something she does around town-- picks a new guy every 6 weeks?

She couldn't last six weeks without picking up a new guy. Barely six days. I don't mind at all, I'm not looking for "a relationship", just the sechs. We were both open about wanting things to remain "open".

I meant...that she isn't actually "moving for a teaching assignment". Just that your 6 weeks were up.

 

[Sarnoff]

Looks like the dream run is over with the crazy nympho gang bang girl.

She had come out to LA for a six week teaching assignment, and now she's been reassigned to another state. Sigh. There goes all the free sex I could handle. She was seriously addicted to me, it was ridiculous. Completely insatiable and begged to get with me every moment of the day like my junk was magic. We hadn't known each other 20 minutes before the clothes came off and it was a week before I even got her name. And she was starting to look for another girl to join in the mix. Double sigh. At least I had a month of the craziest sex of my life. She promises to visit and wants to move here in a few years, so maybe we'll pick things up at a later date.

Odds that this is something she does around town-- picks a new guy every 6 weeks?

She couldn't last six weeks without picking up a new guy. Barely six days. I don't mind at all, I'm not looking for "a relationship", just the sechs. We were both open about wanting things to remain "open".

I meant...that she isn't actually "moving for a teaching assignment". Just that your 6 weeks were up.

Ah, gotcha. Doubt that's the thing, the rest of the story checked out. She's a special-needs teacher with "Teach for America" and they assign teachers based on need pretty much on a whim. Six weeks in LA for summer, but then she got assigned to 2 years out of state.

Thinking of taking a vacation.

 

[bweiser]

anyone use zoosk on facebook?

 

[fantasycurse42]

Yea dude, unless there is sechs, please don't post details.

Went on the trip, had fun. Still in the friend zone. Yadda-yadda-yadda. Got laid a few times, and it was still good. Not bad I guess.

antsdown:

 

[Bogart]

Had a fun OKCupid date this weekend. Posted in the baseball forum, but should also post here.

Few beginning facts:

• So, I have had my kids for the month of July, so that meant zero dating for me. Before the month, I had not been "dating" much, had two FWBs that were pretty much taking care of things regarding companionship.
• Decided about halfway though the month, I need to actually start dating again. I had gotten lazy.
• Came across her profile, really thought she was cute, we matched up really well question wise and she had a lot of the same tastes as my in music (which has become more important to me)
• She states she is married, has been for 13 years, but her and her husband both want to try a Polyamorous relationship.
• I have been reading about Polyamory for years, even when I was married (my marriage trials and tribulations are well documented in the "Sex As A Weapon" thread in the FFA. I am coming around to believing that mentally we can be very happy with one mate, one person to build our legacy with, but physically, there is a natural want for more than one partner. And if you can find someone that feels the same way, and you can be open about it, why not have the best of both worlds?

So, we texted for a couple of weeks and hit it off, and finally went out Saturday as I was back free from being a single Dad. This was her first "first date" in over 16 years. She was really nervous and I promised that everything would be fine, but I was a bit nervous myself. (Side note, I did email her husband just to open up that channel of communication and make sure everything was cool. He ended his response with "have fun, treat her right and drive safe") Most first dates between 30-somethings include "you tell your divorce story, I'll tell mine, let's drink away our sad tales and make out". She didn't have that sad tale to tell.

I'm not super great at dating yet, but I do a good job of nailing first dates, and this was no exception. Great sushi dinner where I helped her learn how to use chopsticks and I ordered everything that a non-sushi eater would love. Great weather for a walk around downtown. Ended up at a new pub that I like where I got her the perfect beer for someone who doesn't drink beer. She was loving every bit of it.

Conversation was strange but comfortable. Music talk, kid talk, past history talk, pretty open talk about Polyamory, what she's looking for, what I'm looking for and what her husband is looking for (he just wants casual sex, she wants more relationship type situations, DUH)

She had stated she wanted to kiss at the very beginning of the date as to get that awkward moment out of the way. The opportunity didn't open up for that at the restaurant, but I did kiss her at the pub and she couldn't stop smiling after that. I walked her to her car in the parking garage and was in the process of saying "we should do this again" when she grabbed me and we made out like teenagers for a good 5 mins next to her car.

We will go out again, but still not sure where this ends up. Most couples that try Polyamory either end it quickly or get divorced because one gets jealous of the others attention. Or the trying of it was a last ditch effort to save their marriage and it didn't work.

Anyway, that's about it.

TL,DR: Cool date with cool married chick. Husband approved. Made out, no sex. Maybe next time.

 

[fantasycurse42]

Waiting on the follow-up. I don't understand how any man is cool with someone else nailing his wife. The fact that you had a conversation is even weirder.

You: "So does she put out? You think I can get her in the sack tonight?"

Him: "Should be a good time, she likes anal. Treat her good."

 

[EYLive]

This is odd to me too. But I'm pretty traditional.

 

[McGarnicle]

I wouldn't mind nailing a married chick, but the husband knowing and being okay with it seems creepy to me.

 

[Greggity]

Waiting on the follow-up. I don't understand how any man is cool with someone else nailing his wife. The fact that you had a conversation is even weirder.

You: "So does she put out? You think I can get her in the sack tonight?"

Him: "Should be a good time, she likes anal. Treat her good."

LOL so awkward! I met a couple of married women on match but at the time of the date i didnt know they were married. They told me afterward and couldnt understand why i didnt want to see them again. "Well, because you arent single and available like I AM" I cant do the screwing around with married women. Its a dead end and way too many single, available women out there

 

[Al O'Pecia]

I do a good job of nailing first dates, and this was no exception.

Made out, no sex. Maybe next time.

I thought you nailed this first date?

 

[Bogart]

I do a good job of nailing first dates, and this was no exception.

Made out, no sex. Maybe next time.

I thought you nailed this first date?

Solid point.

 

[jon_mx]

I do a good job of nailing first dates, and this was no exception.

Made out, no sex. Maybe next time.

I thought you nailed this first date?

Apparently he had a great routine, but failed to stick the landing.

 

[Joe T]

Got a weird voice message last night around 11:30.

All it said was, "Hi. This is.." and then hung up. She sounded very sexy. I have no idea who it was. I typically delete numbers from girls I've met that I know aren't going anywhere.

Anyway, I Googled the phone number which was of no help. Are there any other avenues to look up who might have left the message?

 

[McGarnicle]

Got a weird voice message last night around 11:30.

All it said was, "Hi. This is.." and then hung up. She sounded very sexy. I have no idea who it was. I typically delete numbers from girls I've met that I know aren't going anywhere.

Anyway, I Googled the phone number which was of no help. Are there any other avenues to look up who might have left the message?

Call her back tonight around 11:30 and see if she's up for hanging out.

 

[OC Zed]

Got a weird voice message last night around 11:30.

All it said was, "Hi. This is.." and then hung up. She sounded very sexy. I have no idea who it was. I typically delete numbers from girls I've met that I know aren't going anywhere.

Anyway, I Googled the phone number which was of no help. Are there any other avenues to look up who might have left the message?

Call her back Send her a dong pic tonight around 11:30 and see if she's up for hanging out.

Fixed

 

[Joe T]

Have three good dates lined up for the rest of the week. Honestly interested in all of them which is unusual. I wish they were a bit more spread out, but I can't really pass on any of these. Given how idating usually goes, one of them will get canceled or postponed so they may spread out on their own.

On another subject. Not sure if this has been discussed yet in this thread, but why are there so many scammy looking profiles on match. I'm seeing a lot of these 30 year old hot chicks that only have one photo and are have a target age range for much older guys. I quickly move on past these, but I'm wondering if it is just some scam where someone is making money off this somehow? Weird.

 

[OC Zed]

Got a weird voice message last night around 11:30.

All it said was, "Hi. This is.." and then hung up. She sounded very sexy. I have no idea who it was. I typically delete numbers from girls I've met that I know aren't going anywhere.

Anyway, I Googled the phone number which was of no help. Are there any other avenues to look up who might have left the message?

Update?

 

[Joe T]

Got a weird voice message last night around 11:30.

All it said was, "Hi. This is.." and then hung up. She sounded very sexy. I have no idea who it was. I typically delete numbers from girls I've met that I know aren't going anywhere.

Anyway, I Googled the phone number which was of no help. Are there any other avenues to look up who might have left the message?

Update?

I sent a text that said "Who is this?"

Never heard anything back.

 

[bweiser]

Have three good dates lined up for the rest of the week. Honestly interested in all of them which is unusual. I wish they were a bit more spread out, but I can't really pass on any of these. Given how idating usually goes, one of them will get canceled or postponed so they may spread out on their own.

On another subject. Not sure if this has been discussed yet in this thread, but why are there so many scammy looking profiles on match. I'm seeing a lot of these 30 year old hot chicks that only have one photo and are have a target age range for much older guys. I quickly move on past these, but I'm wondering if it is just some scam where someone is making money off this somehow? Weird.

How do you people get so many dates? Seriously?

I've been floating around a bunch of different sites and keep getting the crazies and nothing else.

Lately been trying Zoosk. It sucks.

I must have a crappy profile.

 

[Disco Stu]

Have three good dates lined up for the rest of the week. Honestly interested in all of them which is unusual. I wish they were a bit more spread out, but I can't really pass on any of these. Given how idating usually goes, one of them will get canceled or postponed so they may spread out on their own.

On another subject. Not sure if this has been discussed yet in this thread, but why are there so many scammy looking profiles on match. I'm seeing a lot of these 30 year old hot chicks that only have one photo and are have a target age range for much older guys. I quickly move on past these, but I'm wondering if it is just some scam where someone is making money off this somehow? Weird.

How do you people get so many dates? Seriously?

I've been floating around a bunch of different sites and keep getting the crazies and nothing else.

Lately been trying Zoosk. It sucks.

I must have a crappy profile.

Location? There are many fish in Joe T's sea.

 

[bweiser]

i'm in philadelphia ... what site works the best? i'm 51 ... i have a specific type i am looking for, which may be hurting me. but F It, i'm not 'settling.'

 

[-fish-]

Have three good dates lined up for the rest of the week. Honestly interested in all of them which is unusual. I wish they were a bit more spread out, but I can't really pass on any of these. Given how idating usually goes, one of them will get canceled or postponed so they may spread out on their own.

On another subject. Not sure if this has been discussed yet in this thread, but why are there so many scammy looking profiles on match. I'm seeing a lot of these 30 year old hot chicks that only have one photo and are have a target age range for much older guys. I quickly move on past these, but I'm wondering if it is just some scam where someone is making money off this somehow? Weird.

match profiles of good looking women with 1 photo looking for older guys within 100 miles and that have a lot of "I'll tell you later" responses are all scams.

 

[Greggity]

Have three good dates lined up for the rest of the week. Honestly interested in all of them which is unusual. I wish they were a bit more spread out, but I can't really pass on any of these. Given how idating usually goes, one of them will get canceled or postponed so they may spread out on their own.

On another subject. Not sure if this has been discussed yet in this thread, but why are there so many scammy looking profiles on match. I'm seeing a lot of these 30 year old hot chicks that only have one photo and are have a target age range for much older guys. I quickly move on past these, but I'm wondering if it is just some scam where someone is making money off this somehow? Weird.

How do you people get so many dates? Seriously?

I've been floating around a bunch of different sites and keep getting the crazies and nothing else.

Lately been trying Zoosk. It sucks.

I must have a crappy profile.

How do you not get many dates? When I was on match and pof a couple months ago I had one every day of the week. I'm 47 so I'm sure we have the same age range (38-50)

 

[Bogart]

TL,DR: Cool date with cool married chick. Husband approved. Made out, no sex. Maybe next time.

Having dinner with married chick tonight. Schedules have been off the last week or so. She also asked if I want to come to her house on Saturday night for pizza and a movie while her husband is out on a date.

 

[McGarnicle]

TL,DR: Cool date with cool married chick. Husband approved. Made out, no sex. Maybe next time.

Having dinner with married chick tonight. Schedules have been off the last week or so. She also asked if I want to come to her house on Saturday night for pizza and a movie while her husband is out on a date.

I don't know man, I think I would steer clear. Or if you do see her again, I wouldn't go to their house. You hear these stories all the time, husband is hiding the closet, attacks the dude, ties him down and cornholes the living #### out of him while the wife records it all on video. That's the kind of stuff I do NOT miss about dating.

 

[Buck Bradcanon]

Bogart tryna win this ####### thread.

 

[Bogart]

Also having a truly blind date Saturday afternoon (before pizza, movie and my cornhole violation). No online profile, very few details. Friend of a coworkers wife. I'm more nervous about this one.

All I know is that she is 40 and a workout freak.

 

[johnnycakes]

Also having a truly blind date Saturday afternoon (before pizza, movie and my cornhole violation). No online profile, very few details. Friend of a coworkers wife. I'm more nervous about this one.

All I know is that she is 40 and a workout freak.

Tell her you lift weights. 12-oz weights.

 

[Disco Stu]

TL,DR: Cool date with cool married chick. Husband approved. Made out, no sex. Maybe next time.

Having dinner with married chick tonight. Schedules have been off the last week or so. She also asked if I want to come to her house on Saturday night for pizza and a movie while her husband is out on a date.

I don't know man, I think I would steer clear. Or if you do see her again, I wouldn't go to their house. You hear these stories all the time, husband is hiding the closet, attacks the dude, ties him down and cornholes the living #### out of him while the wife records it all on video. That's the kind of stuff I do NOT miss about dating.

I'd be more concerned that the movie is Frozen, and she's asking you to babysit so she can also go on a date.

 

[Buck Bradcanon]

 

[UniAlias]

GL with your bottom GB Bogie.

 

[Bogart]

Thoughts on sushi being the first date meal?

It's really my go to at this point. Typically you share which makes for easy conversation about the meal, you get the fun of seeing who is better with chopsticks (or not at all). If they like sushi, then there is great discussion about what to get. If they have never had sushi, you can look great ordering for the both of you.

 

[Joe T]

I've always avoided sushi because it is awkward to eat. But you do make some good points on conversation. May need to rethink this one.

 

[[icon]]

Thoughts on sushi being the first date meal?

It's really my go to at this point. Typically you share which makes for easy conversation about the meal, you get the fun of seeing who is better with chopsticks (or not at all). If they like sushi, then there is great discussion about what to get. If they have never had sushi, you can look great ordering for the both of you.

Having a good working knowledge of types of sushi (sashimi, nigiri, maki, etc), components of sushi (nori, roe, types of fish, etc), types of sake (hot aka garbage, vs nice cold unfiltered sake like Nigori, Snow Beauty, etc), and an overall knowledge of protocol/traditions make for compelling conversation and can impart some perceived worldliness/value in the eyes of most women. Most know they like it.. but don't know a ton of detail.

Of course you have to be able to pull it off with some charisma... and not come off as some sushi-tool putting on a clinic

 

[McGarnicle]

Look deeply into her eyes and tell her you love the taste of raw fish, give her a wink, and seductively run the sushi across your tongue a few times. If that doesn't melt her butter, she's literally a lesbian.

 

[EYLive]

Thoughts on sushi being the first date meal?

It's really my go to at this point. Typically you share which makes for easy conversation about the meal, you get the fun of seeing who is better with chopsticks (or not at all). If they like sushi, then there is great discussion about what to get. If they have never had sushi, you can look great ordering for the both of you.

If she's non-Asian, yes it'd be a good first date. If she's Asian, then no cuz she's probably been on many sushi first dates and may be tired of them.

 

[Greggity]

Thoughts on sushi being the first date meal?

It's really my go to at this point. Typically you share which makes for easy conversation about the meal, you get the fun of seeing who is better with chopsticks (or not at all). If they like sushi, then there is great discussion about what to get. If they have never had sushi, you can look great ordering for the both of you.

If she's non-Asian, yes it'd be a good first date. If she's Asian, then no cuz she's probably been on many sushi first dates and may be tired of them.

Yeah that would be kind of racist to take an asian to a sushi place lol

 

[EYLive]

Thoughts on sushi being the first date meal?

It's really my go to at this point. Typically you share which makes for easy conversation about the meal, you get the fun of seeing who is better with chopsticks (or not at all). If they like sushi, then there is great discussion about what to get. If they have never had sushi, you can look great ordering for the both of you.

If she's non-Asian, yes it'd be a good first date. If she's Asian, then no cuz she's probably been on many sushi first dates and may be tired of them.

Yeah that would be kind of racist to take an asian to a sushi place lol

Not at all. It's not so much a racial thing as it is a sick-and-tired of it thing.

 

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Thoughts on sushi being the first date meal?

It's really my go to at this point. Typically you share which makes for easy conversation about the meal, you get the fun of seeing who is better with chopsticks (or not at all). If they like sushi, then there is great discussion about what to get. If they have never had sushi, you can look great ordering for the both of you.

If she's non-Asian, yes it'd be a good first date. If she's Asian, then no cuz she's probably been on many sushi first dates and may be tired of them.

Yeah that would be kind of racist to take an asian to a sushi place lol

Not at all. It's not so much a racial thing as it is a sick-and-tired of it thing.

My girl is half korean... took her for sushi on our first date. I went with seaweed salad, softshell crab roll, and beef tataki just to mess with her.

12 years later... we still go for sushi 2-3x a month. Not all asian cultures are sushi-centric.

 

[Joe T]

Is it racially insensitive to call them Orientals?

I had someone say this to me the other day and I wondered how P.C. it was?

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

Thoughts on sushi being the first date meal?

It's really my go to at this point. Typically you share which makes for easy conversation about the meal, you get the fun of seeing who is better with chopsticks (or not at all). If they like sushi, then there is great discussion about what to get. If they have never had sushi, you can look great ordering for the both of you.

If she's non-Asian, yes it'd be a good first date. If she's Asian, then no cuz she's probably been on many sushi first dates and may be tired of them.

Yeah that would be kind of racist to take an asian to a sushi place lol

Not at all. It's not so much a racial thing as it is a sick-and-tired of it thing.

My girl is half korean... took her for sushi on our first date. I went with seaweed salad, softshell crap roll, and beef tataki just to mess with her.

12 years later... we still go for sushi 2-3x a month. Not all asian cultures are sushi-centric.

:X but if that's what it takes to hook a good one, I may need to try this strategy

 

[Disco Stu]

Is it racially insensitive to call them Orientals?

I had someone say this to me the other day and I wondered how P.C. it was?

Jesus, yes. What year is this?

 

[(HULK)]

Thoughts on sushi being the first date meal?

It's really my go to at this point. Typically you share which makes for easy conversation about the meal, you get the fun of seeing who is better with chopsticks (or not at all). If they like sushi, then there is great discussion about what to get. If they have never had sushi, you can look great ordering for the both of you.

If she's non-Asian, yes it'd be a good first date. If she's Asian, then no cuz she's probably been on many sushi first dates and may be tired of them.

Yeah that would be kind of racist to take an asian to a sushi place lol

Not at all. It's not so much a racial thing as it is a sick-and-tired of it thing.

My girl is half korean... took her for sushi on our first date. I went with seaweed salad, softshell crap roll, and beef tataki just to mess with her.

12 years later... we still go for sushi 2-3x a month. Not all asian cultures are sushi-centric.

I don't eat seafood, especially not sushi. That sounds extra disgusting though.

 

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fixed typo

 

[(HULK)]

I'm long retired from the game, but I gotta wonder about dinner dates. I look weird eating. Most people do. Comedy club + drinks after used to be standard go to for 2nd dates. 1st date was typically meet up for drinks.

 

[McGarnicle]

Is it racially insensitive to call them Orientals?

I had someone say this to me the other day and I wondered how P.C. it was?

Asian or Oriental are interchangeable.

 

[sbonomo]

Thoughts on sushi being the first date meal?

It's really my go to at this point. Typically you share which makes for easy conversation about the meal, you get the fun of seeing who is better with chopsticks (or not at all). If they like sushi, then there is great discussion about what to get. If they have never had sushi, you can look great ordering for the both of you.

If she's non-Asian, yes it'd be a good first date. If she's Asian, then no cuz she's probably been on many sushi first dates and may be tired of them.

Yeah that would be kind of racist to take an asian to a sushi place lol

Not at all. It's not so much a racial thing as it is a sick-and-tired of it thing.

My girl is half korean... took her for sushi on our first date. I went with seaweed salad, softshell crab roll, and beef tataki just to mess with her.

12 years later... we still go for sushi 2-3x a month. Not all asian cultures are sushi-centric.

Look at me i date a Korean (tell her i said hello by the way)

 

[sbonomo]

Is it racially insensitive to call them Orientals?

I had someone say this to me the other day and I wondered how P.C. it was?

They are not a type of food or a rug. Not advised to use that term from what i hear.