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And guys, if you see a hundred dollar bill just laying there on the ground, pick it up and put it in your pocket.Also, put your garbage in a garbage can people. I can't stress that enough. Don't just throw it out the window.'Disco Stu said:'Buck Bradcanon said:And to be honest, she really doesn't even need to be that hot.
And guys, if you see a hundred dollar bill just laying there on the ground, pick it up and put it in your pocket.Also, put your garbage in a garbage can people. I can't stress that enough. Don't just throw it out the window.'Disco Stu said:'Buck Bradcanon said:
This is quality stuff here. #changinglives
This should've been your play from the start. Just tell her you're going regardless and planning on having a great time...she's welcome to join in the fun.If she ends up declining than you can decide if you still want to make the trek or not with your buddies, but she doesn't have to know that. Even if you don't go, write her a few days after the date it would've been and tell her how much fun was had and that she missed out.'zed2283 said:
Dinner and movie tonight with Ice Cream Girl. Lesson not learned. I really just want to bang her at this point.Broke things off with the Wiccan about 10 days ago, too many issues, and like some kind of dating Nostradamus, Ice Cream Girl texts me out of the blue. Will update in the morning.
You were sticking it out to see what Halloween would be like, weren't you?
I am changing Ice Cream Girl's name to Sorbet Girl. She is officially my pallet cleanser between dating other girls. The dates are pleasant, zero pressure, far enough apart they are almost like first dates in the amount of conversation, just the right amount of PDA, a couple of kisses at the end of the night, and that's that.No real future, probably a night soon where we has the sechs, but even then I think everyone knows their roles in this little game.
you have had little or no contact with the mother since she left your company? could you pick a more awkward line to #####? i wouldn't worry about pissing off the mother at all. you just need to figure out a way to meet and introduce yourself to the daughter.
Well that's why I'm asking for advice.
you're already stalking her on FB, you know where she hangs out
i'm sorry but it was unclear what the consult was here. i thought you were concerned about the mother or her possible interference in your pursuit.
Ah, sorry. That was a side concern, but the main concern was how do I make contact and do it in a way that is non-creepy and potentially sparks interest.
I agree with the guy who said to figure out where she hangs out and "accidentally" bump into her
Contact the mom and tell her you are of marrying age, earn a good income and have saved for a home. Compliment her daughter on her birthing hips and fair complexion, and ask if you may court her. If the girl is not already betrothed, there is a good possibility the mother will accept. How many horses are you offering?
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Her MOTHER Used to work for you? HOw old are you? If you're beyond 35ish I'd not be going after anything in it's early 20s... especially if her MOTHER used to work for you DOUBLE especially if you're having to come to a Fantasy FOotball website to get advice on how to make contact. 
Unpossible. At least online.Assuming you're not rich and famous of course...
Her mother is older than me.
anyone?Hey who was it in here that was offering to edit/clean up pics for profiles? I have one or two that could use some touch up...
Here you go.'coyote5 said:anyone?Hey who was it in here that was offering to edit/clean up pics for profiles? I have one or two that could use some touch up...
Problem solved brochacho!Here you go.'coyote5 said:anyone?Hey who was it in here that was offering to edit/clean up pics for profiles? I have one or two that could use some touch up...
There is no play here, freakshow.
Met several chicks from OKC/POF in pretty much all cases the girl offers her number and tells me to text her after messaging back and forth on the site. The key is establishing an interesting conversation. Get this and your golden. I have blown a couple of opportunities by asking for a number too early.'No. 16 said:
That reply ratio sounds about right for me. 1 out of 10 reply, maybe 3 out of 10 that do reply transition into meeting in person for me. But I'm a below-average looking guy living in Los Angeles, so maybe my numbers don't compare to what a Disco Stu would be getting.I've never replied to an unsolicited message. Never gotten one from anything higher than a 4.I always sign my name in the first email. "Cheers! -Sarnoff" or something. First message is always short, no more than 5 sentences.If she replies, I'll send a second lighthearted message back the next AM. If I get another reply, then I ask her out. "This email thing is fun and all, but I find I can tell a lot more about a person in just an hour over beers than just sending messages back and forth forever. So let's get together Tuesday night after work & throw some darts at the Irish Bar on Maple & 4th. My number is 555-5555, send me a text and we'll figure out the details."'No. 16 said:
This is good advice. Most women should respond well to this if they are even mildly interested, as most women are attracted to assertive, take-charge qualities in a man. It puts the ball squarely in her court and will quickly lead to either an in-person meeting or you can forget about her altogether. I've been out of the game for over a decade now, but I vividly remember how boring and pointless the emailing can be. A good number of women I chatted with enjoyed the attention and clearly had no intention of ever getting together.
PM Bucky for info.
16 in a nutshell
So why don't you offer advice?Sarnoff and McGarnicle say initiating things after a couple of messages is the way to go and simmonjm says he waits until the chick moves things forward. Not much of a sample size either way.Either way I'm trying both methods and I'll see what works. Just figured those with experience would share.16 in a nutshell
:goodposting;Nobody likes having to suit up and go trough the dog and pony show of a job interview.. But anyone will jump at the chance to hit happy hour to hear out a guy about a possible opening at a company. It's like that.
he might have also loaned her some money too.
I give her props for staying awake during all that. I'd recommend lightening up quite a bit and focusing on common fun activities in the beginning. It starts with a smile, then a laugh, then she starts twirling her hair and blushing, next thing you know your #### is in her #####. This ain't rocket surgery. Screening these chicks for life-partner compatibility is the opposite of romance or spontaneity and is unlikely to work except with the desperate fatties.
Yeah too late for that. He IS a creeper.
The other ones aren't like that. Like I said I just mimicked what she put in her profile, I guess that could have been a mistake but she did reply within a minute. Others, we've talked about favorite Disney movies, going to concerts, Vegas... etc.And if I've failed. Oh well, still learning but I'm definitely listening to all the knowledge you guys throw my way.I spent 19-26 with one chick, so still learning the ropes.'McGarnicle said:
"I feel safer on the site, please don't hunt me down and eat my spleen."Just received this text from college chick after messaging her to take it off line last night:"Hey No.16 It's Lisa from OKC. I'm not a big fan of messaging on that site either. Take care"I can't be all that bad.
darts.
