lol//placeholder// i'm might be jumping into this game soon.
first relationship with ex wife - met in person - together for 12 years
second relationship with current girlfriend - met in person - together for 9 years (we are gracefully ending the relationship over the next month or two)
I just turned 50. How young can I go when searching for women on tinder, etc.?
1/2 + 7 bro.//placeholder// i'm might be jumping into this game soon.
first relationship with ex wife - met in person - together for 12 years
second relationship with current girlfriend - met in person - together for 9 years (we are gracefully ending the relationship over the next month or two)
I just turned 50. How young can I go when searching for women on tinder, etc.?
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!There are more women out there with daddy issues than I ever thought possible. I’m 56 and get matched more with women under 35 than I do with women over 50.
Grindr?dhockster said:Okay, I am 54, divorced and wanting to try online dating apps. Tinder, Bumble, or something else?
ALL of them!dhockster said:Okay, I am 54, divorced and wanting to try online dating apps. Tinder, Bumble, or something else?
1. Download Tinder. Throw together a profile. Use your best judgment in making it casual and witty and use whatever pictures you have.dhockster said:Okay, I am 54, divorced and wanting to try online dating apps. Tinder, Bumble, or something else?
Thank you sir.1. Download Tinder. Throw together a profile. Use your best judgment in making it casual and witty and use whatever pictures you have.
2. Once you have some conversations under your belt, refine your profile to what works, get your best pictures together, and go on bumble.
3. ?
4. Profit.
I think this formula is intended for younger guys that want to be "safe". But for older guys that aren't looking for a life partner, I don't see why he shouldn't go for that 18 year old. Sure it's creepy, but who cares what other people think.1/2 + 7 bro.
Have fun out there.
I'll confess, I was 39 and hooked up with an 18 year old and it's the kind of moment I'll treasure forever. It was a great night and well worth it.
Not the kind of girl I'm looking to take home to the family, just a girl for the night, and nothing wrong with it.
Wow 18 , that's pretty creepy.Walking Boot said:I'll confess, I was 39 and hooked up with an 18 year old and it's the kind of moment I'll treasure forever. It was a great night and well worth it.
Not the kind of girl I'm looking to take home to the family, just a girl for the night, and nothing wrong with it.
Beyond creepyEYLive said:I think this formula is intended for younger guys that want to be "safe". But for older guys that aren't looking for a life partner, I don't see why he shouldn't go for that 18 year old. Sure it's creepy, but who cares what other people think.
Here’s the thing, Meemaw. It’s not 1890 anymore. It’s modern day, and women have sex before marriage, and I think we need to celebrate that. And I know in your day, she would be considered a whore. But now, women go out, and they have sex, and they get wild, and they take their tops off, and they have pictures taken of them. And we need to encourage that. That’s part of life!Beyond creepy
I did it a couple of times but cut one loose after 3 dates. That was my rule.For the guys that have been through this more with the goal of meeting someone beyond just a hookup, do you think its a bad idea to be actively pursuing two women at the same time? Wife and I finally separated 6 months ago and I've for some unknown reason decided to start talking to both women in the same period and now I'm planning dates with both of them.
Is that something you would bring up or more of if the question is posed to answer it truthfully?Nope. Not at all. 2 is the most I could juggle at once and actually give them attention. Just be honest it’s not exclusive, until it is. One will inevitably drift away from you when you realize you enjoy being with someone more.
My wife watched a movie over the weekend that I think is related to your situation:For the guys that have been through this more with the goal of meeting someone beyond just a hookup, do you think its a bad idea to be actively pursuing two women at the same time? Wife and I finally separated 6 months ago and I've for some unknown reason decided to start talking to both women in the same period and now I'm planning dates with both of them.
I can see it. I've been out of the game for 20 years and to be honest I wasn't a star player back then. Hopefully it ends up the way it does in the trailer. Clear eyes, full hearts, can't lose.
Haven't been in here for a while but it looks like it's time for me to jump in again and defend this type of thing from the "creepy" crowd. Totally worth it and absolutely nothing wrong with it.I'll confess, I was 39 and hooked up with an 18 year old and it's the kind of moment I'll treasure forever. It was a great night and well worth it.
Not the kind of girl I'm looking to take home to the family, just a girl for the night, and nothing wrong with it.
How old?I'm now officially a sugar daddy. AMA. It's been fun and interesting and exactly what I need to get the hell away from relationships.
I'm 36. My Las Vegas girl is 22 (I travel to Vegas about once a month).How old?
What's it cost to keep 3 in the stable?I'm now officially a sugar daddy. AMA. It's been fun and interesting and exactly what I need to get the hell away from relationships.
I thought you were just joking about being a sugar daddy.Not much, I insist on a pay per meet. not an allowance. My best girl right now just want to travel, I pay, we have sex, she goes home, It's pretty easy
no joke. life is soo much better.I thought you were just joking about being a sugar daddy.
Um, you sure that's being a sugar daddy? Sounds more like a client/escort relationship. Not judging. Your name is John after all.Not much, I insist on a pay per meet. not an allowance. My best girl right now just want to travel, I pay, we have sex, she goes home, It's pretty easy
He's paying them to leave. Probably cheaper in the long run and less taxing emotionally than balancing a bunch of girls that all want a relationship.Why pay?
Sounds like a waste of money and a headache.
A strict escort relationship would involve just $ for sechs. This is dating, but dating where both parties get what they want, besides a relationship. The one lady wants to travel. He pays for the trip and she provides companionship. In other cases, he probably pays for a nice meal, maybe a shopping trip or a show etc and they spend adult time together. There is no expectation on either party that the relationship is progressing towards exclusivity, marriage or moving in together etc.WDIK2 said:Um, you sure that's being a sugar daddy? Sounds more like a client/escort relationship. Not judging. Your name is John after all.
No first hand knowledge, but I'm pretty sure you can hire escorts for dates and to attend events/travel with you. In most cases I'm sure escort is just a synonym for prostitute, but I don't believe the strict definition of the two is the same.A strict escort relationship would involve just $ for sechs
Yep. The GFE's are very popular. It's really semantics imo. Some women are comfortable calling themselves escorts or prostitutes while some would rather have the sugar baby title.No first hand knowledge, but I'm pretty sure you can hire escorts for dates and to attend events/travel with you. In most cases I'm sure escort is just a synonym for prostitute, but I don't believe the strict definition of the two is the same.
Again, not judging at all. Live like you wanna live.
Sounds like a great situation for all parties involved. I never understood the monthly allowance thing from the male perspective. Seems like it would make them complacent and eventually ungrateful. How much are you usually dropping on them during these outings/getaways?yeah I should clear up my situation. Im twice divorced at a young age. Im wealthy, I love to travel. So what I described last night sounds like prostitution and in many ways it is.
That said, I'm fine with it. I dont want a LTR at all. I travel, I pay for ####, I pay her, we go out for dinner, in between of travel she gives me lots of attention, sex is pretty much implied and is always mind blowing. I think somebody said earlier, I'm paying them to go away after. That's exactly it. I don't want a girlfriend, but when I travel, I want a date/compianion and somebody to have sex with.
Most sugar babys ask for an "allowance" so monthly you pay them a stipend. I have insisted on a pay per meet. You travel with me somewhere, I pay on the front, we act as a couple, have sex and then go out separate ways.
I dunno, it works for me You get way better looking women I don't want a reltationship and I have the money to cover it.
You’re all paying for it, guy He’s just guaranteeing getting something for his dinner and drinks.Yeah, and I think there should be a separate thread for the sugar daddy stuff.
Please keep this thread for stories of guys not paying for it (at least directly).
I'm interested in both worlds and often see the two colliding. The amount of sugar baby types that show up on my tinder/bumble feed has definitely peaked my interest. And don't think for a second a lot of these Instagram 'models' are paying for all these fabulous vacations with influencer money. There's normally a John Bender lurking in the background somewhereYeah, and I think there should be a separate thread for the sugar daddy stuff.
Please keep this thread for stories of guys not paying for it (at least directly).
Of course. With my Vegas gal sometimes there is no sex at all. She gets dressed up we go drinking dancing eating and gambling. In many ways it's similar to prostitution. In many ways it is not. Clear as mud. Local gal, sometimes we just sit on the couch and eat take out and watch TV (we've genuinely built a really good friendship over the months, she is cool as hell, wasn't even looking for an "arrangement" but I offered to pay for the time she'd have to take off work to spend time with me). The southern gal is my travel companion more than anyone else. If I want to go to a foreign country (I LOVE to travel) she comes with me, I pay her for the days she'd be away from work (hairdresser I think) plus for the trip etc. Sex isn't necessarily guaranteed or expected on either side. You sort of set those types of ground rules up front with what you both expect and come to an agreement. (I dont want to have sex with a girl who finds me unattractive. If she does find me attractive (middle aged overweight whale) then we do it. If she doesn't then the arrangement doesn't last too long - if she doesn't like me, why would I bring her places and buy her stuff?:subscribe:
ETA: Assuming this women all work for themselves. The pimp construct turns my stomach.
Charleston is the best talent in one city I’ve seen when I partied there in my twenties.Metting a new girl in Charleston next weekend. Shes 40, busty blonde, wants to be treated and taken care of, promises good sex. Will update here. If things work out, she'll accompany me to vegas in 3 weeks and we'll meet up with my girl there and all have some fun (Vegas girl is already in, just need to work on the South Carolina one).