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***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (4 Viewers)

Woz... "cute emilie" is definately an understatement. Skip the chick that can't read the birth control label for her.

 
Mom = Chick is like 22 with 4 kids! I found myself attracted to her though. She wants to meet me ASAP. She said something about her bikini pic making her looking better than she does so I asked for a full body. She just sent me like 7 nude pictures! :confused: How do I proceed from here? I'm almost not interested because it'd be too easy.
If you don't post these on the underground, I'm going to call you and harass you until you do.Then, I'll never speak to you again.
Will do it in a few hours when I get internet access off my work's server. I think you'd know me well enough that I wouldn't disappoint.
 
Idating update:

Updated pictures on the underground

Cute Emilie = Girl I've been talking to a lot. Definitely like her. Seems like a partier. I'm going to meet her on Saturday and then, if things go well, she's coming up the following weekend for a lake party.

Cocky chick = I like her physically. She's from close. Looking to seal the deal.

Mom = Chick is like 22 with 4 kids! I found myself attracted to her though. She wants to meet me ASAP. She said something about her bikini pic making her looking better than she does so I asked for a full body. She just sent me like 7 nude pictures! :thumbup: How do I proceed from here? I'm almost not interested because it'd be too easy.

ETA: Hotcougar and Stu's newly added chick = :bag:
With all due respect Wozzy Bear here's my superficial armchair quarterback feedback on these three...Cocky chick may be too much for you to handle...her sarcasm and confidence will overwhelm you and leave you disappointed if not hurt...this sounds like exactly the kind of girl that seems attractive at first but is probably not the right type for you...

Mom is a mess carrying around 100 pounds of baggage and looks a little manly to me...if you want some action she may be just what the doctor ordered, but you better not even begin to think she might be relationship material...she has all the potential to get pregnant, sleep with your best friend, or turn psycho on you in a second...

Cute Emilie is a hot prospect...and frankly she made me think of doing some things to her I might be embarrassed to tell my new blushing bride...her party attitude could be good for you, keep things light, focus on having fun, don't rush into a fullblown relationship...

I hope round two goes better than round one, good luck...

 
BTW--I'm about to call the date for this weekend and finalize things, but I'll post pictures of her and a new prospect on the underground tonight.

 
Chick I've never met is bringing me food right now (11pm). :banned:
Good start!!Can't wait to hear how this goes.
Update: she just left. Let's just say this went well... :lmao:
More details
I meant to provide details at the underground today but didn't have time.
OK... finally got to this. Added a pic as well.
Stu's update? :goodposting:
 
GordonGekko said:
:( I guess I am generally too optimistic about women (and men, for that matter).
Do all your cats feel the same way?
Look who's stumbled into the iDating thread :headbang:
Shortest GG post ever, and just as enlightening as ever.[GG]I guess things have changed from when this grizzled old man dated. Now we have women working outside the home, in some parts even being taken seriously as Presidential candidates.I can tell you men this; you are making some grave errors in your attempted conquests. A man should never ask a woman out. A man should tell a woman, "You are coming home with me."Sure, half the time you might get slapped. I got slapped plenty back in my day, and let me tell you that I enjoyed every slap. But sometimes, just as a woman would raise her hand to send it into the old backswing, I'd grab her arm, and look into her eyes. She knew I meant business. And she respected me for it.You see, a woman wants you to take charge, to lord over her. She's like a puppy, looking for discipline and training. The so-called feminists these days, they'll swear that they want "equal rights". Tell me, what is "equal" about a man paying for dates? What is equal about a man opening doors for a woman, or pulling out a chair for her to sit in?No, a woman wants to be dominated. Pure and simple. When I took a woman's arm, just before an impending slap, we understood each other, just for that second. She saw the power I held over her. She desired it. And knowing that she desired it, I took her and [censored by FBGs].And once you have dominated a woman, put her in the place where you both know she wants to be, you won't be able to get rid of her. She'll cling to you, like the smell of a $20 whore. She'll cling like Charlie did to me back in 'nam, pleading. I lit a cigarette and gently flicked his fingers out of their grasp, letting him fall to the ground, just before I shot him square in the throat. I didn't want to do it. But this was a fight for survival.Dating is war, men. It's kill or be killed. Which will you be?[/GG]
 
GordonGekko said:
:pickle: I guess I am generally too optimistic about women (and men, for that matter).
Do all your cats feel the same way?
Look who's stumbled into the iDating thread :unsure:
Shortest GG post ever, and just as enlightening as ever.[GG]I guess things have changed from when this grizzled old man dated. Now we have women working outside the home, in some parts even being taken seriously as Presidential candidates.I can tell you men this; you are making some grave errors in your attempted conquests. A man should never ask a woman out. A man should tell a woman, "You are coming home with me."Sure, half the time you might get slapped. I got slapped plenty back in my day, and let me tell you that I enjoyed every slap. But sometimes, just as a woman would raise her hand to send it into the old backswing, I'd grab her arm, and look into her eyes. She knew I meant business. And she respected me for it.You see, a woman wants you to take charge, to lord over her. She's like a puppy, looking for discipline and training. The so-called feminists these days, they'll swear that they want "equal rights". Tell me, what is "equal" about a man paying for dates? What is equal about a man opening doors for a woman, or pulling out a chair for her to sit in?No, a woman wants to be dominated. Pure and simple. When I took a woman's arm, just before an impending slap, we understood each other, just for that second. She saw the power I held over her. She desired it. And knowing that she desired it, I took her and [censored by FBGs].And once you have dominated a woman, put her in the place where you both know she wants to be, you won't be able to get rid of her. She'll cling to you, like the smell of a $20 whore. She'll cling like Charlie did to me back in 'nam, pleading. I lit a cigarette and gently flicked his fingers out of their grasp, letting him fall to the ground, just before I shot him square in the throat. I didn't want to do it. But this was a fight for survival.Dating is war, men. It's kill or be killed. Which will you be?[/GG]
:pickle:
 
Also, the girl I went out with last friday that Im really interested in as in New York right now messaged me and we are going to go out next Saturday night, and also try to do somthing tuesday if she gets out of work in time since I have a softball game out by her. Her match subscription ended though, so I dont have any pictures of her.

 
One other thing I'll mention from Saturday (before "curvy 34" came over)...

Earlier that night I started messaging a new hot-or-not match... "classy young cutie". She's 21, at least two years under the low end of my dateable range. She does seem very mature, interesting, and intelligent though. I'll post a pic but I'm sure the age thing and distance (lives in Denton, 60 miles from me) will keep this from taking off. She's only 7 years older than curvy 34's oldest daughter. And her parents are only 37 and 38. :football:

 
Otis said:
Woz said:
Pics of nude mom up - upon further inspection I'm a little disappointed. Man is she used.
:football:
pretty much. only saw the one briefly here at work until i quickly realized it was a nude photo and closed it. Went to my buddy's last night to check them out - we were pretty damn grossed out. I'm supposed there are two ways I can handle this...
 
Woz said:
Idating update:Updated pictures on the undergroundCute Emilie = Girl I've been talking to a lot. Definitely like her. Seems like a partier. I'm going to meet her on Saturday and then, if things go well, she's coming up the following weekend for a lake party. Cocky chick = I like her physically. She's from close. Looking to seal the deal. Mom = Chick is like 22 with 4 kids! I found myself attracted to her though. She wants to meet me ASAP. She said something about her bikini pic making her looking better than she does so I asked for a full body. She just sent me like 7 nude pictures! ;) How do I proceed from here? I'm almost not interested because it'd be too easy.
you remind me of the Kids in the Hall skit with Bruce McCulloch and Kevin McDonald. McCulloch is this short guy with a bad attitude, McDonald is his friend playing devil on the shoulder encouraging him.McCulloch walks in to a bar with buddy in tow... throws his drink in the face of a guy the size of a grizzly bear and challenges him to a fight. all the while buddy is encouraging him to do it.so they take it outside... McCulloch rushes the grizzly who stands there arm outstretched, fist clenched, and crashes face first in to the punch. his buddy encourages him to get up and try again... repeat scene ad nauseum, include crowd yelling for him to stay down, until the grizzly finally picks him up and throws him OVER the building. grizzly and friends walk away laughing at the little guy. after a few seconds of laughter you hear a shriek/battle cry as McCulloch charges the grizzly once more and takes yet another brutal punch in the face and goes down.cut to another skit, 30 seconds, cut back to the bar.... grizzly and friends are laughing.. re-enacting the beating... McCulloch re-appears looking like he's been run over by a dumptruck annnnnnnnnnd throws another drink in the guy's face.saintfool can probably link the exact skit for better effect.;)i admire your stick-to-it-iveness but there comes a point when you just have to know when to say when. i'm not talking about dating women or trying out the dating service... more power to you... but it's setting yourself up for beating after beating after beating.
 
Woz said:
Idating update:Updated pictures on the undergroundCute Emilie = Girl I've been talking to a lot. Definitely like her. Seems like a partier. I'm going to meet her on Saturday and then, if things go well, she's coming up the following weekend for a lake party. Cocky chick = I like her physically. She's from close. Looking to seal the deal. Mom = Chick is like 22 with 4 kids! I found myself attracted to her though. She wants to meet me ASAP. She said something about her bikini pic making her looking better than she does so I asked for a full body. She just sent me like 7 nude pictures! :thumbup: How do I proceed from here? I'm almost not interested because it'd be too easy.
you remind me of the Kids in the Hall skit with Bruce McCulloch and Kevin McDonald. McCulloch is this short guy with a bad attitude, McDonald is his friend playing devil on the shoulder encouraging him.McCulloch walks in to a bar with buddy in tow... throws his drink in the face of a guy the size of a grizzly bear and challenges him to a fight. all the while buddy is encouraging him to do it.so they take it outside... McCulloch rushes the grizzly who stands there arm outstretched, fist clenched, and crashes face first in to the punch. his buddy encourages him to get up and try again... repeat scene ad nauseum, include crowd yelling for him to stay down, until the grizzly finally picks him up and throws him OVER the building. grizzly and friends walk away laughing at the little guy. after a few seconds of laughter you hear a shriek/battle cry as McCulloch charges the grizzly once more and takes yet another brutal punch in the face and goes down.cut to another skit, 30 seconds, cut back to the bar.... grizzly and friends are laughing.. re-enacting the beating... McCulloch re-appears looking like he's been run over by a dumptruck annnnnnnnnnd throws another drink in the guy's face.saintfool can probably link the exact skit for better effect.:(i admire your stick-to-it-iveness but there comes a point when you just have to know when to say when. i'm not talking about dating women or trying out the dating service... more power to you... but it's setting yourself up for beating after beating after beating.
I don't get it. Are you grumpy and in attack-mode today or something?
 
Woz said:
Idating update:Updated pictures on the undergroundCute Emilie = Girl I've been talking to a lot. Definitely like her. Seems like a partier. I'm going to meet her on Saturday and then, if things go well, she's coming up the following weekend for a lake party. Cocky chick = I like her physically. She's from close. Looking to seal the deal. Mom = Chick is like 22 with 4 kids! I found myself attracted to her though. She wants to meet me ASAP. She said something about her bikini pic making her looking better than she does so I asked for a full body. She just sent me like 7 nude pictures! :thumbup: How do I proceed from here? I'm almost not interested because it'd be too easy.
you remind me of the Kids in the Hall skit with Bruce McCulloch and Kevin McDonald. McCulloch is this short guy with a bad attitude, McDonald is his friend playing devil on the shoulder encouraging him.McCulloch walks in to a bar with buddy in tow... throws his drink in the face of a guy the size of a grizzly bear and challenges him to a fight. all the while buddy is encouraging him to do it.so they take it outside... McCulloch rushes the grizzly who stands there arm outstretched, fist clenched, and crashes face first in to the punch. his buddy encourages him to get up and try again... repeat scene ad nauseum, include crowd yelling for him to stay down, until the grizzly finally picks him up and throws him OVER the building. grizzly and friends walk away laughing at the little guy. after a few seconds of laughter you hear a shriek/battle cry as McCulloch charges the grizzly once more and takes yet another brutal punch in the face and goes down.cut to another skit, 30 seconds, cut back to the bar.... grizzly and friends are laughing.. re-enacting the beating... McCulloch re-appears looking like he's been run over by a dumptruck annnnnnnnnnd throws another drink in the guy's face.saintfool can probably link the exact skit for better effect.:(i admire your stick-to-it-iveness but there comes a point when you just have to know when to say when. i'm not talking about dating women or trying out the dating service... more power to you... but it's setting yourself up for beating after beating after beating.
Although an overly harsh assessment from Furley, I know a little bit of what you are getting at with your post. I think Woz has yet to discover his own game (I could be wrong). Thing to always consider: Who are the girls that are most likely going to be into you. What situations and scenarios are you good/bad in. Knowing your own confidence level. What is your game/angle/strength....use it to your advantage. imo....to do well with the ladies, you need to have a good grasp of the 4 things above.
 
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Woz said:
Idating update:Updated pictures on the undergroundCute Emilie = Girl I've been talking to a lot. Definitely like her. Seems like a partier. I'm going to meet her on Saturday and then, if things go well, she's coming up the following weekend for a lake party. Cocky chick = I like her physically. She's from close. Looking to seal the deal. Mom = Chick is like 22 with 4 kids! I found myself attracted to her though. She wants to meet me ASAP. She said something about her bikini pic making her looking better than she does so I asked for a full body. She just sent me like 7 nude pictures! :jawdrop: How do I proceed from here? I'm almost not interested because it'd be too easy.
you remind me of the Kids in the Hall skit with Bruce McCulloch and Kevin McDonald. McCulloch is this short guy with a bad attitude, McDonald is his friend playing devil on the shoulder encouraging him.McCulloch walks in to a bar with buddy in tow... throws his drink in the face of a guy the size of a grizzly bear and challenges him to a fight. all the while buddy is encouraging him to do it.so they take it outside... McCulloch rushes the grizzly who stands there arm outstretched, fist clenched, and crashes face first in to the punch. his buddy encourages him to get up and try again... repeat scene ad nauseum, include crowd yelling for him to stay down, until the grizzly finally picks him up and throws him OVER the building. grizzly and friends walk away laughing at the little guy. after a few seconds of laughter you hear a shriek/battle cry as McCulloch charges the grizzly once more and takes yet another brutal punch in the face and goes down.cut to another skit, 30 seconds, cut back to the bar.... grizzly and friends are laughing.. re-enacting the beating... McCulloch re-appears looking like he's been run over by a dumptruck annnnnnnnnnd throws another drink in the guy's face.saintfool can probably link the exact skit for better effect.:(i admire your stick-to-it-iveness but there comes a point when you just have to know when to say when. i'm not talking about dating women or trying out the dating service... more power to you... but it's setting yourself up for beating after beating after beating.
I don't get it. Are you grumpy and in attack-mode today or something?
:mellow:
 
Woz said:
Idating update:Updated pictures on the undergroundCute Emilie = Girl I've been talking to a lot. Definitely like her. Seems like a partier. I'm going to meet her on Saturday and then, if things go well, she's coming up the following weekend for a lake party. Cocky chick = I like her physically. She's from close. Looking to seal the deal. Mom = Chick is like 22 with 4 kids! I found myself attracted to her though. She wants to meet me ASAP. She said something about her bikini pic making her looking better than she does so I asked for a full body. She just sent me like 7 nude pictures! :wall: How do I proceed from here? I'm almost not interested because it'd be too easy.
you remind me of the Kids in the Hall skit with Bruce McCulloch and Kevin McDonald. McCulloch is this short guy with a bad attitude, McDonald is his friend playing devil on the shoulder encouraging him.McCulloch walks in to a bar with buddy in tow... throws his drink in the face of a guy the size of a grizzly bear and challenges him to a fight. all the while buddy is encouraging him to do it.so they take it outside... McCulloch rushes the grizzly who stands there arm outstretched, fist clenched, and crashes face first in to the punch. his buddy encourages him to get up and try again... repeat scene ad nauseum, include crowd yelling for him to stay down, until the grizzly finally picks him up and throws him OVER the building. grizzly and friends walk away laughing at the little guy. after a few seconds of laughter you hear a shriek/battle cry as McCulloch charges the grizzly once more and takes yet another brutal punch in the face and goes down.cut to another skit, 30 seconds, cut back to the bar.... grizzly and friends are laughing.. re-enacting the beating... McCulloch re-appears looking like he's been run over by a dumptruck annnnnnnnnnd throws another drink in the guy's face.saintfool can probably link the exact skit for better effect.:(i admire your stick-to-it-iveness but there comes a point when you just have to know when to say when. i'm not talking about dating women or trying out the dating service... more power to you... but it's setting yourself up for beating after beating after beating.
Although an overly harsh assessment from Furley, I know a little bit of what you are getting at with your post. I think Woz has yet to discover his own game (I could be wrong). Thing to always consider: Who are the girls that are most likely going to be into you. What situations and scenarios are you good/bad in. Knowing your own confidence level. What is your game/angle/strength....use it to your advantage. imo....to do well with the ladies, you need to have a good grasp of the 4 things above.
it's not harsh. :no:it's honest. fiancee gets upset with me at times for being too harsh... but after a while she gets over it and realizes (her admission) that i was right and she needs to have thicker skin. in the end all i'm trying to do is help her.maybe it's the product of growing up with guys in my family and guy friends. :shrug: men tend to be tougher on each other. none of my friends pull punches but i don't take it personally.difference between thick and think skin i guess.taking beating after beating after beating because he is sharing embarrassing details about his personal life... particularly as it relates to women... can't be helping the confidence. it just can't.this thread is sort of a mixed bag. on one hand he's doing the right thing.. throwing himself in to the fire and trying to pick up new chicks but, like with AMBO, it's just embarrassing to watch the (seemingly) inevitable ugly failures.sometimes when you're trying to build confidence and success.. it's best to ignore the failures completely... learn from them, yes, but don't talk about them and dwell on it.:shrug:i know woz thinks i'm crazy and hate him but that only developed after the 13th "my life is a failure, i suck" thread where he ignored good advice from dozens of FBGs, continued to plow forward with blinders on and then played the "i just don't understand why my life sucks so much". it was like he had everyone on ignore and was writing tortured, embarrasing notes, in his personal journal.
 
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Woz said:
Idating update:Updated pictures on the undergroundCute Emilie = Girl I've been talking to a lot. Definitely like her. Seems like a partier. I'm going to meet her on Saturday and then, if things go well, she's coming up the following weekend for a lake party. Cocky chick = I like her physically. She's from close. Looking to seal the deal. Mom = Chick is like 22 with 4 kids! I found myself attracted to her though. She wants to meet me ASAP. She said something about her bikini pic making her looking better than she does so I asked for a full body. She just sent me like 7 nude pictures! :jawdrop: How do I proceed from here? I'm almost not interested because it'd be too easy.
you remind me of the Kids in the Hall skit with Bruce McCulloch and Kevin McDonald. McCulloch is this short guy with a bad attitude, McDonald is his friend playing devil on the shoulder encouraging him.McCulloch walks in to a bar with buddy in tow... throws his drink in the face of a guy the size of a grizzly bear and challenges him to a fight. all the while buddy is encouraging him to do it.so they take it outside... McCulloch rushes the grizzly who stands there arm outstretched, fist clenched, and crashes face first in to the punch. his buddy encourages him to get up and try again... repeat scene ad nauseum, include crowd yelling for him to stay down, until the grizzly finally picks him up and throws him OVER the building. grizzly and friends walk away laughing at the little guy. after a few seconds of laughter you hear a shriek/battle cry as McCulloch charges the grizzly once more and takes yet another brutal punch in the face and goes down.cut to another skit, 30 seconds, cut back to the bar.... grizzly and friends are laughing.. re-enacting the beating... McCulloch re-appears looking like he's been run over by a dumptruck annnnnnnnnnd throws another drink in the guy's face.saintfool can probably link the exact skit for better effect.:(i admire your stick-to-it-iveness but there comes a point when you just have to know when to say when. i'm not talking about dating women or trying out the dating service... more power to you... but it's setting yourself up for beating after beating after beating.
Although an overly harsh assessment from Furley, I know a little bit of what you are getting at with your post. I think Woz has yet to discover his own game (I could be wrong). Thing to always consider: Who are the girls that are most likely going to be into you. What situations and scenarios are you good/bad in. Knowing your own confidence level. What is your game/angle/strength....use it to your advantage. imo....to do well with the ladies, you need to have a good grasp of the 4 things above.
it's not harsh. :no:it's honest. fiancee gets upset with me at times for being too harsh... but after a while she gets over it and realizes (her admission) that i was right and she needs to have thicker skin. in the end all i'm trying to do is help her.maybe it's the product of growing up with guys in my family and guy friends. :shrug: men tend to be tougher on each other. none of my friends pull punches but i don't take it personally.difference between thick and think skin i guess.taking beating after beating after beating because he is sharing embarrassing details about his personal life... particularly as it relates to women... can't be helping the confidence. it just can't.this thread is sort of a mixed bag. on one hand he's doing the right thing.. throwing himself in to the fire and trying to pick up new chicks but, like with AMBO, it's just embarrassing to watch the (seemingly) inevitable ugly failures.sometimes when you're trying to build confidence and success.. it's best to ignore the failures completely... learn from them, yes, but don't talk about them and dwell on it.:2cents:i know woz thinks i'm crazy and hate him but that only developed after the 13th "my life is a failure, i suck" thread where he ignored good advice from dozens of FBGs, continued to plow forward with blinders on and then played the "i just don't understand why my life sucks so much". it was like he had everyone on ignore and was writing tortured, embarrasing notes, in his personal journal.
Well agree on the AMBO comment for sure. Some other good points as well. Just a little harsh for my style. I really think Woz has potential, I've seen his pics (He should be able to land hotties). He's run into some bad luck and played a few hands poorly.Live and learn.
 
Woz said:
Idating update:Updated pictures on the undergroundCute Emilie = Girl I've been talking to a lot. Definitely like her. Seems like a partier. I'm going to meet her on Saturday and then, if things go well, she's coming up the following weekend for a lake party. Cocky chick = I like her physically. She's from close. Looking to seal the deal. Mom = Chick is like 22 with 4 kids! I found myself attracted to her though. She wants to meet me ASAP. She said something about her bikini pic making her looking better than she does so I asked for a full body. She just sent me like 7 nude pictures! :jawdrop: How do I proceed from here? I'm almost not interested because it'd be too easy.
you remind me of the Kids in the Hall skit with Bruce McCulloch and Kevin McDonald. McCulloch is this short guy with a bad attitude, McDonald is his friend playing devil on the shoulder encouraging him.McCulloch walks in to a bar with buddy in tow... throws his drink in the face of a guy the size of a grizzly bear and challenges him to a fight. all the while buddy is encouraging him to do it.so they take it outside... McCulloch rushes the grizzly who stands there arm outstretched, fist clenched, and crashes face first in to the punch. his buddy encourages him to get up and try again... repeat scene ad nauseum, include crowd yelling for him to stay down, until the grizzly finally picks him up and throws him OVER the building. grizzly and friends walk away laughing at the little guy. after a few seconds of laughter you hear a shriek/battle cry as McCulloch charges the grizzly once more and takes yet another brutal punch in the face and goes down.cut to another skit, 30 seconds, cut back to the bar.... grizzly and friends are laughing.. re-enacting the beating... McCulloch re-appears looking like he's been run over by a dumptruck annnnnnnnnnd throws another drink in the guy's face.saintfool can probably link the exact skit for better effect.:(i admire your stick-to-it-iveness but there comes a point when you just have to know when to say when. i'm not talking about dating women or trying out the dating service... more power to you... but it's setting yourself up for beating after beating after beating.
Although an overly harsh assessment from Furley, I know a little bit of what you are getting at with your post. I think Woz has yet to discover his own game (I could be wrong). Thing to always consider: Who are the girls that are most likely going to be into you. What situations and scenarios are you good/bad in. Knowing your own confidence level. What is your game/angle/strength....use it to your advantage. imo....to do well with the ladies, you need to have a good grasp of the 4 things above.
it's not harsh. :no:it's honest. fiancee gets upset with me at times for being too harsh... but after a while she gets over it and realizes (her admission) that i was right and she needs to have thicker skin. in the end all i'm trying to do is help her.maybe it's the product of growing up with guys in my family and guy friends. :shrug: men tend to be tougher on each other. none of my friends pull punches but i don't take it personally.difference between thick and think skin i guess.taking beating after beating after beating because he is sharing embarrassing details about his personal life... particularly as it relates to women... can't be helping the confidence. it just can't.this thread is sort of a mixed bag. on one hand he's doing the right thing.. throwing himself in to the fire and trying to pick up new chicks but, like with AMBO, it's just embarrassing to watch the (seemingly) inevitable ugly failures.sometimes when you're trying to build confidence and success.. it's best to ignore the failures completely... learn from them, yes, but don't talk about them and dwell on it.:2cents:i know woz thinks i'm crazy and hate him but that only developed after the 13th "my life is a failure, i suck" thread where he ignored good advice from dozens of FBGs, continued to plow forward with blinders on and then played the "i just don't understand why my life sucks so much". it was like he had everyone on ignore and was writing tortured, embarrasing notes, in his personal journal.
so you do hate me :thumbup:In regards to what you're saying, I do think a little self-deprication is good sometimes and FBG was my outlet for that. In real life I'm pretty calm and very self-confident. I've had a recent string of tough breaks/poor choices/whatever you want to label them. Also, it wasn't like I wasn't listening to you guys - I just thought, with reason, that a lot of you guys were wrong and I had to learn it myself on a few things. :shrug:
 
to hate someone in the iWorld would be pretty ####in wacky.

but to say you're one guy in the real world but the total opposite on the internet (both being honest portrayals somehow and there is no shtick involved) is unpossible.

all this negativity and flaying of yourself is really really bad for your confidence and self-esteem. i'm not saying don't listen to any doubt/doubters but you kinda gotta be blissfully ignorant of the flaws.

 
mr. furley said:
to hate someone in the iWorld would be pretty ####in wacky.but to say you're one guy in the real world but the total opposite on the internet (both being honest portrayals somehow and there is no shtick involved) is unpossible.all this negativity and flaying of yourself is really really bad for your confidence and self-esteem. i'm not saying don't listen to any doubt/doubters but you kinda gotta be blissfully ignorant of the flaws.
:shrug: Actually I thought all of Furley's posts on this today were really solid. I guess I didn't take them as negatively as others did, but maybe I would have if they had been directed at me. Seems like lots of negativity flowing all over the board recently, so it's not surprising that people are a little more sensitive than usual. :loco:
 
mr. furley said:
to hate someone in the iWorld would be pretty ####in wacky.but to say you're one guy in the real world but the total opposite on the internet (both being honest portrayals somehow and there is no shtick involved) is unpossible.all this negativity and flaying of yourself is really really bad for your confidence and self-esteem. i'm not saying don't listen to any doubt/doubters but you kinda gotta be blissfully ignorant of the flaws.
you mean "fileting"?Also, I'm not saying I'm "completely" different, just not so negatively honest. But as for self-deprecation, both dates lined up for the weekend called and cancelled. Guess Woz is going to be alone and in bitter mode all day. :sadbanana:
 
But as for self-deprecation, both dates lined up for the weekend called and cancelled. Guess Woz is going to be alone and in bitter mode all day. :thumbup:
Woo-hoo, I have a date tonite so I should be bypassing Woz and sending him to the cellar. Of course she is supposed to call with the time so this celebration may be short lived.
 
to hate someone in the iWorld would be pretty ####in wacky.

but to say you're one guy in the real world but the total opposite on the internet (both being honest portrayals somehow and there is no shtick involved) is unpossible.

all this negativity and flaying of yourself is really really bad for your confidence and self-esteem. i'm not saying don't listen to any doubt/doubters but you kinda gotta be blissfully ignorant of the flaws.
you mean "fileting"?
:thumbup: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flaying

 
Idating update:Updated pictures on the undergroundCute Emilie = Girl I've been talking to a lot. Definitely like her. Seems like a partier. I'm going to meet her on Saturday and then, if things go well, she's coming up the following weekend for a lake party. Cocky chick = I like her physically. She's from close. Looking to seal the deal. Mom = Chick is like 22 with 4 kids! I found myself attracted to her though. She wants to meet me ASAP. She said something about her bikini pic making her looking better than she does so I asked for a full body. She just sent me like 7 nude pictures! :thumbup: How do I proceed from here? I'm almost not interested because it'd be too easy.
you remind me of the Kids in the Hall skit with Bruce McCulloch and Kevin McDonald. McCulloch is this short guy with a bad attitude, McDonald is his friend playing devil on the shoulder encouraging him.McCulloch walks in to a bar with buddy in tow... throws his drink in the face of a guy the size of a grizzly bear and challenges him to a fight. all the while buddy is encouraging him to do it.so they take it outside... McCulloch rushes the grizzly who stands there arm outstretched, fist clenched, and crashes face first in to the punch. his buddy encourages him to get up and try again... repeat scene ad nauseum, include crowd yelling for him to stay down, until the grizzly finally picks him up and throws him OVER the building. grizzly and friends walk away laughing at the little guy. after a few seconds of laughter you hear a shriek/battle cry as McCulloch charges the grizzly once more and takes yet another brutal punch in the face and goes down.cut to another skit, 30 seconds, cut back to the bar.... grizzly and friends are laughing.. re-enacting the beating... McCulloch re-appears looking like he's been run over by a dumptruck annnnnnnnnnd throws another drink in the guy's face.saintfool can probably link the exact skit for better effect.:(i admire your stick-to-it-iveness but there comes a point when you just have to know when to say when. i'm not talking about dating women or trying out the dating service... more power to you... but it's setting yourself up for beating after beating after beating.
Although an overly harsh assessment from Furley, I know a little bit of what you are getting at with your post. I think Woz has yet to discover his own game (I could be wrong). Thing to always consider: Who are the girls that are most likely going to be into you. What situations and scenarios are you good/bad in. Knowing your own confidence level. What is your game/angle/strength....use it to your advantage. imo....to do well with the ladies, you need to have a good grasp of the 4 things above.
it's not harsh. :no:it's honest. fiancee gets upset with me at times for being too harsh... but after a while she gets over it and realizes (her admission) that i was right and she needs to have thicker skin. in the end all i'm trying to do is help her.maybe it's the product of growing up with guys in my family and guy friends. ;) men tend to be tougher on each other. none of my friends pull punches but i don't take it personally.difference between thick and think skin i guess.taking beating after beating after beating because he is sharing embarrassing details about his personal life... particularly as it relates to women... can't be helping the confidence. it just can't.this thread is sort of a mixed bag. on one hand he's doing the right thing.. throwing himself in to the fire and trying to pick up new chicks but, like with AMBO, it's just embarrassing to watch the (seemingly) inevitable ugly failures.sometimes when you're trying to build confidence and success.. it's best to ignore the failures completely... learn from them, yes, but don't talk about them and dwell on it.:thumbup:i know woz thinks i'm crazy and hate him but that only developed after the 13th "my life is a failure, i suck" thread where he ignored good advice from dozens of FBGs, continued to plow forward with blinders on and then played the "i just don't understand why my life sucks so much". it was like he had everyone on ignore and was writing tortured, embarrasing notes, in his personal journal.
so you do hate me :thumbup:In regards to what you're saying, I do think a little self-deprication is good sometimes and FBG was my outlet for that. In real life I'm pretty calm and very self-confident. I've had a recent string of tough breaks/poor choices/whatever you want to label them. Also, it wasn't like I wasn't listening to you guys - I just thought, with reason, that a lot of you guys were wrong and I had to learn it myself on a few things. :shrug:
There's a fine line between "self-deprecating" and "whiny." You are usually on the wrong side of it.
 
Status

BG: Found a girlfriend

Stu: Found an exclusive

Woz: Found a pyscho, realized he still loves his ex

Cubby: Sadly writes some almost unreadable updates

Otis: Struck out with HBFA, chasing NY tail instead

Furley, Code, BnB: Running out of shtick

Gekko: Hit and Run

Krista: Trying hard to keep things afloat

Keys and Ditka appear to be our two most promising players still in the game...

Did I miss anyone?

 
On your status: I keep getting stood up, but have a rescheduled date with "cute emilie" this weekend who may come out to a lake party with me. Looking forward to that.

Got a little psycho update though: Was at work party I couldn't attend Friday night because of baseball. Apparently work got "around" and she was asking everyone about me awesome. Then Saturday night my buddies get ahold of my cell and find it funny to text her random crap. Looks like she has an opening. :yawn:

 
Status

BG: Found a girlfriend

Stu: Found an exclusive

Woz: Found a pyscho, realized he still loves his ex

Cubby: Sadly writes some almost unreadable updates

Otis: Struck out with HBFA, chasing NY tail instead

Furley, Code, BnB: Running out of shtick

Gekko: Hit and Run

Krista: Trying hard to keep things afloat

Keys and Ditka appear to be our two most promising players still in the game...

Did I miss anyone?
:homer: Excellent summary. :D
 
Okay, update from me on this weekend.

Saturday, I went on the date to Summerfest with that girl I thought was going to be the most interesting. By FAR the best date I've had out of this experience. Automatic click, we had a blast, our first kiss was randomly in the middle of a P!atD song, spent 8 hours together and didn't want to say goodnight. So, a very good deal there.

Sunday, at Woz's "advice" :unsure: , went out with blonde girl again. Went to a movie, because I just really wanted to see Ratatouille, and we had a good time, goodnight kiss, then she invited me up, so we fooled around for a bit, and I went home (had to work early today).

Going back out with Latina girl this week sometime, if I have time, then blonde girl mentioned she wanted to go out again before her trip. Made a few new connections, so we'll probably schedule those for next week, and of course, I'll go out with Summerfest girl again (probably this weekend--she lives 35 minutes away, which is the downside).

I keep promising pictures, but time seems to be really hard to find lately. Got the internet working properly again at home, so hopefully tonight? Maybe?

Oh, and if you've been following my drama at anoth:e:r site, an interesting side note, but I'll post that there after work.

 

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