***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (14 Viewers)

[parasaurolophus]

Dear Krista,I hope you are alive. If you are not, please disregard this post.Sincerely, TU

Perhaps he will at least get a good story out of this, about the time he started communicating with someone on eHarmony who died before they had a chance to talk.

please let me reply to him as your friend and say you have passed.

Oh god that's tempting.

i can say I am a good friend of yours from way back and as I was helping clean out your place i saw a couple printouts from some idates, or at least guys she was interested in. I figured she would like you to know that she wasnt writing back because she wasnt interested, she just happened to pass on.i can even tell him where the funeral plans are.

 

[Woz]

Woz, you going to actually tell us what happened?

I didn't blow it three nights in a row.

Did she?

this guy gets it - needs to pluralize though

 

[parasaurolophus]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

OH BULL####

 

[Woz]

Dear Krista,I hope you are alive. If you are not, please disregard this post.Sincerely, TU

Perhaps he will at least get a good story out of this, about the time he started communicating with someone on eHarmony who died before they had a chance to talk.

please let me reply to him as your friend and say you have passed.

Oh god that's tempting.

i can say I am a good friend of yours from way back and as I was helping clean out your place i saw a couple printouts from some idates, or at least guys she was interested in. I figured she would like you to know that she wasnt writing back because she wasnt interested, she just happened to pass on.i can even tell him where the funeral plans are.

hilarious.

 

[Woz]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

call her next monday?

 

[dotman]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

 

[Keys Myaths]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

if you think there is potential for something here, call her and go for it...you act like Milwaukee to Madison is a cross-country drive...

So you're saying suck it up and drive there again this weekend?Ugh. Yeah, I don't wanna. Maybe next weekend.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

call her next monday?

That's way too long from the last time I talked to her, methinks, especially in the online dating world.You know what? #### this, getting too wrapped up in that girl.I'm just moving on.

 

[parasaurolophus]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

if you think there is potential for something here, call her and go for it...you act like Milwaukee to Madison is a cross-country drive...

So you're saying suck it up and drive there again this weekend?Ugh. Yeah, I don't wanna. Maybe next weekend.

so you have made up your mind already, no?She isnt worth it then GB.

 

[krista4]

Dear Krista,I hope you are alive. If you are not, please disregard this post.Sincerely, TU

Perhaps he will at least get a good story out of this, about the time he started communicating with someone on eHarmony who died before they had a chance to talk.

please let me reply to him as your friend and say you have passed.

Oh god that's tempting.

i can say I am a good friend of yours from way back and as I was helping clean out your place i saw a couple printouts from some idates, or at least guys she was interested in. I figured she would like you to know that she wasnt writing back because she wasnt interested, she just happened to pass on.i can even tell him where the funeral plans are.

Only willing to do it if you'll say that I was tragically killed while trying to save a busload full of penguins. Maybe also that the penguins were on their way to bring joy and glee to ill children in a remote area of Africa. I want to go out a heroine. TIA.

 

[Woz]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

 

[parasaurolophus]

Dear Krista,I hope you are alive. If you are not, please disregard this post.Sincerely, TU

Perhaps he will at least get a good story out of this, about the time he started communicating with someone on eHarmony who died before they had a chance to talk.

please let me reply to him as your friend and say you have passed.

Oh god that's tempting.

i can say I am a good friend of yours from way back and as I was helping clean out your place i saw a couple printouts from some idates, or at least guys she was interested in. I figured she would like you to know that she wasnt writing back because she wasnt interested, she just happened to pass on.i can even tell him where the funeral plans are.

Only willing to do it if you'll say that I was tragically killed while trying to save a busload full of penguins. Maybe also that the penguins were on their way to bring joy and glee to ill children in a remote area of Africa. I want to go out a heroine. TIA.

why stop at penguins?I will make you the mother theresa of the animal kingdom.

 

[Tremendous Upside]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

call her next monday?

That's way too long from the last time I talked to her, methinks, especially in the online dating world.You know what? #### this, getting too wrapped up in that girl.I'm just moving on.

To quote Clive Owen in Croupier:"Hold on tightly, let go lightly"

 

[Alias]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

if you think there is potential for something here, call her and go for it...you act like Milwaukee to Madison is a cross-country drive...

So you're saying suck it up and drive there again this weekend?Ugh. Yeah, I don't wanna. Maybe next weekend.

If you drove there last weekend, I would put the onus on her to drive out to you this weekend, otherwise she'll think she's got you by the balls.

 

[krista4]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

call her next monday?

That's way too long from the last time I talked to her, methinks, especially in the online dating world.You know what? #### this, getting too wrapped up in that girl.I'm just moving on.

The nice move here would be to call and tell her that you had a really great time but that you aren't sure it would work due to distance. This doesn't seem too hard.

 

[Woz]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

if you think there is potential for something here, call her and go for it...you act like Milwaukee to Madison is a cross-country drive...

So you're saying suck it up and drive there again this weekend?Ugh. Yeah, I don't wanna. Maybe next weekend.

If you drove there last weekend, I would put the onus on her to drive out to you this weekend, otherwise she'll think she's got you by the balls.

this makes sense. invite her to your place. she doesn't want to then forget about her

 

[krista4]

Oh, and after you tell her that the distance won't work, change your eHarmony preferences back to the smallest distance you can. Why waste your time and theirs?

 

[parasaurolophus]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

if you think there is potential for something here, call her and go for it...you act like Milwaukee to Madison is a cross-country drive...

So you're saying suck it up and drive there again this weekend?Ugh. Yeah, I don't wanna. Maybe next weekend.

If you drove there last weekend, I would put the onus on her to drive out to you this weekend, otherwise she'll think she's got you by the balls.

this makes sense. invite her to your place. she doesn't want to then forget about her

you are gonna want to be single in madison this weekend Keys.

 

[Keys Myaths]

she doesn't want to then forget about her

No idea what this means.And inviting her to Madison might actually be the play ( for thinking about Woz's advice).

 

[larry_boy_44]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

if you think there is potential for something here, call her and go for it...you act like Milwaukee to Madison is a cross-country drive...

So you're saying suck it up and drive there again this weekend?Ugh. Yeah, I don't wanna. Maybe next weekend.

how's this... call her, talk to her... and see what happens...See if she wants to come out to Madison to do something... or maybe meet halfway somewhere...seriously... relationship with good girl = worth long, annoying car drives...

 

[Keys Myaths]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

if you think there is potential for something here, call her and go for it...you act like Milwaukee to Madison is a cross-country drive...

So you're saying suck it up and drive there again this weekend?Ugh. Yeah, I don't wanna. Maybe next weekend.

If you drove there last weekend, I would put the onus on her to drive out to you this weekend, otherwise she'll think she's got you by the balls.

Pretty sure that's not a problem with me, gb. I really don't bend an inch when it comes to this kind of stuff. It's actually a fault of mine.

 

[Keys Myaths]

relationship

 

[Woz]

she doesn't want to then forget about her

No idea what this means.And inviting her to Madison might actually be the play ( for thinking about Woz's advice).

:bitestongue:

 

[larry_boy_44]

relationship

yes, it is scary lol...just give her a call, the worst that will happen is she won't be interested in coming by you ever, in which case it 100% won't work because of the distance...

 

[dotman]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

Nah I haven't even had more than 10 minutes to sit at the computer and I want to take some new pictures too. A lot going on now so my goal is to have it up and running by the end of this weekend.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

Nah I haven't even had more than 10 minutes to sit at the computer and I want to take some new pictures too. A lot going on now so my goal is to have it up and running by the end of this weekend.

Just put in pictures of you with your arm around Woz's ex, and her face blacked out.

 

[Woz]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

Nah I haven't even had more than 10 minutes to sit at the computer and I want to take some new pictures too. A lot going on now so my goal is to have it up and running by the end of this weekend.

Just put in pictures of you with your arm around Woz's ex, and her face blacked out.

you do realize how badly I could beat you, right?eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

 

[Keys Myaths]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

Nah I haven't even had more than 10 minutes to sit at the computer and I want to take some new pictures too. A lot going on now so my goal is to have it up and running by the end of this weekend.

Just put in pictures of you with your arm around Woz's ex, and her face blacked out.

you do realize how badly I could beat you, right?

 

[Keys Myaths]

eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

 

[dotman]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

Nah I haven't even had more than 10 minutes to sit at the computer and I want to take some new pictures too. A lot going on now so my goal is to have it up and running by the end of this weekend.

Just put in pictures of you with your arm around Woz's ex, and her face blacked out.

I don't want Woz to see the pics of I have of her...

 

[larry_boy_44]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

Nah I haven't even had more than 10 minutes to sit at the computer and I want to take some new pictures too. A lot going on now so my goal is to have it up and running by the end of this weekend.

Just put in pictures of you with your arm around Woz's ex, and her face blacked out.

you do realize how badly I could beat you, right?eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

and here I was starting to believe that woz had finally started to come around...guess we all have dreams, huh?

 

[larry_boy_44]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

Nah I haven't even had more than 10 minutes to sit at the computer and I want to take some new pictures too. A lot going on now so my goal is to have it up and running by the end of this weekend.

Just put in pictures of you with your arm around Woz's ex, and her face blacked out.

I don't want Woz to see the pics of I have of her...

 

[dotman]

eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

Actually, she had the roaming hand on my leg...but I didn't stop her!

 

[Disco Stu]

Thinking of calling Milwaukee girl tomorrow night to say hi...but I rarely do that. I want to let her know I'm still interested, but I really don't feel like going there this weekend. What's the play here?

I know this was like 100 posts ago, but never got serious advice here.

call her next monday?

That's way too long from the last time I talked to her, methinks, especially in the online dating world.You know what? #### this, getting too wrapped up in that girl.I'm just moving on.

Atta boy.

 

[ditka...mike ditka]

i think im back boys...and girls..

 

[Disco Stu]

What's with this coz Woz BS? Seriously, a lot of people have gone out of their way to give you advice and help you regain yoru confidence and stop being such a maxipad wearing #####. The least you can do is share you success story without acting like you're suddenly too good for the thread.

That's not my intent. While I don't mind sharing disasters or funny stories, I want to be modest about the other stuff. I also have an ispy concern here (which hopefully is no longer around, but who knows). But the gist is that I had B and M success with girls I go to school with on Thursday and Friday. Saturday went out with the hotornot girl. We had dinner, moved to the bar, closed the bar, and then some. I now have three girls to contact the next few days and two have already contacted me. I guess the info pertinent to this thread would be the discussion I had w/ hotornot girl about idating. We both shared our psycho stories - she mainly gets the clingy guys who want to move in after a week and have begun stalking her. Pretty obvious the play here, if I want to see her again, is to seem as busy and uninterested as possible. I will note that it seems like the most successful site for me is hotornot. I think it's this way because most of my "double-matches" on there were girls who clicked on me first, so me double-clicking then sending them messages is exactly what they want. Also seems to have the most cuties too.

This is why we have the underground.And I agree about the hotornot thing. It's much easier to send messages to girls who you know are interested.

 

[Drifter]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

Nah I haven't even had more than 10 minutes to sit at the computer and I want to take some new pictures too. A lot going on now so my goal is to have it up and running by the end of this weekend.

Just put in pictures of you with your arm around Woz's ex, and her face blacked out.

you do realize how badly I could beat you, right?eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

Why are you telling him how bad a hand job you give?

 

[parasaurolophus]

eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

Actually, she had the roaming hand on my leg...but I didn't stop her!

backstory here?

 

[dotman]

eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

Actually, she had the roaming hand on my leg...but I didn't stop her!

backstory here?

Ehhhh not all that interesting really, Woz, myself, and our girlfriends were hanging out, much alcohol was consumed, and his girlfriend started rubbing my leg out of nowhere, I was so my girlfriend hit me...somehow it was my fault Good times.

 

[larry_boy_44]

eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

:(

Actually, she had the roaming hand on my leg...but I didn't stop her!

backstory here?

Ehhhh not all that interesting really, Woz, myself, and our girlfriends were hanging out, much alcohol was consumed, and his girlfriend started rubbing my leg out of nowhere, I was so my girlfriend hit me...somehow it was my fault Good times.

 

[Woz]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

Nah I haven't even had more than 10 minutes to sit at the computer and I want to take some new pictures too. A lot going on now so my goal is to have it up and running by the end of this weekend.

Just put in pictures of you with your arm around Woz's ex, and her face blacked out.

I don't want Woz to see the pics of I have of her...

funny guy... there was no camera that night

 

[Woz]

eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

Actually, she had the roaming hand on my leg...but I didn't stop her!

backstory here?

Ehhhh not all that interesting really, Woz, myself, and our girlfriends were hanging out, much alcohol was consumed, and his girlfriend started rubbing my leg out of nowhere, I was so my girlfriend hit me...somehow it was my fault Good times.

i remember her holding your hand for no apparent reason (she had mine in the other), but don't remember the leg thing. eh, whatever.eta: but at your gf getting mad. i remember that. that and them not making out

 

[Woz]

Dot wants to know when Woz started talking in the 3rd person. We all get it, you love Otis, but seriously...

when i became a ####### adjective and a regular noun i figured i may as well go third personbtw, you start this thing yet?

Nah I haven't even had more than 10 minutes to sit at the computer and I want to take some new pictures too. A lot going on now so my goal is to have it up and running by the end of this weekend.

Just put in pictures of you with your arm around Woz's ex, and her face blacked out.

you do realize how badly I could beat you, right?eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

Why are you telling him how bad a hand job you give?

it's from a movie, champ

 

[larry_boy_44]

eta: and he's never had his arm around her, just held her hand once

Actually, she had the roaming hand on my leg...but I didn't stop her!

backstory here?

Ehhhh not all that interesting really, Woz, myself, and our girlfriends were hanging out, much alcohol was consumed, and his girlfriend started rubbing my leg out of nowhere, I was so my girlfriend hit me...somehow it was my fault Good times.

i remember her holding your hand for no apparent reason (she had mine in the other), but don't remember the leg thing. eh, whatever.

 

[Keys Myaths]

These wimmen are getting offended when I click on the "request photo" button.

Jesus. 4 out of 5 closed today, and the fifth won't release it.

WTMF?

 

[Keys Myaths]

BTW--going to send some stupid messages on Match tonight. If you have a fairly clean (meaning: I won't get banned from Match), but funny/shticky message to send, let's have it. I'm not taking that site seriously anymore, so we might as well.

 

[krista4]

These wimmen are getting offended when I click on the "request photo" button.Jesus. 4 out of 5 closed today, and the fifth won't release it.WTMF?

Truthfully, when it comes to the pics, it's all in how someone asks me. A polite (or just neutral) request is fine and understandable. I'm not sure how I'd feel if I got the "button"--I didn't know it existed (why do I feel like I'm working off some older version of eHarmony?). It's not that it would bother me, but there can be many reasons why someone would hold their picture back. For me, I wouldn't want to show it before open communication, and that's that. So if I got the button at an earlier stage, and there is no way to keep the match open but still not share the pic, then I'd probably close, too, unless the match were the moops, in which case I'd be sending lots of fake pictures of some hottie hoping to trick him into dumping his girlfriend and meeting me. BTW, in my prior iteration at eHarmony, I sent my usual well-thought-out initial open communication, and instead of any real reply, the guy sent something along the lines of "Why haven't you shared your picture? Are you hiding something? I might be talking to a rock for all I know." Closed him, but not before checking his pics and letting him know that he might want to consider NOT revealing his.

 

[Keys Myaths]

These wimmen are getting offended when I click on the "request photo" button.Jesus. 4 out of 5 closed today, and the fifth won't release it.WTMF?

Truthfully, when it comes to the pics, it's all in how someone asks me. A polite (or just neutral) request is fine and understandable. I'm not sure how I'd feel if I got the "button"--I didn't know it existed (why do I feel like I'm working off some older version of eHarmony?). It's not that it would bother me, but there can be many reasons why someone would hold their picture back. For me, I wouldn't want to show it before open communication, and that's that. So if I got the button at an earlier stage, and there is no way to keep the match open but still not share the pic, then I'd probably close, too, unless the match were the moops, in which case I'd be sending lots of fake pictures of some hottie hoping to trick him into dumping his girlfriend and meeting me. BTW, in my prior iteration at eHarmony, I sent my usual well-thought-out initial open communication, and instead of any real reply, the guy sent something along the lines of "Why haven't you shared your picture? Are you hiding something? I might be talking to a rock for all I know." Closed him, but not before checking his pics and letting him know that he might want to consider NOT revealing his.

Nah, just clicked the button, they click close.Not too worried about it, obviously...just think it's funny (and interesting). I would never do what the guys have done to you, obviously. That's just stupid.

 

[Woz]

These wimmen are getting offended when I click on the "request photo" button.Jesus. 4 out of 5 closed today, and the fifth won't release it.WTMF?

I'd rather be with you than a pedophile. :money:

 

[Keys Myaths]

These wimmen are getting offended when I click on the "request photo" button.Jesus. 4 out of 5 closed today, and the fifth won't release it.WTMF?

I'd rather be with you than a pedophile. :money:

You coming on the 28th? Baraboo calls, gb.