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Potential Threesome (1 Viewer)

NCCommish said:
kentric said:
Kanil said:
Lame as #### to cheat on your spouse. I have no respect for people that do so.
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Damn good thing I'm not looking for your respect then.

At least your comment was directed toward the subject in hand.
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Well this isn't really a derailment. The deal is there isn't much left to say about the subject. You got some valid responses. You got some jokes. A few attacks. Now we are at the part of the thread where it really just becomes one long tangent interspersed with people coming in for the first time and making comments that have been made many times. It's the natural life cycle of a thread.
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Right, and now it's your duty to provide the FFA with updates with this decision along with all future infidelity scenarios that you encounter.

 
kentric said:
Freaky Styley said:
kentric said:
A married coworker of mine has confidentially told me that he is having an affair with a "hot" married cougar. They met online and been meeting up to have sex. Last Friday he tells me I should hang with him and her. I kind of got the threesome vibe and told him I couldn't make it - I had to go home to take care of the kids and I don't typically hang out after work. I haven't seen a pic of her yet, but he offered to show me tomorrow.

I'm married (17 years) but my sex life with my wife is very weak. I've got a high sex drive and have had sex with other women while I'm married. My wife had breast cancer a few years back and she basically shut down sexually due to confidence issues. I have tried to build her confidence and she knows I'm still interested in her sexually, but its a very difficult situation. I had sex with other women before this and am not putting out an excuse for my behavior, I just want to give some background about how things are with us.

This morning my coworker came out and said she wants a threesome with a well endowed guy and asked me if I was interested. I'm not John Holmes size, but I'm pretty good, so this isn't a problem.

I've never had a threesome with another guy, but this isn't a big issue for me.

The main complication is that I work with my wife and she knows all my collegues (good friends with a few). My perverse side is looking at this as an opportunity not just for this one time, but as this woman is rather aggressive, I would expect it could lead to trysts with her friends. Problem is obviously my wife finding out about this. Complications surround her.

I likely will punt this, but figured I'd throw it out to the forum for some insight, entertainment.
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So your saying if you can't get nookie from your wife, you're considering sleeping with a male co-worker (and his female friend), I can't imagine that eventually your wife won't find out about your tryst and her being completely humiliated at work.

Does your wife know or suspect that you have cheated on her pre or post illness? Ever considered she's setting you up to divorce you or a put you in a situation where you are forced to resign or are fired from your job as revenge?

At any rate, plenty of strange to be had discretely out there; no need to fish off the company pier and risk your family, job and reputation.
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I didn't say I can't get nookie, it is maybe every six weeks. Part of the problem is that I don't even try much anymore as I get shot down consistently. After our third child seven years ago our sexual relationship dropped considerably. After the ductile cancer/mastectomy, it got even worse. We have talked about it and she admits she doesn't have the desire. We still love one another. For all, please don't hit me with you can't really love someone and have an affair - we all look at things differently. I would give up my life for my wife or kids. Our home life is generally good. She spends maybe 2 weekends/month on average doing her thing (teaches Yoga) and I stay home and take care of the kids. Even with the strain in our sex life, neither of us would consider divorce.

To those focused on size, my coworker has never seen me and I haven't told him my size. I just threw that in my post because it was the only thing he said was discussed with her other than her desire for a threesome. Like I said, I'm not John Holmes (but not Tom Thumb either - assuming he wasn't packing major heat).

This morning he rolled up his sleeve and asked me to sniff his arm as he was trying a new cologne. Told him to ask some other guy to smell it and he said he wanted me to. I'll be passing on the 3some offer.

eta: I don't know his size either. Maybe its small and she wants a bigger guy. Maybe its big and she wants two big guys.
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Tell wifey you want an open marriage and that you'll maintain discreet affairs without embarrassing her or your kids and family . From the backstory you've presented, I think she'll understand and agree it's the best option for both of you. Live your life authentically and without regret.

 
Once you have a threesome, it isn't enough. Next thing you know, you need a foursome. Very awkward when the Marshall walks up and you're teeing off the wrong way.

 
three some (several), four some (several) and six some (twice) about ten years ago

 
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TxBuckeye said:
Derailing and dooshery. This place is going downhill fast. Becoming the Compton of message boards.
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I think you mean the FFT. The trolling going on on FBGs recently is quite awful and most aren't even trying to come up with better shtick.

 
kentric said:
Kanil said:
Lame as #### to cheat on your spouse. I have no respect for people that do so.
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Damn good thing I'm not looking for your respect then.

At least your comment was directed toward the subject in hand.
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It's pretty clear you're not looking for respect.

 
St. Louis Bob said:
Once you have a threesome, it isn't enough. Next thing you know, you need a foursome. Very awkward when the Marshall walks up and you're teeing off the wrong way.
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:goodposting:

First it's 3, then 4, and the next thing you know you are wearing a mask waiting in a bukakee gangbang line.

 
Ned Ryerson said:
AcerFC said:
Not to spin this off track too much but.....

If his wife is no longer willing or able or has desire to be in a physical relationship with him, what is his fall back. Is jerking off the only thing he can do. And what happened to that thread. Wanted to re read Tufnels gem and couldnt find it

Anyway, luckily my wife and I still have the desire for each other but I often wonder what might happen if she was injured, had a stroke like boots wife or had cancer and never wanted to do it again
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Stroke and can't do it anymore....tough spot.But doesn't want to do it anymore (as in never)...I think you have to be upfront with her and say that you aren't happy and that you can continue the marriage for public face and companionship but will be seeking sidepieces, or that you want a divorce.

Cheating without letting your concerns be known is the coward's way out.
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For the record, even with 4 strokes my wife still wants the bone. If she didn't, I'm not sure what I would do, I know I wouldn't get side action without telling her that's for sure.

 
kentric said:
NCCommish said:
My wife has issues with her health as I have discussed before. Her sex drive is nearly nonexistent. I have never cheated on her. Anytime I have had sex with a different woman while we were together she was there and she set it up. She has told me I could cheat on her as long as I didn't leave. But just one look into her eyes tells me while she would understand she would be very hurt if I did but she'd let me to not lose me. I simply can't do it to her. I have been sorely tempted more than once. I'm no Clooney but women like me so I get my chances. But I simply can't do it. I am certainly not happy about our sex life. But I made a promise that included in sickness and in health. I don't make many promises. I keep the ones I make.

With all that said in these cases I wouldn't presume to judge anyone else's relationship. Only the people involved really know what happens behind closed doors. I wish the OP and his wife the best going forward and hope they find a way to make it work.
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I applaud your ability to control yourself. I obviously don't have the will/control that you have. I truly wish my drive was a bit less than what it is.
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:lmao:

congratulations on being a being a guy.

 
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