I read your post as saying that you don't understand why women stay with abusive partners, and then further stating that Janay's decision to marry him, and future potential testimony she gives on his behalf, would make it harder to punish him. I'm not going to get into a semantic debate about whether that constitutes "blaming" her, because that's ultimately an irrelevant point.I didn't blame her. How dare you make such a statement about meIf you don't understand why women stay with abusive partners, maybe you should take the time to educate yourself rather than blaming them. Here, I'll help get you started.Bri said:I doubt an appeal is even heard til that FBI guy finishes the investigation.
I applaud Goodell for being the only one to stand up to this thug.
The criminal justice system let him off and the woman married him.
I can't make sense, never have been, as to why women stay with wife beaters and that's just a horribly ugly set of circumstances. I do think, though, if there is a hearing and the wife testifies on Rice's behalf it'll hold a ton of weight and he'll be able to play at some point. We are all here in some regard, to some degree, looking out for her best interests and when she takes that away by claiming Rice is some great guy or somesuch....it pretty much leaves no one with a leg to stand on.
I would, however, repeat my suggestion that you learn more about why women are unable to leave these relationships. I agree with you on one point: It's incredibly counterintuitive behavior, and most of us probably think that in an analogous situation, there's no way we would stay in the relationship. And yet every day, there are tons of smart, accomplished women (some of whom may be your friends, family or coworkers) who nonetheless find themselves in these types of situations. It's a unique form of psychological torture that I would argue does far more lasting damage than the physical attacks. And the fact that it's so widespread suggests that it has more to do with human psychology than with the individual decisions of these women.