@Higgs, you seem like a genuine guy, so I'll address you in a non-schtick fashion for a second:
You describe the scene, and you refer to the race of the two people that the woman is talking about. But you do it in a situation that describing race is completely unnecessary. You aren't using it to differentiate people to clear up confusion, but rather bringing race into a conversation where it isn't needed or called for. As an observer, it tells me that the race of these two men is somehow important to you. Why else bring it up? You've gotten upset when Tim (and maybe others) have called you racist. I don't know you, so I really don't have an opinion on that matter. But when I read a post like this (regardless of the author), I'd guess that the person on the other end of the keyboard is probably . . . well, a racist. And I really hate that word because it's really lost its meaning. So maybe I'd come up with some other way to describe it. Hung up on race issues?
However you want to see yourself, or however you want to spin it in your head, if you see this video, and you think it is somehow important to distinguish the race of the respective parties, than I'm going to make an assumption that you've got a hang-up over race.
TL;DR version: Why is it important to bring race into it?