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So hungover this morning I accidently wore two different shoes (1 Viewer)

Conanthecontrarian said:
so this "everybody hates me because I hit on a co-worker" could just all be in your head. nobody has said or done anything, you just think they are acting different towards you.

crazy thought, but do you think you might be overeacting to the situation by saying "you gotta find a new job now"?
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I think they think I'm a creep now. Not all of them but I can tell about half of them know and are acting differently towards.

 
DocHolliday said:
A second job seems like it would help out with a lot of Rok problems.   Looking for a better job while you have a job is another good idea.   
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I can't handle taking on the dynamics of a second job while I'm working 30-35 a week at my current.

Im waiting for business to pick up. Working myself to death like I was with the staffing agency isn't going to help my depression even though I'm low on disposable income.

 
squistion said:
Yeah, that is the question. What exactly did he do? Ask to have a drink after work or what?
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It's not how I asked her out it was what I said during a blackout after she turned me down. I have no recollection of it and know until i read the texts 2 days later but by then the damage was done.

i explained my actions and apologized profusely. She accepted my apology and has been cool about it.

im not going to tell you what I said so don't ask.

 
RokNRole said:
It's not how I asked her out it was what I said during a blackout after she turned me down. I have no recollection of it and know until i read the texts 2 days later but by then the damage was done.

i explained my actions and apologized profusely. She accepted my apology and has been cool about it.

im not going to tell you what I said so don't ask.
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Did you drop a magnum condom from your wallet near her and ask her to pick it up?  That always works. Be sure to tell her it's for your monster Wang

 
RokNRole said:
I can't handle taking on the dynamics of a second job while I'm working 30-35 a week at my current.

Im waiting for business to pick up. Working myself to death like I was with the staffing agency isn't going to help my depression even though I'm low on disposable income.
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Serious question Rok...

...how many hours per day/night do you sleep?

I have long been diagnosed with a disorder than includes manic/depression (i.e. Bipolar). In my experience, the less sleep I have, the more I am inclined to a "manic phase"...the more sleep I have, the more inclined I am to a "depressive phase".

7 hours/day is about the sweep spot for me. Thus, I try to make the most of the other 17 hours of the day....work...whatever...it has gotten me off my meds for a few years now.

EDIT: And I DO NOT mean that my "phase" drives my sleep....RATHER, my sleep drives my phase....make sense?

 
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Man of Constant Sorrow said:
Serious question Rok...

...how many hours per day/night do you sleep?

I have long been diagnosed with a disorder than includes manic/depression (i.e. Bipolar). In my experience, the less sleep I have, the more I am inclined to a "manic phase"...the more sleep I have, the more inclined I am to a "depressive phase".

7 hours/day is about the sweep spot for me. Thus, I try to make the most of the other 17 hours of the day....work...whatever...it has gotten me off my meds for a few years now.
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I tend to wake up after around 5 hours because I have to pee or a noise disturbs me. Sometimes I can get back to sleep for a few hours and sometimes I can't. On my days off I tend to take 1-2 naps because my body just forces me to, even if I have important things to do I tend not to get them done because I'm exhausted. I've always had difficulty sleeping and I'm always tired unless I get an adrenaline boost for some reason.

 
RokNRole said:
I tend to wake up after around 5 hours because I have to pee or a noise disturbs me. Sometimes I can get back to sleep for a few hours and sometimes I can't. On my days off I tend to take 1-2 naps because my body just forces me to, even if I have important things to do I tend not to get them done because I'm exhausted. I've always had difficulty sleeping and I'm always tired unless I get an adrenaline boost for some reason.
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From my limited and personal experience, that makes sense. Insomnia was a MAJOR problem for me until I quit/regulated my drinking. I was a 12 pack a night guy during my major stress years. Now, I partake only infrequently.,,but...I had to go through total abstinence for a few years. Some may need to abstain forever.

For myself, I force myself to limit my sleeping to between 6-8 hours per day/night. 

Now, I am not saying that my regulation is proper for all...we each need to find our own range...but it has worked wonders for me.

A sleep log that records your sleep time and resulting day is good way to find your own personal range. Note when bad/good days occur, and see if there may be any correlation with your sleep time.

Good luck bro....and...when am I gonna get my Dong Pic? ;)

 
Man of Constant Sorrow said:
From my limited and personal experience, that makes sense. Insomnia was a MAJOR problem for me until I quit/regulated my drinking. I was a 12 pack a night guy during my major stress years. Now, I partake only infrequently.,,but...I had to go through total abstinence for a few years. Some may need to abstain forever.

For myself, I force myself to limit my sleeping to between 6-8 hours per day/night. 

Now, I am not saying that my regulation is proper for all...we each need to find our own range...but it has worked wonders for me.

A sleep log that records your sleep time and resulting day is good way to find your own personal range. Note when bad/good days occur, and see if there may be any correlation with your sleep time.

Good luck bro....and...when am I gonna get my Dong Pic? ;)
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My insomnia was a big part of when I started to drink heavy. It was the only way I could suppress my thoughts and get sleep. Now it may be having the opposite effect. Idk all I know is im having trouble stopping because I'm bored every night I come home.

 
RokNRole said:
My insomnia was a big part of when I started to drink heavy. It was the only way I could suppress my thoughts and get sleep.
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EXACTLY! I was the same way!

I would have worries/concerns about the next day....they would torture me! I BELIEVED that alcohol would suppress me and let me relax...sleep.

That  was a false belief....even though I often passed out to sleep many a night.

RokNRole said:
Now it may be having the opposite effect.
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EXACTLY AGAIN!

After too much time, it just added to my "alertness". It no longer helped me sleep...rather, it kept me awake...was a circle. And, I was not aware of it. Now, I am not super-smart, nor super-stupid. Yet, I missed it. IMO, I missed it because I had accustomed myself to it. This happens to  everyone in some way...imo.

RokNRole said:
Idk all I know is im having trouble stopping because I'm bored every night I come home.
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Yep...I get it.

People like us...who are so far removed from the norm...things like this have effects/affects. Yet, it  is up to us to adjust.

We have no choice.

Life and the world ain't gonna change their course to accommodate loons like us.

BTW: "loons" is a term of affection in my little multiverse.

 
RokNRole said:
It's not how I asked her out it was what I said during a blackout after she turned me down. I have no recollection of it and know until i read the texts 2 days later but by then the damage was done.

i explained my actions and apologized profusely. She accepted my apology and has been cool about it.

im not going to tell you what I said so don't ask.
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of course not. until this thread falls to page 5 again and you realize you got to get some peeps interested to get it back on the 1st page.

 
I want to upload a 1 minute video of me playing drums to see what you guys think. Does it have to be on YouTube? I tried imgur but it didn't work. Where can I upload the video instantly and post it?

 
RokNRole said:
We can all rest easy with people like you pointing that out. Keep up the good work!
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I went through three years of counseling six years ago to correct a few behaviors passed down to me by my alcoholic mom.  Only 50 bucs each session. No insurance.  Helped change several things for the better.  I'd recommend him because I know he does Skype sessions but I respect him too much and I know you would not follow through and it would be a complete waste of time for him.  

 
Getzlaf15 said:
I went through three years of counseling six years ago to correct a few behaviors passed down to me by my alcoholic mom.  Only 50 bucs each session. No insurance.  Helped change several things for the better.  I'd recommend him because I know he does Skype sessions but I respect him too much and I know you would not follow through and it would be a complete waste of time for him.  
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So are you pointing out a fishing trip or trying to give advice?

Im confused

 
Of course any time I make sense there will be no response. Until I get drunk again , making little sense, and the rats can come out of their holes to call it a fishing trip.....for their own self gratification.

Congrats. Congratulations at have nothing to say unless it's at the expense of others. You really live a charmed life ( naming yourself after sports heroes you could never emulate).

I hope one day to achieve that level of self confidence.

 
RokNRole said:
I don't recall you ever being very friendly @jon_mx. Why would I , or anyone, take you seriously?
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You don't take honest advice as friendly.  You take it as an attack.  I spent time offering information and advice numerous times and you end up getting your panties in a bind.  

 
jon_mx said:
You don't take honest advice as friendly.  You take it as an attack.  I spent time offering information and advice numerous times and you end up getting your panties in a bind.  
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Have you ever considered your advice may be wrong and only valuable to yourself?

 
RokNRole said:
Stop the presses. God himself has entered the thread!
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And again. The gift that just keeps on giving. 

Too late to delete that last post, eh Rocky?

 
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jon_mx said:
You don't like any advice which is out of line with the hundreds of horrible decisions you have made.  My advice to you has nothing to do with me.  
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Have you considered not giving terrible self centered advice?

Maybe not using two people's personal photos as your avatar? 

 
RokNRole said:
You can at least rest easy that you have none if it.
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That is true, but dozens of other people have. Why do you consistently ignore them? Actually you often piss on them, which then makes people not want to interact with you. I can't even imagine what you must be like face to face. 

Get help. 

 
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RokNRole said:
Have you considered not giving terrible self centered advice?

Maybe not using two people's personal photos as your avatar? 
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My avatar has nothing to do with anything.   You need help immediately with your very serious drinking problem.  I am not sure by what logic you twist that into being self-centered or terrible.  I guess you are drunk again.  Good luck with that.  

 
ex-ghost said:
That is true, but dozens of other people have. Why do you consistently ignore them? Actually you often piss on them, which then makes people not want to interact with you. I can't even imagine what you must be like face to face. 

Get help. 
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This is the equivalent of a film review from Uwe Bol.

 
RokNRole said:
Tomorrow night ( tonight technically) I will tell the full story of my childhood.
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No reason to do this.  You've told us most of the story in bits and pieces before.  Nothing will ever change until you accept 100 percent responsibility for your behaviors and fix them, even though they might have been given to you without you asking for them.  

We all come from broken places in varying degrees, your story isn't more special than anyone else's. 

My therapist calls the telling of the stories as vomiting on others. Please spare us your vomit.  Just go fix it. 

 
Getzlaf15 said:
No reason to do this.  You've told us most of the story in bits and pieces before.  Nothing will ever change until you accept 100 percent responsibility for your behaviors and fix them, even though they might have been given to you without you asking for them.  

We all come from broken places in varying degrees, your story isn't more special than anyone else's. 

My therapist calls the telling of the stories as vomiting on others. Please spare us your vomit.  Just go fix it. 
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You could have let it whither on the vine but now that you are advertising it I have to deliver.

Can it be any worse than the Mayweather /McGregor fight? At least it's free.

 
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