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RokNRole said:
 I told her we can be friends. The more I ignore her the more she wants to talk to me. Even hinted that she may like a FWB arrangement but I declined.
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Oooof.  I hope this wasn't a mistake.  I thought she was hot..

 
I’m tired of woman BS.

Im equally tired of the “ rich” misogynistic pricks on here.

Ive found my dream girl but she doesn’t own me. I’ve got a lot of prospects set up . If she comes around she can have me but I will not play her games nor will I play anyone’s games.

My ex has been in contact and she has finally realized what she gave up. They can all realize that one day. As much as I love I can only do so much. I can’t keep a woman from giving up a good guy , and when they do, even whenthat guy is me, I can’t help but chuckle.

RNR is goingtp be alright. 

Im moving to Colorado soon, getting my grow license and going to be a GM a dispensary . If the women there prove to be just as difficult I’m ready to buy a piece and put a bullet in my head. 

Going out on my own terms.

 
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RokNRole said:
I’m tired of woman BS.

Im equally tired of the “ rich” misogynistic pricks on here

I've found my dream girl but she doesn’t own me. I’ve got a lot of prospects set up . If she comes around she can have me but I will not play her games nor will I play anyone’s games.

My ex has been in contact and she has finally realized what she gave up. They can all realize that one day. As much as I love I can only do so much. I can’t keep a woman from giving up a good guy , and when they do, even whenthat guy is me, I can’t help but chuckle.

RNR is goingtp be alright. 

Im moving to Colorado soon, getting my grow license and going to be a GM a dispensary . If the women there prove to be just as difficult I’m ready to buy a piece and put a bullet in my head. 

Going out on my own terms.
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It doesn't matter where in the world you move, you won't find a woman who will fix you or make your life complete, which is what you are really looking for. You need to fix yourself first.

This advice has been given before but you cavalierly dismissed it - you must learn to love yourself before you can ever love anyone else. And those in the mental health field overwhelming agree with this, if you want to take the time to look into it.

That doesn't mean you have to love every single thing about yourself, and we all have qualities that we find fault with or need improvement on. However, there must a few things about yourself that you like - I suggest you focus on that and try to build some self esteem, which will make you more attractive to any potential partner.

 
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squistion said:
It doesn't matter where in the world you move, you won't find a woman who will fix you or make your life complete, which is what you are really looking for. You need to fix yourself first.

This advice has been given before but you cavalierly dismissed it - you must learn to love yourself before you can ever love anyone else. And those in the mental health field overwhelming agree with this, if you want to take the time to look into it.

That doesn't mean you have to love every single thing about yourself, and we all have qualities that we find fault with or need improvement on. However, there must a few things about yourself that you like - I suggest you focus on that and try to build some self esteem, which will make you more attractive to any potential partner.
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Those in the mental health field are a bunch of idiots. 

Ive been loving myself since I was 12 and it’s no replacement for a woman.

I have far more self esteem and confidence than you or most would believe. My issue is that I’m surrounded by a bunch of morons that spout out drugstore psychology left and right and the world is populated by mostly women that have no grasp is emotional intimacy. I will not stoop to that level and become just another turd.

Save your crap for people that need it. I’m not like you or the people you know. 

 
squistion said:
It doesn't matter where in the world you move, you won't find a woman who will fix you or make your life complete, which is what you are really looking for. You need to fix yourself first.

This advice has been given before but you cavalierly dismissed it - you must learn to love yourself before you can ever love anyone else. And those in the mental health field overwhelming agree with this, if you want to take the time to look into it.

That doesn't mean you have to love every single thing about yourself, and we all have qualities that we find fault with or need improvement on. However, there must a few things about yourself that you like - I suggest you focus on that and try to build some self esteem, which will make you more attractive to any potential partner.
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And before you or anyone goes off about how “ insulting and aggressive” my response was first think about how offensive your comment was.

 
RokNRole said:
Those in the mental health field are a bunch of idiots. 

Ive been loving myself since I was 12 and it’s no replacement for a woman.

I have far more self esteem and confidence than you or most would believe. My issue is that I’m surrounded by a bunch of morons that spout out drugstore psychology left and right and the world is populated by mostly women that have no grasp is emotional intimacy. I will not stoop to that level and become just another turd.

Save your crap for people that need it. I’m not like you or the people you know. 
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:sigh:

 
squistion said:
:sigh:
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I’ve got news for you. What makes one self loving and unnecessarily confident also makes them an #####.

What I have to offer a woman is far more love than most can because I’m not all about myself. Think about that before you throw that cliche nonsense around. I’m a much better person than about 98% of the general population and that’s too much for 98% of women and seemingly everyone else.

You don’t know jack squat about me or how I feel about myself. You only have your assumptions and I suggest that if you are going to just be an average idiot you can go ahead and choke on those assumptions. 

Chances are im way better than you and you have absolutely no business judging me or trying to give me advice. Especially about women because I’m even more certain I’m far more attractive and genetically valuable than you. I don’t play the games you and society play and when society collapses your “ psychology” and credit rating won’t mean diddly.

 
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And in conclusion I think the general population is a bunch of POS’s and I will never EVER give one good damn about assimilating.

The human race is sick , evil and weak and people like me rebel against it and keep some glimmer of hope in this #### stew.

 
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RokNRole said:
I’ve got news for you. What makes one self loving and unnecessarily confident also makes them an #####.

What I have to offer a woman is far more love than most can because I’m not all about myself. Think about that before you throw that cliche nonsense around. I’m a much better person than about 98% of the general population and that’s too much for 98% of women and seemingly everyone else.

You don’t know jack squat about me or how I feel about myself. You only have your assumptions and I suggest that if you are going to just be an average idiot you can go ahead and choke on those assumptions. 

Chances are im way better than you and you have absolutely no business judging me or trying to give me advice. Especially about women because I’m even more certain I’m far more attractive and genetically valuable than you. I don’t play the games you and society play and when society collapses your “ psychology” and credit rating won’t mean diddly.
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From your past comments on numerous occasions in this thread that isn't true. I am not going take the time to look up quotes but you have repeatedly indicated that you have low self esteem and do not think that highly of yourself as a person. In fact, it was after comments like that where I suggested that you read Wayne Dyer's book Your Erroneous Zones which another poster (either Curly Night or Krista) also recommended and concurred on the importance of loving yourself.

 
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squistion said:
From your past comments on numerous occasions in this thread that isn't true. I am not going take the time to look up quotes but you have repeatedly indicated that you have low self esteem and do not think that highly of yourself as a person. In fact, it was after comments like that where I suggested that you read Wayne Dyer's book Your Erroneous Zones which another poster (either Curly Night or Krista) also recommended and concurred on the importance of loving yourself.
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I’m not reading books about an absurd topic like that. Whatever you and the gen pop think “ loving yourself “ means is absurd.

My depression is entirely because a lack of romantic and friendly relationships, because I’m more advanced than the vast majority of the population . I “ love” myself more than you think. Not because I actually feel some ridiculous third party love for myself but because I know I’m vastly more talented than most people and I’ll never degrade myself into fitting in with most groups. You may see that as a lack of self esteem but it isn’t. I not only have the esteem but I have the facts that prove my view of myself. You are completely misguided in your assessment.

 
RokNRole said:
I’m not reading books about an absurd topic like that. Whatever you and the gen pop think “ loving yourself “ means is absurd.

My depression is entirely because a lack of romantic and friendly relationships, because I’m more advanced than the vast majority of the population . I “ love” myself more than you think. Not because I actually feel some ridiculous third party love for myself but because I know I’m vastly more talented than most people and I’ll never degrade myself into fitting in with most groups. You may see that as a lack of self esteem but it isn’t. I not only have the esteem but I have the facts that prove my view of myself. You are completely misguided in your assessment.
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Your problem seems to be stemming from how incredibly arrogant and contemptuous you are. 

 
RokNRole said:
I’m not reading books about an absurd topic like that. Whatever you and the gen pop think “ loving yourself “ means is absurd.

My depression is entirely because a lack of romantic and friendly relationships, because I’m more advanced than the vast majority of the population . I “ love” myself more than you think. Not because I actually feel some ridiculous third party love for myself but because I know I’m vastly more talented than most people and I’ll never degrade myself into fitting in with most groups. You may see that as a lack of self esteem but it isn’t. I not only have the esteem but I have the facts that prove my view of myself. You are completely misguided in your assessment.
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If a woman you were dating made the bolded statements, would you find that an attractive quality in her because she is a kindred spirit or would you be turned off (particularly if you didn't agree with her self assessment and/or arguable conceit).

 
Get professional help. Seriously.

you go from a declaration of true love to a girl you dont even know to “I’m playing the field and can’t be tied down” to “women are crazy, amirite.” In about a week. Two maybe.

you’re not a snowflake. You’re certainly not Bukowski. You’re not better than anyone. You’re also not worse than anyone. You can cover it up all you want, but you loathe yourself, unnecessarily.

You’re a rebel- that’s true, but you’re reacting to/rebelling against the idea that you’re unloveable/worthless, without even understanding that’s what is driving your behavior. And that idea got programmed into your brain when you were very young, before you could consciously make decisions about it. But, now, you’re a grown man. There are things you can do to re-wire your brain and ameliorate those behaviors.

But, you need a professional to help you. Not to cure you- but to help. They will be a sounding board for you- a reality check for you while you heal yourself. It’s possible, but the first step is you have to make the decision that you’re in charge of how your life goes, and responsible for everything in it. If you dont do that, you’re going to continue to feel tortured and tormented. Best of luck.

 
RokNRole said:
I’m tired of woman BS

Im moving to Colorado soon, getting my grow license and going to be a GM a dispensary . 
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nice. 

have you discharged a sentence for a conviction of a felony pursuant to any state or federal law regarding the possession, distribution, manufacturing, cultivation or use of a controlled substance, including probation or parole, within the last 10 years, even if the conviction occurred over 10 years ago? 

 
RokNRole said:
And before you or anyone goes off about how “ insulting and aggressive” my response was first think about how offensive your comment was.
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It didn't look offensive at all. They're offering their advice and you're rejecting it. I only read the last page so far and can say that someone else cannot change you. Only you can do that. Failure/ unwillingness to change has doomed countless lives.

 
Kal El said:
It didn't look offensive at all. They're offering their advice and you're rejecting it. I only read the last page so far and can say that someone else cannot change you. Only you can do that. Failure/ unwillingness to change has doomed countless lives.
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RnR has a nibble. 

Give him a little more line, you don't want to loose this one. (there may not be many more in the pond)

 
Getzlaf15 said:
Drunk  :fishing: posts with Squiz are the best.
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I don't know if this is fishing, a la Eminence, but someone who repeatedly threatens suicide should be given the benefit of the doubt and taken seriously.

Just trying to offer help to the guy as a few others here have. If you find it amusing, so be it.

 
I like how Rok thinks that he's above society's ills when meanwhile his arrogant self-centered narcissism is the root cause of many of the world's problems. He can't love himself more than he already does.

 
I've been rooting for you an RNR but this seesaw back and forth between no self esteem and clinical narcissism is really freaking confusing.

 
Jason, look at when you started this thread. It's full of many many more downs than ups. If there is a woman on the horizon you're feeling good. If not you don't and get angry because you haven't found the one or you have but there is an issue. You will never find someone who is 100% 24/7. And you can't change someone. In fact if you try eventually that person will leave. 

Your happiness depends on having this perfect woman being committed to you. So narcissistic in that you don't view yourself as having any issues but also low self worth underneath the cover which is a root of alcoholism and dependency issues with drugs and needing a love interest or you're angry and are done with life until a love interest shows up. Can you honestly deny this? 

Moving away is not going to solve your issues.  As Wayne Dyer says, wherever you go, there you are. If only this happens then I'll be happy. The world and people change and you need to adapt, accept what you cannot change,  and rely on yourself for your happiness. If you find someone and it works out then great, but wasting a way the way you are with your mindset and addictions, you are slowly committing suicide. 

Unless you reach out for professional help you're life will remain as is. Once you've moved and settled in, the same issues you are running from will be there. You need to take each one head on with help otherwise a year from now we'll be reading the same type of posts. It's work but you are young. If you've given up on helping yourself then you've decided the path you are on and can't really complain about it. You create your life by the choices you make. You've decided not to change anything within yourself so this is your life, and moving away is not going to solve anything. Wherever you go, there you are unless you make changes to yourself,  and in your case you need support in the form of support groups like AA in addition to psychiatric help. But you don't budge so this is your life. Don't expect changes when you are making none to yourself.

 
cap'n grunge said:
I've been rooting for you an RNR but this seesaw back and forth between no self esteem and clinical narcissism is really freaking confusing.
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Not really. People can be both. What you see depends on the moment. 

 
CurlyNight said:
Jason, look at when you started this thread. It's full of many many more downs than ups. If there is a woman on the horizon you're feeling good. If not you don't and get angry because you haven't found the one or you have but there is an issue. You will never find someone who is 100% 24/7. And you can't change someone. In fact if you try eventually that person will leave. 

Your happiness depends on having this perfect woman being committed to you. So narcissistic in that you don't view yourself as having any issues but also low self worth underneath the cover which is a root of alcoholism and dependency issues with drugs and needing a love interest or you're angry and are done with life until a love interest shows up. Can you honestly deny this? 

Moving away is not going to solve your issues.  As Wayne Dyer says, wherever you go, there you are. If only this happens then I'll be happy. The world and people change and you need to adapt, accept what you cannot change,  and rely on yourself for your happiness. If you find someone and it works out then great, but wasting a way the way you are with your mindset and addictions, you are slowly committing suicide. 

Unless you reach out for professional help you're life will remain as is. Once you've moved and settled in, the same issues you are running from will be there. You need to take each one head on with help otherwise a year from now we'll be reading the same type of posts. It's work but you are young. If you've given up on helping yourself then you've decided the path you are on and can't really complain about it. You create your life by the choices you make. You've decided not to change anything within yourself so this is your life, and moving away is not going to solve anything. Wherever you go, there you are unless you make changes to yourself,  and in your case you need support in the form of support groups like AA in addition to psychiatric help. But you don't budge so this is your life. Don't expect changes when you are making none to yourself.
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let him do what he wants. Whatever it takes to get him to stop posting here.

 
T J said:
let him do what he wants. Whatever it takes to get him to stop posting here.
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Dude, if this thread in the FFA so disturbs you, it is not too much to ask that you just scroll past it or do not click on it when you see his latest posts or any comments in response?

 
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RokNRole said:
Those in the mental health field are a bunch of idiots. 

Ive been loving myself since I was 12 and it’s no replacement for a woman.

I have far more self esteem and confidence than you or most would believe. My issue is that I’m surrounded by a bunch of morons that spout out drugstore psychology left and right and the world is populated by mostly women that have no grasp is emotional intimacy. I will not stoop to that level and become just another turd.

Save your crap for people that need it. I’m not like you or the people you know. 
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jason, just a heads up. when people talk about self love, they dont mean masturbation.

hth chief.

 
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