As I said in the original post on the who's hottest, there's not any kind of behind the scenes drama or anything special. I'd been thinking about dropping the who's hottest for a long time. I felt, as a lot of people did, they just seemed wrong as they devolved into crude comments that we'd try our best to delete (often after getting a bunch of "likes" from the crowd). Some of the comments in one of the threads a few weeks ago were too much and it was enough to make a change. I think we covered it pretty exhaustively in the other thread. Sorry. Nothing dramatic.Joe,
What caused this recent rash of major moderation changes, if you’re willing to share? Many and maybe most of us thought things were great as they were, and less great now. Why the sudden and significant changes?
Almost every post in that subforum is combativeIt's tough though without being too heavy handed. Most are smart enough to never go way over the line. And I admit it's hard to be objective sometimes and I want to make sure I'm not letting my own biases influence too much. I know you feel the same and I don't want to make it too dramatic, but eliminating people from the board is a pretty big thing. I want us to be careful there. But the flip side is there are clearly some combative people.
The board is dominated by men, but women have been members of this board for years. Women play FF, and women participate in the FFA.Personally I think getting rid of Who’s Hottest is a mistake. Not just because (yeah sorry) I see nothing inherently wrong with the content in what is clearly a board for adult men but also because it has led to what else the regulation of other seeming sexual content thread based on the same premise.
Don't let him kid you, they're fine with the PSF as it is. None of the staff like Trump or any conservatives and they are just fine letting the Libs go on and do what they please in there. Anyone that thinks otherwise should just venture into any of those threads.Almost every post in that subforum is combative
It's gotten horrible, I've never seen anything like it
Don't let him kid you, they're fine with the PSF as it is. None of the staff like Trump or any conservatives and they are just fine letting the Libs go on and do what they please in there. Anyone that thinks otherwise should just venture into any of those threads.
This sort of stuff is why the PSF gets so nasty for two reasons:Don't let him kid you, they're fine with the PSF as it is. None of the staff like Trump or any conservatives and they are just fine letting the Libs go on and do what they please in there. Anyone that thinks otherwise should just venture into any of those threads.
Sorry but wrong. It's true I didn't vote for President Trump and have been critical of him. But I want to improve the discussion in the PSF. But not sure how to do it. That's why I asked here. If the FFA were a bar, the PSF is a bar fight. We've kicked them out of the bar so FFA can get back to normal. But they're still fighting in our parking lot and I don't want that either. It's just not as easy to stop as it is a real fight.Don't let him kid you, they're fine with the PSF as it is. None of the staff like Trump or any conservatives and they are just fine letting the Libs go on and do what they please in there. Anyone that thinks otherwise should just venture into any of those threads.
Thanks @Ned I think you're right on this.This sort of stuff is why the PSF gets so nasty for two reasons:
1 - Folks continually plot this us vs them mentality. Adding cute names like Libs, Trumpers,etc is going to put most on the defensive right away.
2 - Guys are going after the posters for xyz needs to stop. Go after the posts/message, not the person.
It’s not as hard as you think. You just don’t seem to want to admit who some of the problems are because they are valuable contributors in non political threads. You pick on certain posters yourself (who are guilty by the way) but ignore others and never seem to see the full story. Which you cannot get by reading once a month or through a reported post.Sorry but wrong. It's true I didn't vote for President Trump and have been critical of him. But I want to improve the discussion in the PSF. But not sure how to do it. That's why I asked here. If the FFA were a bar, the PSF is a bar fight. We've kicked them out of the bar so FFA can get back to normal. But they're still fighting in our parking lot and I don't want that either. It's just not as easy to stop as it is a real fight.
The only solution is more involvement from you and the staff Joe. People and their nature have changed--you cannot tame the masses through creating policy and asking the offenders to police themselves. That is doomed to fail. Look at the last couple of threads that you have started or joined in. Yes--while there are still some snarky, wise a** comments--there is still a big portion or real discussion and dialogue. I assure you that if somebody else started a "state of the board" thread that you did not actively participate in--the discussion would have a tone far closer to what is in the PSF. I think that you and your staff should consider having avatars that are alike/similar to one another that have uniformity--and you should really be more involved in a place of your business. Not only will it make things better here--but you guys are truly a part of the community. We all really enjoy seeing what you, Maurile, Rudnicki, and others think about certain things. I also think that you guys could learn a lot by doing that. Businesses are paying tons of money to learn about the thoughts/quirks/tendencies/user experiences of their customers. You have that for free right in front of you--all you (and your staff) have to do is spend some time and effort to gather it. While I think that these forums are great--there is no way to improve upon them from the sidelines. In any case--I do think that it's great that you are asking for feedback and I've personally enjoyed seeing you on the forum over the last couple of weeks.Thanks @Ned I think you're right on this.
Do you have any ideas on how you think it would be best to change these things? I agree with you on the problems. Solutions are tougher. I'm open to ideas.
Just so you know, I'm fully aware of that. I just do not have a notebook or scorecard like some. I'm just being honest, I'm not 'aware' of posters general characteristics beyond a few I really follow, and frankly (given what I just said) I can think of three I can really recall (between FFA, TSP). Krista fwiw shines through as someone I enjoy reading every time. If she speaks, I just read, listen & enjoy. If Joe is trying to branch out to have more self-identifying women as part his effort I fully laud that. Personally I enjoy diversity of thought, I want to be challenged (while also being respectful), and hopefully I learn something. That could be extended to the dearth of Trump followers in the PSF, because I really would love to hear that POV more, but that's an old trope. In general in terms of what's 'good for the board' diversity in thought and opinion IMO is always good and should be promoted.The board is dominated by men, but women have been members of this board for years. Women play FF, and women participate in the FFA.
I brought up another option in an earlier thread: volunteer mods.The only solution is more involvement from you and the staff Joe.
Lol. Who in the PSF is going to moderate fairly instead of choosing their side?I brought up another option in an earlier thread: volunteer mods.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Give_'em_enough_ropeLol. Who in the PSF is going to moderate fairly instead of choosing their side?
Who wants fair?Lol. Who in the PSF is going to moderate fairly instead of choosing their side?
Several are capable, IMO.Lol. Who in the PSF is going to moderate fairly instead of choosing their side?
In a perfect world--I think that could work. However--this is Joe's business-and I don't think that he should/could trust volunteers with speaking/acting for his business--and the world is far from perfect. As a manager of a very successful business myself--I can tell you that for any business to thrive--management/ownership need to be active participants in every facet. At my job--I'm constantly drowning in paperwork and administrative tasks--but I also have to force myself to go on the sales floor every now and then. The customers know me--and I've been there for 25 years--and when I remove myself from the floor too long--they almost think that the culture of our business/shop has changed--solely because they do not see a familiar face. Even if all I do is pop my head out of the back of the store to say "hi" or ask "how is your family doing" to a customer--just that reminder/point of communication makes a world of difference in the customer experience. Joe is running a business where some of its customers are blatantly being rude or bullying one another--and instead of actively stepping in--is hoping the solution can be made through policy changed that would be policed from a distance. The involvement needs to be from some sort of official staff so that it is insured that they are acting in the best interest of Joe and his company. The involvement needs to come from people who have skin in the game and whose interests are completely aligned with what Joe wants the forums to be. It'd be very hard to trust volunteeered mods to have that.I brought up another option in an earlier thread: volunteer mods.
There are several posters that refuse to get personal and show by their actions that they know where the line should be. I don’t want to make a list for you.Who? I can think of one (SID)
Lol...you got problems man.Don't let him kid you, they're fine with the PSF as it is. None of the staff like Trump or any conservatives and they are just fine letting the Libs go on and do what they please in there. Anyone that thinks otherwise should just venture into any of those threads.
I think the regular posters do have “skin in the game” in that they spend a lot of time here and it is important to them that the board thrives.In a perfect world--I think that could work. However--this is Joe's business-and I don't think that he should/could trust volunteers with speaking/acting for his business--and the world is far from perfect. As a manager of a very successful business myself--I can tell you that for any business to thrive--management/ownership need to be active participants in every facet. At my job--I'm constantly drowning in paperwork and administrative tasks--but I also have to force myself to go on the sales floor every now and then. The customers know me--and I've been there for 25 years--and when I remove myself from the floor too long--they almost think that the culture of our business/shop has changed--solely because they do not see a familiar face. Even if all I do is pop my head out of the back of the store to say "hi" or ask "how is your family doing" to a customer--just that reminder/point of communication makes a world of difference in the customer experience. Joe is running a business where some of its customers are blatantly being rude or bullying one another--and instead of actively stepping in--is hoping the solution can be made through policy changed that would be policed from a distance. The involvement needs to be from some sort of official staff so that it is insured that they are acting in the best interest of Joe and his company. The involvement needs to come from people who have skin in the game and whose interests are completely aligned with what Joe wants the forums to be. It'd be very hard to trust volunteeered mods to have that.
Better to be safe than sorry amiright However, there's a case to be made for bringing the best to the top Ideally ones role changing from needed to only complimentary Definitely a skill required in choosing folks to both trust and fully train to handle both work and situations Worst case scenario one fails or frees up time to expand and/or start another businessIn a perfect world--I think that could work. However--this is Joe's business-and I don't think that he should/could trust volunteers with speaking/acting for his business--and the world is far from perfect. As a manager of a very successful business myself--I can tell you that for any business to thrive--management/ownership need to be active participants in every facet. At my job--I'm constantly drowning in paperwork and administrative tasks--but I also have to force myself to go on the sales floor every now and then. The customers know me--and I've been there for 25 years--and when I remove myself from the floor too long--they almost think that the culture of our business/shop has changed--solely because they do not see a familiar face. Even if all I do is pop my head out of the back of the store to say "hi" or ask "how is your family doing" to a customer--just that reminder/point of communication makes a world of difference in the customer experience. Joe is running a business where some of its customers are blatantly being rude or bullying one another--and instead of actively stepping in--is hoping the solution can be made through policy changed that would be policed from a distance. The involvement needs to be from some sort of official staff so that it is insured that they are acting in the best interest of Joe and his company. The involvement needs to come from people who have skin in the game and whose interests are completely aligned with what Joe wants the forums to be. It'd be very hard to trust volunteeered mods to have that.
Sorry but wrong too. There are several reported posts every day which mean going through the thread. It's the same with most every post that's reported - the person who did the reported thing thinks they're totally innocent and everyone around them is doing things way worse and they're just getting picked on or singled out by the mods. It's a giant game of whatabout. Most conservatives thinks the board is 99% liberals and most liberals thinks the board is 99% conservative. But that doesn't mean it can't be resolved. Things did get better a few months ago when I made a strong push asking for people to be way cooler. Maybe that's needed again.It’s not as hard as you think. You just don’t seem to want to admit who some of the problems are because they are valuable contributors in non political threads. You pick on certain posters yourself (who are guilty by the way) but ignore others and never seem to see the full story. Which you cannot get by reading once a month or through a reported post.
It’s amazing the amount of stuff you allow in those threads compared to any other thread.
That's a fair point. I get it that it's difficult to be objective. There can be a guy who goes on tilt for someone using drumpf but has no problem using #######. That's usually how it goes.Lol. Who in the PSF is going to moderate fairly instead of choosing their side?
That's a real thing too roadkill. There's definitely a more combative attitude there.I like the rough and tumble of the Political Forum. Don't bring no weak #### into the lane if you want your opinions taken seriously.
Trumper, Trumpette, Gun owners are "gun nuts". Used over and over and over.That's a fair point. I get it that it's difficult to be objective. There can be a guy who goes on tilt for someone using drumpf but has no problem using #######. That's usually how it goes.
It's a possibility. I'm not sure what the software allows for moderating authority. In a perfect world it would be just for the PSF. Let me look there.There are several posters that refuse to get personal and show by their actions that they know where the line should be. I don’t want to make a list for you.
Joe- you just answered your own question. Things get better when you are actively involved. It happened 2 months ago-- and when you disappeared for a while it devolved. Active involvement is the only solution. This doesn't mean over moderation. I assure you that if you guys had a consistent and stable presence on the boards-- the effect will result in better behavior by most posters. This will be more inviting for new users and for more discussion. I know this requires time/resources-- but do not over think solutions when the answer is right in front of you.Sorry but wrong too. There are several reported posts every day which mean going through the thread. It's the same with most every post that's reported - the person who did the reported thing thinks they're totally innocent and everyone around them is doing things way worse and they're just getting picked on or singled out by the mods. It's a giant game of whatabout. Most conservatives thinks the board is 99% liberals and most liberals thinks the board is 99% conservative. But that doesn't mean it can't be resolved. Things did get better a few months ago when I made a strong push asking for people to be way cooler. Maybe that's needed again.
Perfect example.Trumper, Trumpette, Gun owners are "gun nuts". Used over and over and over.
But the word "#######" is a timeout , right?
Eta: hell I can't even type it apparently. Starts with L and ends with Ard ?
Yes. The big problem is time. There are things that make the site money and allow the boards to exist that demand way more of my time. And it takes a ton of time. If something way out of line is posted and stays online for 4 hours, that becomes the new thing "Obviously Joe is cool with". It takes a ton of time. That's the big issue. And it's likely the same issue many businesses face.Joe- you just answered your own question. Things get better when you are actively involved. It happened 2 months ago-- and when you disappeared for a while it devolved. Active involvement is the only solution. This doesn't mean over moderation. I assure you that if you guys had a consistent and stable presence on the boards-- the effect will result in better behavior by most posters. This will be more inviting for new users and for more discussion. I know this requires time/resources-- but do not over think solutions when the answer is right in front of you.
So anyone who doesn't kill Trump every day in every thread is a Trumpette, and anyone who doesn't support a gun ban or at the very least an AR ban is a gun nut. Perfectly acceptablePerfect example.
Is ####### (libt and then ard) worse than trumper? I think it is and it's why it's blocked. But there will be people who think trumper is just as bad or way worse.
I've made the decision to not allow ####### but allow trumper not to be blocked. So for the guy who's cool with #######, I'm now biased. That's just how it works.
People basically want everything they say to be cool with no limits but for the "other" guy to be held accountable.
And the truth is interpreting a ton of gray area.
Do you think lib**** is an appropriate "word" to use when addressing or referring to a liberal? Simple question.So anyone who doesn't kill Trump every day in every thread is a Trumpette, and anyone who doesn't support a gun ban or at the very least an AR ban is a gun nut. Perfectly acceptable
And if those people would like to address someone who is obviously very liberal they should stick to "left of center".
Good stuff
Yeah lib**** is way worse than Drumpf. I think Drumpf is on par with something like Crapernick.Perfect example.
Is ####### (libt and then ard) worse than trumper? I think it is and it's why it's blocked. But there will be people who think trumper is just as bad or way worse.
I've made the decision to not allow ####### but allow trumper not to be blocked. So for the guy who's cool with #######, I'm now biased. That's just how it works.
People basically want everything they say to be cool with no limits but for the "other" guy to be held accountable.
And the truth is interpreting a ton of gray area.
I hestitate to do that because I have no idea if the people I listed would even want to do it. My suggestion is to ask for volunteers in a PSF thread. If posters expressed interest (who knows...maybe nobody would!) then review posting history and get feedback from the mods to determine if they would be suitable.It's a possibility. I'm not sure what the software allows for moderating authority. In a perfect world it would be just for the PSF. Let me look there.
I'd be interested in the list of posters you feel would be good. Please post them here or send me a PM. Thanks.
No but most of the posters I saw using that word were hard core liberals.Do you think lib**** is an appropriate "word" to use when addressing or referring to a liberal? Simple question.
Agreed. I can't even remember, are those kinds of nicknames for Kaepernick even allowed? I know Joe loves him some squis, so I wouldn't be surprised if he banned twisting his name into an insult.Yeah lib**** is way worse than Drumpf. I think Drumpf is on par with something like Crapernick.
Okay.No but most of the posters I saw using that word were hard core liberals.
The politics forum is 99% inability to have an adult discussion. The advent of 140 characters, anonymous comment sections and Google answering any question has made people think their stupidity/ignorance/lack of facts warrants constitutional protections without any semblance of understanding of context or language. And no one knows how to take a punch anymore.Sorry but wrong too. There are several reported posts every day which mean going through the thread. It's the same with most every post that's reported - the person who did the reported thing thinks they're totally innocent and everyone around them is doing things way worse and they're just getting picked on or singled out by the mods. It's a giant game of whatabout. Most conservatives thinks the board is 99% liberals and most liberals thinks the board is 99% conservative. But that doesn't mean it can't be resolved. Things did get better a few months ago when I made a strong push asking for people to be way cooler. Maybe that's needed again.
First, I want to state for the record that I love this place and the folks who post here. This community has helped keep my life on track during some very challenging times, and I could have very well ended up in a different and much darker place without the support I received here. I owe all of you a debt that I'll never be able to repay, and that goes double for Joe since this place would not exist without him. Thank you Joe.
As for the topic at hand, Joe has always set the rules, and people have always complained about it. That state of affairs has been pretty much timeless and unchanging. And Joe is 100% right that people have been lamenting the downfall of the boards since time immemorial. Heck, the below song was written and recorded TWELVE YEARS AGO.
The Day the Laughter Died - A LABS Joint
You are absolutely right. Our business is brick and mortar and the vast majority of our business is done through customers that walk through our front doors. However--in the last few years--we have allotted a large budget and many worker hours towards our online and social media presence. Even though the vast majority of our business is still done through people walking through our doors--we have started to notice an increase of new clients that are doing business with us because of our online impression/footprint. My point is that many business decisions are back loaded. We had to put up time and resources up front to start seeing the benefits of those sacrifices later.Yes. The big problem is time. There are things that make the site money and allow the boards to exist that demand way more of my time. And it takes a ton of time. If something way out of line is posted and stays online for 4 hours, that becomes the new thing "Obviously Joe is cool with". It takes a ton of time. That's the big issue. And it's likely the same issue many businesses face.
I feel like the bias is probably unintentional on Joe’s part as it seems he really thinks it’s fair. Unfortunately it’s moderated as a one way venting thread. I had a multi month ban for a liberal joke not aimed at anyone just kidding. A week ago there was a thread saying if you are racist you are Republican and no punishment beyond thread locked. If you don’t want to partake in the group think bashing potus I guess you have to steer clear.So anyone who doesn't kill Trump every day in every thread is a Trumpette, and anyone who doesn't support a gun ban or at the very least an AR ban is a gun nut. Perfectly acceptable
And if those people would like to address someone who is obviously very liberal they should stick to "left of center".
Good stuff
Thanks. That's how I see it too. But clearly you have others like @Cowboysfan8 who don't see it that. I make a decision that ####### isn't allowed and it turns into:Yeah lib**** is way worse than Drumpf. I think Drumpf is on par with something like Crapernick.
That's a perfect illustration of some of the challenges on the board.So anyone who doesn't kill Trump every day in every thread is a Trumpette, and anyone who doesn't support a gun ban or at the very least an AR ban is a gun nut. Perfectly acceptable
And if those people would like to address someone who is obviously very liberal they should stick to "left of center".
Good stuff
We've made a pretty big deal out of not allowing ####### as it's a joke using the word we dont' allow for mentally handicapped people. You were suspended 30 days in May of 2017 for:I feel like the bias is probably unintentional on Joe’s part as it seems he really thinks it’s fair. Unfortunately it’s moderated as a one way venting thread. I had a multi month ban for a liberal joke not aimed at anyone just kidding. A week ago there was a thread saying if you are racist you are Republican and no punishment beyond thread locked. If you don’t want to partake in the group think bashing potus I guess you have to steer clear.
Whoa Lib terd gets edited out these days, sorry guys.
Just kidding, don't ban me squishy.