To me, it is as if you have a grain of salt. You want to measure the chlorine in the salt. One time you measure the chlorine by its mass. You get a number. Then you measure again but this time you measure the chlorine by it's volume. The chlorine stays the same, yet the way you measure it is different - producing two mathematically different answers.
This is no different than my milk example. As you said, the chlorine stays the same. The milk stays the same. The quantity that probability and odds represent stays the same. In each case, we just have two different ways of representing the same exact thing.
In your example, let's say you do the first measurement and find 2 grams of chlorine. You don't have to measure again, because you already know the volume (it's a function of the mass, plus density and temperature or whatever - it's been years since I've done any chemistry). If you add more chlorine, the mass changes
and the volume changes correspondingly.
If you measure 2 gallons of milk, you don't have to measure again to figure out how many quarts you have. You already know. If you add more milk, the number of gallons changes and the number of quarts changes correspondingly.
If you measure a probability of 1/13, you don't have to measure again to figure out what the odds are. You already know. If you change the sample space of a problem by introducing new information (for example, by flipping over 44 cards), the probability changes and the odds change in lockstep.
In my humble opinion, this is what the mathematicians are trying to point out: Odds and probabiliy are not the same type of measurement and therefor will not produce mathematically similar answers in all (if any) instances.
That's not what they're saying. They're just saying that people frequently use the word "odds" when they really mean "probability." It would be like someone walking in with two gallons of milk and claiming they have 2 quarts of milk. It's not the numerical portion they got wrong, it's the units.