Well, the majority of Tennessee fans never wanted the brand/uniform when the Oilers got there. They wanted a brand of their own. It meant something to Bud Adams as a founder of an original AFL team, so Paul Tagliabue intervened and promised to retire the name and they became the Titans. This is the sticking point of the argument now. Tennessee didn't care about the brand, but it means a great deal to the ownership group. The Texans can't just buy it, if they ever even wanted to do so.
In the 90s, few people in Houston or Tennessee seemed to care much about the name or uniform. Houston was fed up with Bud Adams and his constant threats and flirtations with other cities. There had been recent improvements on the Astrodome a few years earlier after threats to move to Jacksonville. Adams wasn't well-liked by this time for his threats and for firing Bum Phillips a decade-and-half earlier, and the monumental playoff collapses of the early 90s certainly didn't help win support in the city. Mayor Bob Lanier wasn't any help and deserves his share of the blame as well for taking a hard-line approach with Adams. I firmly believe if one of those early 90s teams had broken through, they'd still be here. Joe Montana didn't just beat the Oilers, he KILLED the Oilers. Bud then traded Warren Moon, and it all fell apart.
Personally, I think it sucks. I hated it then and I hate it now. I loved my dysfunctional team, hence my username. But the vibe here back then was "good riddance." Almost completely apathetic. To most of Houston, Bud Adams was a slimeball. It's sort of like we ran him out with no support, and then gladly supported a new owner/team and built a stadium just to stick it in his face. Over time, nostalgia has crept in and the throwbacks seem to be a slap back in our face from the Adams family.
The Oilers died when they moved to Tennessee. Nobody wanted them. Not Houston, not Tennessee. To me, the uniform and history belong here in Houston, but I get both sides of the argument. I really do. There's no good precedent on keeping the name or leaving it behind. The Browns-Ravens deal is the one I wish we'd have gotten, but Houston lacked the massive support Cleveland displayed. The Rams kept their name. The Raiders have taken their name too. Baltimore? They never got their beloved Colts back. Perhaps the success of the Ravens has made it easier for them. Maybe if the Texans had more success, we wouldn't miss the Oilers so much or be so nostalgic now.
In retrospect, we should've fought harder to keep our brand. But it's also disgusting to see Tennessee now celebrating something they didn't want. To me, the Titans shouldn't be allowed to wear the uniform simply for making such a brutally hideous uniform out of something that was once so beautiful. But I get it. I do. I can respect the argument, and can still hate it.