Earlier this year we went to Tulum for 5 days and then the Casa de La Playa Xcaret in Playa Del Carmen for four days. Stayed in the north end of the party beach in Tulum, went downtown a few times for great food, hit the local ruins. Other than everyone walking around with selfie sticks (or actual photographers) for their Tik Toks and Instagrams and crypto bros live streaming their trading on YouTube from beach clubs, we enjoyed most of the vibe there.
CdlP was ridiculous. I’ve never stayed at a higher end all inclusive before, and only did this time as I wasn’t paying (reward trip). Beautiful property, great restaurants, and access to the other hotels and their bars and restaurants. Self serve tequila/mescal bar and a self-serve wine cave, both open 24 hours. Twelve course tasting meal at one of the other properties. 24 hour butler service for anything you might need. Rooms all had ocean views and their own dipping pools and hot tubs. Probably never do another trip like that, but really great experience.