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one girl i just stumbled upon wrote in her interests that she like haikus, so i wrote one as my opening message to her. should be interesting to see if that works or not

one girl i just stumbled upon wrote in her interests that she like haikus, so i wrote one as my opening message to her. should be interesting to see if that works or not
one girl i just stumbled upon wrote in her interests that she like haikus, so i wrote one as my opening message to her. should be interesting to see if that works or notMy name is GusterJoin me for a shot or two?Hope you are easy
My linkCan you guys help me write a good email to this info?
To my heart-stealing Valentine,
You know what says I love you more than a card? My handprints on your ###.
gordon
Dear 14th of February maiden,
Love is a four-letter word, but it’s not the four-letter word I am going to do to you tonight.
Wear loose clothing,
Gordon
Dear new love,
I’m about to say those three words that every girl wants to hear. “Grab your ankles.”
gordon
Dear Person who captured my fancy,
You know how I know when to stop loving you? When the cops show up and put up the yellow tape.
gordon
Hey sugar lips,
I used to think only a lifetime with you could make me happy. Now, I’ll just take a steak and some mouth love.
gordon
Dear kinky lover,
Let’s do something new this Valentines day. Like your college roommate.
Seriously. Text her now.
gordon
Dear Cupid Arrow victim,
You know what my favorite part of you is? Whichever one goes down the Dispose-all the easiest.
Love,
gordon
Hey girlfriend,
Some things will never get old, and you’re one of them. Prepare to die.
Gordon
Hey sweetie,
I would say you are the lover I’ve always dreamed of, but you don’t have a penis.
Gordon
Dear Sweet Sweet sweetheart girl,
They say a relationship must always reinvent. That’s why I’m going backdoor tonight.
just relax,
gordon
Hey Valentine Cupid love,
Last night I saw something on your face that said you loved me. Oh yeah, it was my genitals.
gordon
Dear Person so dear,
Valentines day only comes once a year, unlike me when I look at your picture.
Gordon
Depends, are you more into hiking or museums?Just don't overthink it. It could be as easy as:Can you guys help me write a good email to this info?
orHi! Always great to run across another museum lover. We're totally spoiled here in LA since we have the Getty Center, isn't it pretty much the best museum in the country? The photography exhibits there are great. Although I'm totally anxious to see the new Rock n' Roll photo display at the Annenberg Space after seeing all the ads on the lamps around town. Have you ever been there? I haven't been yet but it looks awesome! What are your favorite museums around here?
-Bucky
Hi there! I have to ask, what are your favorite trails to go hiking in Runyon Canyon? I've hiked Griffith Park but some of those uphills really kicked my ###, how does Runyon compare? I know it totally makes me a TV dork, but I really want to take a hike to the set where they filmed M*A*S*H in Malibu Creek. I just have to work up the stamina for a 5 mile trail, LOL! Do you like short easy trails or are you totally into the rough and rugged ones?
-Bucky
Ask one quick question based on her interests. I'd go with "What's the worst concert you've ever been to?" It really doesn't matter what you write. Use proper grammar and don't ask her to ####. If she thinks you've got potential, she'll respond. If she doesn't, she won't. Don't waste your time writing a novel. Save that nonsense for future emails once you both have a mutual interest. Spend the seconds you save shooting out another email to some other chick. They're a dime a dozen down here. Cast a wide net. My last email I sentCan you guys help me write a good email to this info?
Hi I’m
I am a paralegal at a successful law office in . My major was communication studies, and I absolutely love school. A nerd at heart, I also like to kick back and relax by hiking, watching movies, and spending time with friends and family.
I love to cook, and do all things domestic. I don’t take myself too seriously, and I’m looking for someone who has the same playful personality, but also knows when to get serious and work hard to achieve success. The ideal person would be open minded, intelligent, and kind.
I am looking for someone who likes to celebrate life, and who wants someone to celebrate with.
Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports
Sports and exercise:
Aerobics, Bowling, Dancing, Walking / Hiking, Yoga
Exercise habits:
Exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I like Cats, Dogs
Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
Pisces
College:
For Fun:
I enjoy hiking and being outdoors, dancing, exploring different areas of, live music (even if it’s bad), and trying new things.
Favorite Hot Spots:
Runyon Canyon, Solstice Canyon, The Golden Gopher in downtown , and anywhere in
Favorite Things:
I am really into cooking, and usually have "Apron Night" once a week with my neighbors. I love all things domestic.
Last Read:
Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro.I love to read.My favorites include Deborah Tannen’s books on communication theory,Girls in White Dresses by Jennifer Close,The Partner by John Grisham,and of course, Alice in Wonderland.
She responded withChoose your favorite come on:
'Sup
hey sexy
how r u
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Don't be so nervous. Send something that makes you chuckle. Barring that, send something that wastes as little of your time as possible. If some chick wants you to read an essay on her requirements before contact her, she's a pita not worth the time or money.I'm pretty sure that out of those unlike the g-rated penis pic.. Lol
And in response ( . Y . ) a g-rated boobies pic. ;p
DTF?-Bucky
Answer her question. Ask her a question. Rinse, repeat.I wrote basically saying I used to do "Make a Wish" events awhile back and that it's a great organization. How'd you get involved? HERES WHAT SHE WROTE BACK"You have been to a few MAW events. When? Yes its a great organization!I don't know why i got involved i just always wanted to and started volunteering."What should I respond with to keep the convo flowing and progress this.
If we bag this broad for you will you then share her with us? This is important information going forward.I wrote basically saying I used to do "Make a Wish" events awhile back and that it's a great organization. How'd you get involved? HERES WHAT SHE WROTE BACK"You have been to a few MAW events. When? Yes its a great organization!I don't know why i got involved i just always wanted to and started volunteering."What should I respond with to keep the convo flowing and progress this.
There's no hard number you have to abide by. I'll usually go 3-5 questions before saying something along the lines of "Really we're just shooting a few messages back and forth to make sure the other isn't too weird/stupid/creepy/crazy before deciding to get drinks." Then I ask whatever question and 2-3 emails later I'll say let's go for the drinks. Sometimes I'll drag out or speed up the process depending on our social calendars. There's rarely a wrong answer to any of your questions. Lots of different approaches work. Just be confident.How quickly do you throw in the "let's grab a drink in person question?"Answer her question. Ask her a question. Rinse, repeat.I wrote basically saying I used to do "Make a Wish" events awhile back and that it's a great organization. How'd you get involved? HERES WHAT SHE WROTE BACK"You have been to a few MAW events. When? Yes its a great organization!I don't know why i got involved i just always wanted to and started volunteering."What should I respond with to keep the convo flowing and progress this.
In the unholiest of waysShare in what way...If we bag this broad for you will you then share her with us? This is important information going forward.I wrote basically saying I used to do "Make a Wish" events awhile back and that it's a great organization. How'd you get involved? HERES WHAT SHE WROTE BACK"You have been to a few MAW events. When? Yes its a great organization!I don't know why i got involved i just always wanted to and started volunteering."What should I respond with to keep the convo flowing and progress this.
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okcupidplentyoffishBoth free. Lots of women on both.I am a cheapskate. Which site offers the best 'bang' for the buck?
isn't OKcupid for the younger crowd? i'm almost 50.okcupidplentyoffishBoth free. Lots of women on both.I am a cheapskate. Which site offers the best 'bang' for the buck?
I'm almost two decades your junior. No clue how many women of that age group are on there. I run across women in their 40's regularly. Only way you'll know for sure is to give it a go.isn't OKcupid for the younger crowd? i'm almost 50.okcupidplentyoffishBoth free. Lots of women on both.I am a cheapskate. Which site offers the best 'bang' for the buck?
Dude, seriously, calm down. I mean, it's great and all, but you can't get like this.I'm![]()
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When it rains, it pours!!! I just got 2 more emails!!!
Good stuff here Sarnoff. I keep it short but show I read the profile and drop :style: points with similar chum regarding the arts or whatever bs the girl digs.Depends, are you more into hiking or museums?Just don't overthink it. It could be as easy as:Can you guys help me write a good email to this info?
orHi! Always great to run across another museum lover. We're totally spoiled here in LA since we have the Getty Center, isn't it pretty much the best museum in the country? The photography exhibits there are great. Although I'm totally anxious to see the new Rock n' Roll photo display at the Annenberg Space after seeing all the ads on the lamps around town. Have you ever been there? I haven't been yet but it looks awesome! What are your favorite museums around here?
-BuckyHi there! I have to ask, what are your favorite trails to go hiking in Runyon Canyon? I've hiked Griffith Park but some of those uphills really kicked my ###, how does Runyon compare? I know it totally makes me a TV dork, but I really want to take a hike to the set where they filmed M*A*S*H in Malibu Creek. I just have to work up the stamina for a 5 mile trail, LOL! Do you like short easy trails or are you totally into the rough and rugged ones?
-Bucky
Don't be so nervous. Send something that makes you chuckle. Barring that, send something that wastes as little of your time as possible.
Just be confident.
Dude, seriously, calm down. I mean, it's great and all, but you can't get like this.
You'll get a feel for it. If she's interested and you have her attention at that moment, I say suggest meeting for drinks ASAP.Attractive girls are bombarded with messages at these sites, so you have a limited window of opportunity. They will soon be distracted by the next new thing.That's why I'm against the "wait a day to reply" theory. If she's replying quickly, it doesn't hurt to do the same. Just don't go overboard. And don't use the chat feature.Again, what is the proper amount of emails to send back and forth before you ask them out to drinks?
O/U 25 pages
I usually do it after her second reply, sometimes the third.Again, what is the proper amount of emails to send back and forth before you ask them out to drinks?
Agree with Stu here, expect that I had success with the chat feature on OKCupid where the thing actually works..that POF one is horse****.You'll find a plethora of methodologies women want to take before meeting. Some will think you're pushy if you give them your number or ask to get together after two emails while others will move on to the next person if you don't ask in your second. Some will want to text for a few days while others will want to talk on the phone. You'll develop a sense for what feels right, and as you get more experienced with the process you'll figure out what you like the best as well.Don't worry about screwing up to start with...there is a learning curve to this thing. No matter how hot or perfect you think someone is now, you'll find a dozen in the coming months that blow her out of the water..and never hold out for a girl that hasn't responded. Hot chicks with great profiles get way more emails than you can imagine. Just getting your email read can be an amazing achievement.You'll get a feel for it. If she's interested and you have her attention at that moment, I say suggest meeting for drinks ASAP.Attractive girls are bombarded with messages at these sites, so you have a limited window of opportunity. They will soon be distracted by the next new thing.That's why I'm against the "wait a day to reply" theory. If she's replying quickly, it doesn't hurt to do the same. Just don't go overboard. And don't use the chat feature.Again, what is the proper amount of emails to send back and forth before you ask them out to drinks?
It means we can't see it until you give us permission.'proninja said:What do the requests for sharing mean?Edit: I wouldn't recommend using this unless you're already pretty long winded like me'proninja said:If you can write well, craigslist is way easier.I typed up this long diatribe a few years ago and got flooded with responses from some pretty impressive women. From the day I put it up, I had dates every day until the sixth day, on which I met the woman who is now my wife. She is indeed awesome. I am indeed happy.
I still can't access it - just sent a request again'proninja said:It should be fixed nowIt means we can't see it until you give us permission.'proninja said:What do the requests for sharing mean?Edit: I wouldn't recommend using this unless you're already pretty long winded like me'proninja said:If you can write well, craigslist is way easier.I typed up this long diatribe a few years ago and got flooded with responses from some pretty impressive women. From the day I put it up, I had dates every day until the sixth day, on which I met the woman who is now my wife. She is indeed awesome. I am indeed happy.
sig worthyNo bad looking please
Holy smokes... not sure what happened, but since yesterday have had some decent responses on OKCupid. Most notably, a very attractive 23-year old blonde, 5'10" slim, who likes older men (I'm 40+)I sent her a message yesterday and she replied. We've exchanged a few, she sent me a text, and we are supposed to meet up for a milkshake (she doesn't drink) later today. OMG! OMG! Just be cool, dude...Also had another 23-year old message me out of the blue yesterday, and that practically never happens from any woman. She's not interested in anything romantic, but liked my profile and thought she would enjoy talking to me. She's Latina, and says she has friends who like older men, so there's still a potential hookup in there somewhere.
Also started e-mailing with another attractive blonde today, 35, who enjoys fantasy football!
If she writes back, she's likely interested. She's probably fielding through 100+ messages daily so relax. Seems like you need to cast a larger net and/or not care as much. When I don't care if the girl likes me, I normally end up having teh secks.So...I can't get a read on this one girl. I wrote her. She writes me back within minutes twice now,but she only answers my questions and doesn't ask any herself. Is she interested, or is she just being polite?
I don't know the proper protocol on these sites. I've only went out on two iDates so definitely no expert. If and when I hit a dry streak, I'll probably try one of the free sites and offer better advice. As for your question about the number, it really depends on circumstance and what feels right. Some girls are easy and you can tell they're DTF so don't waste time - get their number and text them. Others need to massaged a bit and don't like to be pressured. Be careful though, you don't want to take too long and lose the initial spark. Use your best judgement. Maybe invite them over to play Black Ops.I am casting a pretty wide net. This is just my first time idating, so I'm trying to figure out what it al means. She wrote me back again and asked a question. At what point do you give her your number to set something up?If she writes back, she's likely interested. She's probably fielding through 100+ messages daily so relax. Seems like you need to cast a larger net and/or not care as much. When I don't care if the girl likes me, I normally end up having teh secks.So...I can't get a read on this one girl. I wrote her. She writes me back within minutes twice now,but she only answers my questions and doesn't ask any herself. Is she interested, or is she just being polite?
condoms are so last yearWrap it up Bucky. Or if you want to rawdog it just get one of those crappy gas station ones that's unlubricated. She'll be begging you to take it off after 30secs. :sharkmove:
So we met up at the place and had a couple of milkshakes. She was really attractive, blonde and blue-eyed. She was very tall though... I'm 6'0" and I felt like she was a little taller than me. She had some weird boots on so maybe they made her a little taller. Anyway, she seemed maybe a little socially awkward, but not in a bad way. More in a slightly geeky way which is more in my wheelhouse than some high-maintenance type. We seemed to hit it off pretty well, had similar senses of humor, laughed a lot, etc.The whole thing lasted about an hour and a half and she said she had to go. So we walked until we were going in different directions, and I gave her a little hug and thanked her for coming out and said I had a nice time. She said she did too and that we'll have to figure out something else to do sometime. So the whole way home I was trying to figure out what I was supposed to do next. Should I send her a text or note on OKCupid reiterating that I had a good time? What should I say? And as I was pulling in the garage, I received the following text from her:Holy smokes... not sure what happened, but since yesterday have had some decent responses on OKCupid. Most notably, a very attractive 23-year old blonde, 5'10" slim, who likes older men (I'm 40+)I sent her a message yesterday and she replied. We've exchanged a few, she sent me a text, and we are supposed to meet up for a milkshake (she doesn't drink) later today. OMG! OMG! Just be cool, dude...Also had another 23-year old message me out of the blue yesterday, and that practically never happens from any woman. She's not interested in anything romantic, but liked my profile and thought she would enjoy talking to me. She's Latina, and says she has friends who like older men, so there's still a potential hookup in there somewhere.
Also started e-mailing with another attractive blonde today, 35, who enjoys fantasy football!
I had a good time and thought we had a nice connection. I would like to see you again.
Awesome!So we met up at the place and had a couple of milkshakes. She was really attractive, blonde and blue-eyed. She was very tall though... I'm 6'0" and I felt like she was a little taller than me. She had some weird boots on so maybe they made her a little taller. Anyway, she seemed maybe a little socially awkward, but not in a bad way. More in a slightly geeky way which is more in my wheelhouse than some high-maintenance type. We seemed to hit it off pretty well, had similar senses of humor, laughed a lot, etc.The whole thing lasted about an hour and a half and she said she had to go. So we walked until we were going in different directions, and I gave her a little hug and thanked her for coming out and said I had a nice time. She said she did too and that we'll have to figure out something else to do sometime. So the whole way home I was trying to figure out what I was supposed to do next. Should I send her a text or note on OKCupid reiterating that I had a good time? What should I say? And as I was pulling in the garage, I received the following text from her:Holy smokes... not sure what happened, but since yesterday have had some decent responses on OKCupid. Most notably, a very attractive 23-year old blonde, 5'10" slim, who likes older men (I'm 40+)I sent her a message yesterday and she replied. We've exchanged a few, she sent me a text, and we are supposed to meet up for a milkshake (she doesn't drink) later today. OMG! OMG! Just be cool, dude...Also had another 23-year old message me out of the blue yesterday, and that practically never happens from any woman. She's not interested in anything romantic, but liked my profile and thought she would enjoy talking to me. She's Latina, and says she has friends who like older men, so there's still a potential hookup in there somewhere.
Also started e-mailing with another attractive blonde today, 35, who enjoys fantasy football!
I had a good time and thought we had a nice connection. I would like to see you again.![]()
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I just want to tell you both good luck. We're all counting on you.So we met up at the place and had a couple of milkshakes. She was really attractive, blonde and blue-eyed. She was very tall though... I'm 6'0" and I felt like she was a little taller than me. She had some weird boots on so maybe they made her a little taller. Anyway, she seemed maybe a little socially awkward, but not in a bad way. More in a slightly geeky way which is more in my wheelhouse than some high-maintenance type. We seemed to hit it off pretty well, had similar senses of humor, laughed a lot, etc.The whole thing lasted about an hour and a half and she said she had to go. So we walked until we were going in different directions, and I gave her a little hug and thanked her for coming out and said I had a nice time. She said she did too and that we'll have to figure out something else to do sometime. So the whole way home I was trying to figure out what I was supposed to do next. Should I send her a text or note on OKCupid reiterating that I had a good time? What should I say? And as I was pulling in the garage, I received the following text from her:Holy smokes... not sure what happened, but since yesterday have had some decent responses on OKCupid. Most notably, a very attractive 23-year old blonde, 5'10" slim, who likes older men (I'm 40+)I sent her a message yesterday and she replied. We've exchanged a few, she sent me a text, and we are supposed to meet up for a milkshake (she doesn't drink) later today. OMG! OMG! Just be cool, dude...Also had another 23-year old message me out of the blue yesterday, and that practically never happens from any woman. She's not interested in anything romantic, but liked my profile and thought she would enjoy talking to me. She's Latina, and says she has friends who like older men, so there's still a potential hookup in there somewhere.
Also started e-mailing with another attractive blonde today, 35, who enjoys fantasy football!
I had a good time and thought we had a nice connection. I would like to see you again.![]()
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Nice. Make sure you don't blow it and text her back too soon. I'd wait about 3-4 weeks before you respond.So we met up at the place and had a couple of milkshakes. She was really attractive, blonde and blue-eyed. She was very tall though... I'm 6'0" and I felt like she was a little taller than me. She had some weird boots on so maybe they made her a little taller. Anyway, she seemed maybe a little socially awkward, but not in a bad way. More in a slightly geeky way which is more in my wheelhouse than some high-maintenance type. We seemed to hit it off pretty well, had similar senses of humor, laughed a lot, etc.The whole thing lasted about an hour and a half and she said she had to go. So we walked until we were going in different directions, and I gave her a little hug and thanked her for coming out and said I had a nice time. She said she did too and that we'll have to figure out something else to do sometime. So the whole way home I was trying to figure out what I was supposed to do next. Should I send her a text or note on OKCupid reiterating that I had a good time? What should I say? And as I was pulling in the garage, I received the following text from her:Holy smokes... not sure what happened, but since yesterday have had some decent responses on OKCupid. Most notably, a very attractive 23-year old blonde, 5'10" slim, who likes older men (I'm 40+)I sent her a message yesterday and she replied. We've exchanged a few, she sent me a text, and we are supposed to meet up for a milkshake (she doesn't drink) later today. OMG! OMG! Just be cool, dude...Also had another 23-year old message me out of the blue yesterday, and that practically never happens from any woman. She's not interested in anything romantic, but liked my profile and thought she would enjoy talking to me. She's Latina, and says she has friends who like older men, so there's still a potential hookup in there somewhere.
Also started e-mailing with another attractive blonde today, 35, who enjoys fantasy football!
I had a good time and thought we had a nice connection. I would like to see you again.![]()
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I just want to tell you both good luck. We're all counting on you.So we met up at the place and had a couple of milkshakes. She was really attractive, blonde and blue-eyed. She was very tall though... I'm 6'0" and I felt like she was a little taller than me. She had some weird boots on so maybe they made her a little taller. Anyway, she seemed maybe a little socially awkward, but not in a bad way. More in a slightly geeky way which is more in my wheelhouse than some high-maintenance type. We seemed to hit it off pretty well, had similar senses of humor, laughed a lot, etc.The whole thing lasted about an hour and a half and she said she had to go. So we walked until we were going in different directions, and I gave her a little hug and thanked her for coming out and said I had a nice time. She said she did too and that we'll have to figure out something else to do sometime. So the whole way home I was trying to figure out what I was supposed to do next. Should I send her a text or note on OKCupid reiterating that I had a good time? What should I say? And as I was pulling in the garage, I received the following text from her:Holy smokes... not sure what happened, but since yesterday have had some decent responses on OKCupid. Most notably, a very attractive 23-year old blonde, 5'10" slim, who likes older men (I'm 40+)I sent her a message yesterday and she replied. We've exchanged a few, she sent me a text, and we are supposed to meet up for a milkshake (she doesn't drink) later today. OMG! OMG! Just be cool, dude...
Also had another 23-year old message me out of the blue yesterday, and that practically never happens from any woman. She's not interested in anything romantic, but liked my profile and thought she would enjoy talking to me. She's Latina, and says she has friends who like older men, so there's still a potential hookup in there somewhere.![]()
Also started e-mailing with another attractive blonde today, 35, who enjoys fantasy football!
I had a good time and thought we had a nice connection. I would like to see you again.![]()
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Nice. Make sure you don't blow it and text her back too soon. I'd wait about 3-4 weeks before you respond.So we met up at the place and had a couple of milkshakes. She was really attractive, blonde and blue-eyed. She was very tall though... I'm 6'0" and I felt like she was a little taller than me. She had some weird boots on so maybe they made her a little taller. Anyway, she seemed maybe a little socially awkward, but not in a bad way. More in a slightly geeky way which is more in my wheelhouse than some high-maintenance type. We seemed to hit it off pretty well, had similar senses of humor, laughed a lot, etc.The whole thing lasted about an hour and a half and she said she had to go. So we walked until we were going in different directions, and I gave her a little hug and thanked her for coming out and said I had a nice time. She said she did too and that we'll have to figure out something else to do sometime. So the whole way home I was trying to figure out what I was supposed to do next. Should I send her a text or note on OKCupid reiterating that I had a good time? What should I say? And as I was pulling in the garage, I received the following text from her:Holy smokes... not sure what happened, but since yesterday have had some decent responses on OKCupid. Most notably, a very attractive 23-year old blonde, 5'10" slim, who likes older men (I'm 40+)I sent her a message yesterday and she replied. We've exchanged a few, she sent me a text, and we are supposed to meet up for a milkshake (she doesn't drink) later today. OMG! OMG! Just be cool, dude...Also had another 23-year old message me out of the blue yesterday, and that practically never happens from any woman. She's not interested in anything romantic, but liked my profile and thought she would enjoy talking to me. She's Latina, and says she has friends who like older men, so there's still a potential hookup in there somewhere.
Also started e-mailing with another attractive blonde today, 35, who enjoys fantasy football!
I had a good time and thought we had a nice connection. I would like to see you again.![]()
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followed by:Right back at ya, kid
About an hour and 10 minutes later (10 min ago) she sent me a reply:Haha, kidding. Seriously, thanks for the nice note. I had a very nice time and would like to see you again too.
Wow. And just now as I was typing this post:Awesome.
Wow, so what's the play here? What do I do? Help!!By the way, I had heels on my boots. I don't think I'm actually taller than you.
I probably wouldn't call her kid anymore.Nice. Make sure you don't blow it and text her back too soon. I'd wait about 3-4 weeks before you respond.So we met up at the place and had a couple of milkshakes. She was really attractive, blonde and blue-eyed. She was very tall though... I'm 6'0" and I felt like she was a little taller than me. She had some weird boots on so maybe they made her a little taller. Anyway, she seemed maybe a little socially awkward, but not in a bad way. More in a slightly geeky way which is more in my wheelhouse than some high-maintenance type. We seemed to hit it off pretty well, had similar senses of humor, laughed a lot, etc.The whole thing lasted about an hour and a half and she said she had to go. So we walked until we were going in different directions, and I gave her a little hug and thanked her for coming out and said I had a nice time. She said she did too and that we'll have to figure out something else to do sometime. So the whole way home I was trying to figure out what I was supposed to do next. Should I send her a text or note on OKCupid reiterating that I had a good time? What should I say? And as I was pulling in the garage, I received the following text from her:Holy smokes... not sure what happened, but since yesterday have had some decent responses on OKCupid. Most notably, a very attractive 23-year old blonde, 5'10" slim, who likes older men (I'm 40+)I sent her a message yesterday and she replied. We've exchanged a few, she sent me a text, and we are supposed to meet up for a milkshake (she doesn't drink) later today. OMG! OMG! Just be cool, dude...Also had another 23-year old message me out of the blue yesterday, and that practically never happens from any woman. She's not interested in anything romantic, but liked my profile and thought she would enjoy talking to me. She's Latina, and says she has friends who like older men, so there's still a potential hookup in there somewhere.
Also started e-mailing with another attractive blonde today, 35, who enjoys fantasy football!
I had a good time and thought we had a nice connection. I would like to see you again.![]()
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Well I had to go see my neighbor for a little while, so I didn't text her back right away. It was probably about 25 minutes later I texted her:
followed by:Right back at ya, kidAbout an hour and 10 minutes later (10 min ago) she sent me a reply:Haha, kidding. Seriously, thanks for the nice note. I had a very nice time and would like to see you again too.Wow. And just now as I was typing this post:Awesome.Wow, so what's the play here? What do I do? Help!!By the way, I had heels on my boots. I don't think I'm actually taller than you.
Uh oh, I hope she doesn't have a Yorkie.Her: I think I'm technically under 5'11" but taller than 5'10" so I use them kinda interchangeably. Oh well.Me: Haha, it's ok either way. I think you're beautiful.Her: Thank you! I think you are very cute as well.Me: Thanks! Maybe I should stop over after basketballhaha, kidding!Her: Silly. You'd have to get by my tough little watch dog first.Me: Not to mention take a shower. I'd better stop for doggie treats on the way home.Her: HahaGonna let it drop now until she texts me again. Playing basketball from 8-10pm tonight so that will help.
you should be smashin by tomorrow at the latest.Her: I think I'm technically under 5'11" but taller than 5'10" so I use them kinda interchangeably. Oh well.Me: Haha, it's ok either way. I think you're beautiful.Her: Thank you! I think you are very cute as well.Me: Thanks! Maybe I should stop over after basketballhaha, kidding!Her: Silly. You'd have to get by my tough little watch dog first.Me: Not to mention take a shower. I'd better stop for doggie treats on the way home.Her: HahaGonna let it drop now until she texts me again. Playing basketball from 8-10pm tonight so that will help.
Dude, you totally blew that. Neg down?Her: I think I'm technically under 5'11" but taller than 5'10" so I use them kinda interchangeably. Oh well.
Me: Haha, it's ok either way. I think you're beautiful.
Her: Thank you! I think you are very cute as well.
Me: Thanks! Maybe I should stop over after basketballhaha, kidding!
Her: Silly. You'd have to get by my tough little watch dog first.
Me: Not to mention take a shower. I'd better stop for doggie treats on the way home.
Her: Haha
Gonna let it drop now until she texts me again. Playing basketball from 8-10pm tonight so that will help.
Women will scan every possible piece of publicly available information about you before the first date. Only answer publicly what you're absolutely comfortable with any chick seeing. You can answer a bunch privately to improve matching, but keep the public stuff tightly controlled and only if every one paints you in the best possible light.What about the questions on OK Cupid? Do you answer them all privately or not? I don't want to seem like I am hiding something but I also don't want women knowing that I am really looking for something short-term instead of long-term. Is it best to answer some publically and some privately so the women know a bit about me from the answers but don't know everything about my desire for seeing them on a short-term basis rather than long-term. I'd rather get them out and on a date to figure all that out vs. getting screened or filtered out by someone I could click with due to the answers she sees.