I'm at my office this morning around a quarter until 8 when I get a text from one of my wife's really good friends. It is a photo bomb picture of two couples on the beach with a naked guy with his dong showing in the background. Along with the picture she wrote "were u laying out when u should have been at work yesterday?". Now, we don't really have a texting relationship as she is my wife's friend although there have been times we have texted each other infrequently in the past. On my end, it is usually when I'm with my wife and her name will come up and my wife will say "You should text that to her".
I decided to text back "Not me, I don't manscape" seeing how the guy in the pic looked like he must have just taking a bath in Nair. She responded back "Really! Ur wife told me ur balls of fun!".
Do you think she is just having some innocent fun with me or is she testing the waters for some potential side action?
This is the part that gets me kind of. My my wife and I have several mutual couple friends and while it's not abnormal at all for me to text the female SO or my wife the male SO of these counterparts that's pretty much always for logistical reasons or things there's can of an unspoken rule that the girls text the girls and the guys the guys when there is some anecdote worth sharing, especially if it's sexual in nature.
ETA: If not clear, my conclusion is that your wife secretly wants to swing.