seahawk 17
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Lot's of thoughts on this subject, so I started it's own thread.
Back story...
I am turning 40 in a couple weeks, and life has been really hard. My grandmother has been given 1-2 months to live. In response to that, my mom who is an only child has taken off to CA to have a, "2nd childhood." this leaves me as the oldest child to help my grandmother through her tough time, and take care of my grandpa who is old school. Men don't cook, clean, or wash clothes. I live 2hrs away but I go over twice a week to do chores and help out because she is dying, and he knows nothing. On top of that, I have returned to school to finish my degree...at my grandmas request.
So my wife says to me yesterday that she knows life has been hard, and turning 40 can't be great. She wants to get me a massage with a happy ending. Her main concern is that I will think less of her, she doesn't love me...blah blah blah. I tell her that is pretty cool of her, but don't say yes.
The other thread blows up. Some think it's cool, some wouldn't do it. Crazy people say if your allowed to do that your wife is cheating? I want to hear experiences and opinions. My wife wants to know how you find these girls?
Back story...
I am turning 40 in a couple weeks, and life has been really hard. My grandmother has been given 1-2 months to live. In response to that, my mom who is an only child has taken off to CA to have a, "2nd childhood." this leaves me as the oldest child to help my grandmother through her tough time, and take care of my grandpa who is old school. Men don't cook, clean, or wash clothes. I live 2hrs away but I go over twice a week to do chores and help out because she is dying, and he knows nothing. On top of that, I have returned to school to finish my degree...at my grandmas request.
So my wife says to me yesterday that she knows life has been hard, and turning 40 can't be great. She wants to get me a massage with a happy ending. Her main concern is that I will think less of her, she doesn't love me...blah blah blah. I tell her that is pretty cool of her, but don't say yes.
The other thread blows up. Some think it's cool, some wouldn't do it. Crazy people say if your allowed to do that your wife is cheating? I want to hear experiences and opinions. My wife wants to know how you find these girls?
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