dancingbones
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Getting remarried soon, and we want to keep our finances separate. I'll be 48 & she'll be 49 this year, and we have both been married before. We realize that some things will have to be combined due to the fact that we're married, but we do a great job of managing our money as it is, and would like to keep it that way.
Question for those of you who have gone down this road. What are some of the things we should be paying attention to? I realize we'll likely have to hire either a lawyer or a good accountant/ tax person to make everything legal - but want to get as much education going in so we're not paying someone $200/hr to tell us things we can figure out on our own.
Things we know we want to figure out:
1) a prenup to protect our individual assets/property that we already have
2) how to best structure our home (we own it now as tenants in common, wondering about changing to joint tenants)
3) how to set up our life insurance beneficiaries so that it makes sense to accomplish what we want to do (make sure that if one of us survives the other, the survivor gets the house & 1/2 the debt, while the estate of the person who dies pays their 1/2 of the debt & cashes out on 1/2 on whatever value the house has)
4) things like figuring out who can contribute to IRAs (currently each max out our individaul IRAs, but think the limit as a married couple is less)
5) figure out HSA accounts - we each have one & she uses hers as a tax deferred savings plan, while I use mine to basically pay for needed medical care for myself & my 2 kids. Getting married changes the amount we can each contribute to our plans, i think.
6) how to protect our individual assets in the event that one of us gets hit by a bus but NOT killed (don't want the assets of one to be forced to go to the healthcare of the other).
7) what other things should we be thinking about?
Any input from those who have gone down the same road would be welcomed.
Thank,
dbones
Question for those of you who have gone down this road. What are some of the things we should be paying attention to? I realize we'll likely have to hire either a lawyer or a good accountant/ tax person to make everything legal - but want to get as much education going in so we're not paying someone $200/hr to tell us things we can figure out on our own.
Things we know we want to figure out:
1) a prenup to protect our individual assets/property that we already have
2) how to best structure our home (we own it now as tenants in common, wondering about changing to joint tenants)
3) how to set up our life insurance beneficiaries so that it makes sense to accomplish what we want to do (make sure that if one of us survives the other, the survivor gets the house & 1/2 the debt, while the estate of the person who dies pays their 1/2 of the debt & cashes out on 1/2 on whatever value the house has)
4) things like figuring out who can contribute to IRAs (currently each max out our individaul IRAs, but think the limit as a married couple is less)
5) figure out HSA accounts - we each have one & she uses hers as a tax deferred savings plan, while I use mine to basically pay for needed medical care for myself & my 2 kids. Getting married changes the amount we can each contribute to our plans, i think.
6) how to protect our individual assets in the event that one of us gets hit by a bus but NOT killed (don't want the assets of one to be forced to go to the healthcare of the other).
7) what other things should we be thinking about?
Any input from those who have gone down the same road would be welcomed.
Thank,
dbones