1) The porn thing was just a joke, but you guys blew my mind with the "BYOP" idea. That seems so ridiculously pervy I'm not sure I could keep a straight face. "Umm, yes, I know that you have a selection of magazines and videos in there, but I had to bring my own selection just in case you don't have anything with midget trannies peeing on each other."2) Freezing extra embryos is standard operating procedure everywhere. The part of the procedure that is most expensive and most hazardous to a woman's health is the part where you inject her with a bunch of drugs to make a lot of eggs to be harvested. If you have some embryos on ice, you can avoid that whole part. My first kid was once a frozen embryo. 3) I think most people consider adoption at some point. After we had IVF fail a few times, we met with an adoption agency worker for an initial consult. I'm sure if we had ended up adopting we would have loved the kid just as much as we love our kids now, but it's hard to make that choice. And the whole process of adoption freaked us out a little bit.