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Thanks for asking, though there hasn't really been much change on that front. Her therapist is talking about getting her into dialectical behavior therapy but doesn't do it herself. I'm not real clear on what that type of therapy entails, I'll have to read up on it. But, man, with everything that's going on there just isn't enough time. Plus now I have selling my house and finding a new one to worry about. There just isn't enough time in the day'Dr. Awesome said:
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Long story that had a 14-page thread back in July. Sorry you missed it but I'm not gonna go through it all again. The affair lasted for about a month and when she went to break it off with him he didn't like that so he raped her.
Oh, I didn't miss the original. Quite the opposite! I got ZERO work done for those few days!
I just don't remember if you ever got her to fully tell the truth and fess up or the level of detail you were able to ascertain about the whole ordeal.
thinking about it. Think I'll pick up some Scotch on the way home tonight. 
I'll just say I've had a recurring fantasy where this guy comes to my house and I'm waiting with my Smith & Wesson. I wouldn't hesitate for a second.
Sorry, Mike. But the bolded sentence is exactly what I was getting at when I asked the question. There is a difference between one time druken cheating and an affair. Although not much. And both are very wrong..... not sure where I am going with this.Also, sorry about theOh, OK. Glad I was able to provide you with some entertainment. She's told me that it happened 3 times and I think I believe her. At this point the number of times doesn't really matter - it was more than just one drunken mistake it was a conscious choice to continue cheating. See now, you're getting me
. But you get a night of scotch out of it!
I know GB, I'm only at the point I am after 3+ months of therapy. You're correct there is a difference. But being out of whack on her meds contributed to her bad decisions and she's faithful* about taking her meds every day now. There's been a big change in her personality lately. I'm just hoping for the best.*Hah! Interesting choice of words, there.Sorry, Mike. But the bolded sentence is exactly what I was getting at when I asked the question. There is a difference between one time druken cheating and an affair. Although not much. And both are very wrong..... not sure where I am going with this.Also, sorry about theOh, OK. Glad I was able to provide you with some entertainment. She's told me that it happened 3 times and I think I believe her. At this point the number of times doesn't really matter - it was more than just one drunken mistake it was a conscious choice to continue cheating. See now, you're getting me
. She's been taken off a bunch of the meds she was taking and her new meds are making a big difference in her personality. She's got more energy than she's had in a while and she's even lost 10 pounds in the last 2 weeks. I admit I still have some misgivings but I find myself pretty hopeful for the future.
Congrats on the last paragraph.My wife talked to the detective the other day and it doesn't sound good for the case against RaperRapper. The rape kit came back and did indeed have DNA. However, the hospital didn't note any bruising (I'm not sure how, the next morning her thighs and butt had bruises all over) or genital trauma. RaperRapper has lawyered up, and at this point it's mostly a case of he said-she said. The detective said she'd bring the case to the prosecutor but not to be surprised if they decline to press charges.My wife is pretty angry about this - she doesn't want him to get away with it. I understand that it would be difficult to prove the charge in a court of law and can see why they would decline to press charges. Also, if it went to trial the defense attorney would be brutal toward my wife - she made a lot of bad choices during the month leading up to the attack and would look really bad under cross-examination. Still, I'd like to see him in jail.Also, they have been unable to serve him with the temporary restraining order. He gave the cops a fake address and apparently until he's been served the order doesn't go into effect. There was a hearing before the judge on Wednesday that he was supposed to attend, but of course he didn't show up so they made a continuance until December. All in all, it's been a frustrating week as far as the legal system goes.My wife and I are doing pretty well lately. We're getting along, working on trying to get the house ready to sell, and having a lot of good
Wow. Sorry about the legal system issues. ButMy wife talked to the detective the other day and it doesn't sound good for the case against RaperRapper. The rape kit came back and did indeed have DNA. However, the hospital didn't note any bruising (I'm not sure how, the next morning her thighs and butt had bruises all over) or genital trauma. RaperRapper has lawyered up, and at this point it's mostly a case of he said-she said. The detective said she'd bring the case to the prosecutor but not to be surprised if they decline to press charges.My wife is pretty angry about this - she doesn't want him to get away with it. I understand that it would be difficult to prove the charge in a court of law and can see why they would decline to press charges. Also, if it went to trial the defense attorney would be brutal toward my wife - she made a lot of bad choices during the month leading up to the attack and would look really bad under cross-examination. Still, I'd like to see him in jail.Also, they have been unable to serve him with the temporary restraining order. He gave the cops a fake address and apparently until he's been served the order doesn't go into effect. There was a hearing before the judge on Wednesday that he was supposed to attend, but of course he didn't show up so they made a continuance until December. All in all, it's been a frustrating week as far as the legal system goes.My wife and I are doing pretty well lately. We're getting along, working on trying to get the house ready to sell, and having a lot of good
on you and your wife working things out as well as you are! Must be tough.
Congrats on the last paragraph.My wife talked to the detective the other day and it doesn't sound good for the case against RaperRapper. The rape kit came back and did indeed have DNA. However, the hospital didn't note any bruising (I'm not sure how, the next morning her thighs and butt had bruises all over) or genital trauma. RaperRapper has lawyered up, and at this point it's mostly a case of he said-she said. The detective said she'd bring the case to the prosecutor but not to be surprised if they decline to press charges.My wife is pretty angry about this - she doesn't want him to get away with it. I understand that it would be difficult to prove the charge in a court of law and can see why they would decline to press charges. Also, if it went to trial the defense attorney would be brutal toward my wife - she made a lot of bad choices during the month leading up to the attack and would look really bad under cross-examination. Still, I'd like to see him in jail.Also, they have been unable to serve him with the temporary restraining order. He gave the cops a fake address and apparently until he's been served the order doesn't go into effect. There was a hearing before the judge on Wednesday that he was supposed to attend, but of course he didn't show up so they made a continuance until December. All in all, it's been a frustrating week as far as the legal system goes.My wife and I are doing pretty well lately. We're getting along, working on trying to get the house ready to sell, and having a lot of good
Sounds like she is in the "Manic" side of her Bi-polar swings, possibly? Just hope it lasts...GL to you, and hopefully they find that raperRapper guy dead in the gutter one day soon.Congrats on the last paragraph.My wife talked to the detective the other day and it doesn't sound good for the case against RaperRapper. The rape kit came back and did indeed have DNA. However, the hospital didn't note any bruising (I'm not sure how, the next morning her thighs and butt had bruises all over) or genital trauma. RaperRapper has lawyered up, and at this point it's mostly a case of he said-she said. The detective said she'd bring the case to the prosecutor but not to be surprised if they decline to press charges.My wife is pretty angry about this - she doesn't want him to get away with it. I understand that it would be difficult to prove the charge in a court of law and can see why they would decline to press charges. Also, if it went to trial the defense attorney would be brutal toward my wife - she made a lot of bad choices during the month leading up to the attack and would look really bad under cross-examination. Still, I'd like to see him in jail.Also, they have been unable to serve him with the temporary restraining order. He gave the cops a fake address and apparently until he's been served the order doesn't go into effect. There was a hearing before the judge on Wednesday that he was supposed to attend, but of course he didn't show up so they made a continuance until December. All in all, it's been a frustrating week as far as the legal system goes.My wife and I are doing pretty well lately. We're getting along, working on trying to get the house ready to sell, and having a lot of good
Just the opposite, actually. Manic is when the trouble happens - she loses the ability to reason, delay gratification, or think of anyone but herself. Right now she seems to be in a good place - not manic or depressed. Hopefully it lasts.
Good Luck man and I hope it works out for you
Ugh, just reading this makes my stomach churn. So sorry you have to go through this and I admire your dedication to your family. I hope a tragic 'accident' befalls this punk.
Annual bump day?
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