Really glad to read the encouraging update.
As to the bolded, this is really important, and is something that those who have not dealt with serious medical issues may not realize. It is extremely important for every patient with a serious condition to have someone(s) acting as their advocate. No one else will do it; you have to do it for yourself or your loved one. And by advocate, I mean actively researching the condition, treatments, specialists, etc. on your own and bringing information to your healthcare providers, just as shady did in this case; making sure you understand the care being provided and why; etc.
Still praying for you and your family, shady.