You are doing the great gift, anything else is gravy.I know we've had a bunch of these threads before, but I'm at a loss...
My dad is turning 80 next month. My brothers and I (and families) are flying down to Florida to celebrate with him.
Any thoughts on a great gift?
No ideas for cool gifts. Just make sure to get him plenty stuff with 80 on it. I'm raising my 90+ parents to their graves and, the more their minds go, the more they love to look at the things w the 80s & 90s (and the 50s & 60s anniv-wise) on em and remember how good their lousy kids have been to them.I know we've had a bunch of these threads before, but I'm at a loss...
My dad is turning 80 next month. My brothers and I (and families) are flying down to Florida to celebrate with him.
Any thoughts on a great gift?
I went wrong with a hooker once. Still can't remember where she's buried....Can't go wrong with a hooker
Yes we can... but the "what" is the sticking point.Can brothers and you go in on a more expensive something together? Either on an event as Floppo suggested, or a nice tangible item.
My brothers and I did a little offshore fishing excursion with Dad and we had a blast. Wasn't too expensive, great bonding time, and we had fresh dinner to throw on the grill that night.Yes we can... but the "what" is the sticking point.
fishing trip, ball game, show.Yes we can... but the "what" is the sticking point.
Prunes. Or dried plums if you're into the whole brevity thing.Years supply of stool softener?
Already planned.At 80 I am sure your dad just wants to be around the family. Maybe get a small room at a restaurant where you can have some drinks and not be rushed... have a nice dinner where he is the guest of honor.
He still golfs regularly. Other than that... big supporter of his alma mater sports... big sports guy in general. Spends most of his time being leisure with my step-momfishing trip, ball game, show.
does have any interests or hobbies? or he is like the rest of us and directionless.
Old folks love a cruise...Guys only cruise and then find the foreign hookers.Yes we can... but the "what" is the sticking point.
The buzz around FL (particularly the villages) stacking Cialis & Valtrax is pretty popular.
Not close knit, unfortunately. Again... we (his kids) all live 1,500 miles away from him, so setting up an "event" would be tough since our coordinated visit will be short.How about renting a nice place somewhere out in nature for a night or two. We did that with my aunt's husband in Tahoe. He loves scenery and the fact that we were out where there's no distraction was the best gift for him. He's now 87 and has been unable to really leave his house very far due to medical conditions, so this was extra special.
If you are a close knit family, this will be appreciate more than any physical gift..
Maybe now's the time to become more close knit? Of course I don't know if there's any history making this so, but if it's just due to distance, someone that age appreciates more intimate moments with fam as they are more aware of their mortality than us younger ones. Otherwise I'd do whatever he likes. Make it his day from am to pm.Not close knit, unfortunately. Again... we (his kids) all live 1,500 miles away from him, so setting up an "event" would be tough since our coordinated visit will be short.
In his younger (alcoholic) days, this would be the right answer.80 year old single-malt Scotch
There were no alcoholics back then.In his younger (alcoholic) days, this would be the right answer.
As the old joke goes - You know the difference between an alcoholic and a drunk? Drunks don't have to go to those meetings.There were no alcoholics back then.
80 year olds don't check their phones for the time.He doesn't have a phone?
good choice. if he has the kind of sense of humor my ancient dad has, you might get him some fake doody so you can test if he knows #### from ShinolaI ended up getting him this