Not defensive at all...Why so defensive? Not very dudelike.JIf you like a film, is it that big of a stretch that someone else would love it?
JNot defensive at all...Why so defensive? Not very dudelike.JIf you like a film, is it that big of a stretch that someone else would love it?
JYou know, that or, uh, His Dudeness, or uh, Duder, or El Duderino if you're not into the whole brevity thing.Insisting on everyone calling him the Dude wasJ
Mark it as a foul, Donnie!Not defensive at all...Why so defensive? Not very dudelike.JIf you like a film, is it that big of a stretch that someone else would love it?J
Yah, well, you know, thats just like, your opinion, man.I'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?J
Watch it a few more times, it grows on you. 
yesrepetition is the key to learningDefinitely watch it a few more times before rendering your final verdict. I thought it was kinda funny the first time I saw it, too, but didn't really "get it" until probably the 3rd time. Plus, the more you watch it, the more you get to know the characters, and then things that didn't seem that funny at first, suddenly become hilarious.
Joe, I am in the same boat as you. I don't get the movie at all, it was painful for me to watch. Steve Buscemi is great, but the "dude" was painful. I guess if we don't get it we will never get it.

Dude...This aggression against The Big Lebowski will not stand, man!
well, that's just like...your opinion, manETA: strykerpks beat me to it and his quote was more accurateI'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?J

Shut the #### up Donnie.You're out of your element?
Can't really debate movie likes or dislikes but I would bet you're in a small group that hated Lewbowski and Oh Brother but has Fargo in your top 20. JUnwatchable, IMO. Hate O Brother, Where Art Thou as well. Fargo in my top 20 all time.![]()
The plot framework of Fargo is a little more traditional than Lebowski or O' Brother so I can see that.Can't really debate movie likes or dislikes but I would bet you're in a small group that hated Lewbowski and Oh Brother but has Fargo in your top 20. JUnwatchable, IMO. Hate O Brother, Where Art Thou as well. Fargo in my top 20 all time.![]()
thoughts on Raising Arizona?I've seen it twice. People I know and respect love it...I absolutely hate it. Me: Why do you like it? What am I missing?Them: It's hilarious.Me: That movie is a comedy?Unwatchable, IMO. Hate O Brother, Where Art Thou as well. Fargo in my top 20 all time.![]()
this exchange had me in tears in the theater.Walter Sobchak: I told those ####s down at the league office a thousand times that I don't roll on Shabbos!Donny: What's Shabbos?Walter Sobchak: Saturday, Donny, is Shabbos, the Jewish day of rest. That means that I don't work, I don't get in a car, I don't ####### ride in a car, I don't pick up the phone, I don't turn on the oven, and I sure as ####[shouts]Walter Sobchak: don't ####### roll! Shomer shabbos!The Dude: Walter...Walter Sobchak: Shomer ####### shabbos.The Dude: Oh #### it.
I've seen it twice. People I know and respect love it...I absolutely hate it. Me: Why do you like it? What am I missing?Them: It's hilarious.Me: That movie is a comedy?Unwatchable, IMO. Hate O Brother, Where Art Thou as well. Fargo in my top 20 all time.![]()


You have to see it more than once and in the company of people who like that style of humor. It took a couple viewing for me to get it and it gets better every time I watch it.I'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?J
This doesn't make any sense as an argument for why a movie is goodYou have to see it more than once and in the company of people who like that style of humor. It took a couple viewing for me to get it and it gets better every time I watch it.I'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?J
Walter is a brilliant character - one second he's flipping out and the next he's describing the preferred nomenclature of Chinamen.this exchange had me in tears in the theater.Walter Sobchak: I told those ####s down at the league office a thousand times that I don't roll on Shabbos!Donny: What's Shabbos?Walter Sobchak: Saturday, Donny, is Shabbos, the Jewish day of rest. That means that I don't work, I don't get in a car, I don't ####### ride in a car, I don't pick up the phone, I don't turn on the oven, and I sure as ####[shouts]Walter Sobchak: don't ####### roll! Shomer shabbos!The Dude: Walter...Walter Sobchak: Shomer ####### shabbos.The Dude: Oh #### it.
While I could break down the film scene by scene why it's funny, but that's not going to help someone enjoy it more. The bottom line is that it's an incredible film (the ONLY one I can watch repeatedly) and get better the more you've seen it. When Joe wrote that The Dude was "tiresome" that's the wrong way to look at it - that's just how he is and how he chooses to live his life. Some people might not find him admirable (THE BUMS LOST!!) but he's happier than most people in the world.This doesn't make any sense as an argument for why a movie is goodYou have to see it more than once and in the company of people who like that style of humor. It took a couple viewing for me to get it and it gets better every time I watch it.I'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?J
Getting better with repeated viewings is fine. I was laughing at the comment that you need to see it with a bunch of people who think it's funny in order to get it.While I could break down the film scene by scene why it's funny, but that's not going to help someone enjoy it more. The bottom line is that it's an incredible film (the ONLY one I can watch repeatedly) and get better the more you've seen it. When Joe wrote that The Dude was "tiresome" that's the wrong way to look at it - that's just how he is and how he chooses to live his life. Some people might not find him admirable (THE BUMS LOST!!) but he's happier than most people in the world.This doesn't make any sense as an argument for why a movie is goodYou have to see it more than once and in the company of people who like that style of humor. It took a couple viewing for me to get it and it gets better every time I watch it.I'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?J
Millers Crossing is one I don't get the love for - it's above average. Hated O Brother. Don't like Raising Arizona. Hudsucker and Barton Fink were both good. Love Fargo.I like the movie quite a bit, but in the pantheon of Coen Bros. movies that I have seen, I would rank it behind Miller's Crossing and O Brother.
Love it. Lebowski completely misses me and it has nothing to do with plot structure. I actually watched it once with a friend and asked him to point out the funny parts and then we paused the movie and he explained to me why the part was funny and then I explained why I thought it wasn't. I don't even find the movie mildly amusing. Just a disjointed blob of bore. Goodman's performance is one of my bottom 2 of all-time just ahead of Ice-T in New Jack City.thoughts on Raising Arizona?I've seen it twice. People I know and respect love it...I absolutely hate it. Me: Why do you like it? What am I missing?Them: It's hilarious.Me: That movie is a comedy?Unwatchable, IMO. Hate O Brother, Where Art Thou as well. Fargo in my top 20 all time.![]()
Joe, it's only one of the best movies ever made. It's like a good soup...better the second time around.FI'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?J
I don't think you're alone, but you are probably in the minority.I don't even find the movie mildly amusing. Just a disjointed blob of bore.
"I wanna shoot you so bad, my ####'s hard!"Love it. Lebowski completely misses me and it has nothing to do with plot structure. I actually watched it once with a friend and asked him to point out the funny parts and then we paused the movie and he explained to me why the part was funny and then I explained why I thought it wasn't. I don't even find the movie mildly amusing. Just a disjointed blob of bore. Goodman's performance is one of my bottom 2 of all-time just ahead of Ice-T in New Jack City.thoughts on Raising Arizona?I've seen it twice. People I know and respect love it...I absolutely hate it.
Me: Why do you like it? What am I missing?
Them: It's hilarious.
Me: That movie is a comedy?
Unwatchable, IMO. Hate O Brother, Where Art Thou as well. Fargo in my top 20 all time.![]()
Most of my best B&M friends have this movie in their top 10 if not top 3. I know I'm in the minority but I have no idea why. It's like one of those patterns with the hidden image covered up and everyone sees the naked lady but me. I WANT TO SEE THE NAKED LADY!I don't think you're alone, but you are probably in the minority.I don't even find the movie mildly amusing. Just a disjointed blob of bore.
"It's a shooner!"Most of my best B&M friends have this movie in their top 10 if not top 3. I know I'm in the minority but I have no idea why. It's like one of those patterns with the hidden image covered up and everyone sees the naked lady but me. I WANT TO SEE THE NAKED LADY!I don't think you're alone, but you are probably in the minority.I don't even find the movie mildly amusing. Just a disjointed blob of bore.
the dream sequences eatThe responses in this thread should explain why people love it so much.They love the dialog exchanges.It's my favorite comedy ever. Liked it the first time around, agree The Dude seemed a bit contrived... But after multiple viewings you see more and more nuances and it just gets funnier. Only weak spot is the dream sequences are overdone.
He may not be universally appealing, but virtually every stoner out there appreciates the Dude.The Dude is a lazy bum
wrongto be fair, it has a saturation point at somewhere around 75 viewings.
100?wrongto be fair, it has a saturation point at somewhere around 75 viewings.
People can watch and enjoy (or dislike) whatever they want for all I care.But I have watched . . . and rewatched . . . this movie many, many times and I still don't find it funny. And I like a ton of comedies, even movies that others say is not funny at all. So it's not like I have high brow tastes and am poo-pooing this film because of it.I have tried many times to give this movie a chance and I am not sure if I laughed at all. It just COMPLETELY did not strike a chord with me.If I were writing a comedy, I would use Lebowski as a resource of "HOW NOT TO WRITE A COMEDY."But that's just me, and I understand that many people love this movie like there is no tomorrow. I admit, I don't get it, and maybe the 101st viewing it will suddenly get funny.Joe, it's only one of the best movies ever made. It's like a good soup...better the second time around.FI'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?J

Funny that a movie you would use as a road map to the unfunny has it's own movie festivals and viewings across the country 10+ years after it's releasePeople can watch and enjoy (or dislike) whatever they want for all I care.But I have watched . . . and rewatched . . . this movie many, many times and I still don't find it funny. And I like a ton of comedies, even movies that others say is not funny at all. So it's not like I have high brow tastes and am poo-pooing this film because of it.Joe, it's only one of the best movies ever made. It's like a good soup...better the second time around.FI'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.
I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.
The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.
I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?
J
I have tried many times to give this movie a chance and I am not sure if I laughed at all. It just COMPLETELY did not strike a chord with me.
If I were writing a comedy, I would use Lebowski as a resource of "HOW NOT TO WRITE A COMEDY."
But that's just me, and I understand that many people love this movie like there is no tomorrow. I admit, I don't get it, and maybe the 101st viewing it will suddenly get funny.
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Hi David,How much time do you have that you can watch a movie "many times" that you don't like?JPeople can watch and enjoy (or dislike) whatever they want for all I care.But I have watched . . . and rewatched . . . this movie many, many times and I still don't find it funny. And I like a ton of comedies, even movies that others say is not funny at all. So it's not like I have high brow tastes and am poo-pooing this film because of it.I have tried many times to give this movie a chance and I am not sure if I laughed at all. It just COMPLETELY did not strike a chord with me.If I were writing a comedy, I would use Lebowski as a resource of "HOW NOT TO WRITE A COMEDY."But that's just me, and I understand that many people love this movie like there is no tomorrow. I admit, I don't get it, and maybe the 101st viewing it will suddenly get funny.Joe, it's only one of the best movies ever made. It's like a good soup...better the second time around.FI'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?J![]()
it's called college.Hi David,How much time do you have that you can watch a movie "many times" that you don't like?JPeople can watch and enjoy (or dislike) whatever they want for all I care.But I have watched . . . and rewatched . . . this movie many, many times and I still don't find it funny. And I like a ton of comedies, even movies that others say is not funny at all. So it's not like I have high brow tastes and am poo-pooing this film because of it.I have tried many times to give this movie a chance and I am not sure if I laughed at all. It just COMPLETELY did not strike a chord with me.If I were writing a comedy, I would use Lebowski as a resource of "HOW NOT TO WRITE A COMEDY."But that's just me, and I understand that many people love this movie like there is no tomorrow. I admit, I don't get it, and maybe the 101st viewing it will suddenly get funny.Joe, it's only one of the best movies ever made. It's like a good soup...better the second time around.FI'm not sure how I missed it all these years but just finally saw the Big Lebowski.I liked it quite a bit. Bridges was good. And Goodman and Buscemi were great. Although I would have liked to see a lot more from Buscemi. But the dialog when all 3 were together was top notch.The Dude was tiresome with the hippie shtick but it was ok. As I said, I liked it a lot.I'm just not sure I get the love I see for it by some. Can you help me understand?J![]()