I also was hoping he'd continue to build friendships with like minded kids and have fun in the fresh air, not watching stupid youtube videos.
The bolded is what I think ultimately swayed my son toward baseball over soccer; not that his soccer friends we no good, but rather that the ones he played baseball with all bonded so quickly that even as some of them were on different travel teams over the years, they always hung out together and by the time they got to play together in high school, they were even keeping each other out of trouble. There was one exception, and even though he drank himself off the team, they didn't turn their backs on him and they're all still friends to this day. Additionally, several of them are moving back into the area now that they're done with school, including my boy, and I'm pretty sure he's moving back because of them.
This is the underrated aspect of travel ball that can be a huge life long benefit. Being on the road, "vacationing" with friends frequently can bond kids/families for life. It's why finding like minded people to link up with for these travel teams is so important to gain the most benefit from the experience. It's bigger than wins and losses and having the same goals (both family and sports) as the other's you are playing with is so important.
This right here.
We are having a reunion with the travel team I coached for 3 years.....13/14/15U......and doing a whiffle ball game before we send off all these boys to college. 90% of them are moving on to College Ball. Something I am very proud of and proud to be a part of. I coached many of thee kids since they were 8-9 years old.
We had the best time with this group of families. We were not the best team....but we won a lot of games, played some amazing tournaments (Disney and Ripkin Myrtle Beach), won a few Travel League titles and made a lifetime of memories together. A lot of these boys are still friends and played against each other in high school the last 4 years.
On another note......we are headed to the State Semi Finals. We are currently ranked #1 in the state of Florida and #1 on many polls in the entire country (Max Preps wake the **** up).
Fort Meyers here we come. If we pull this off.......this will be their 3rd straight State an National title. We have won our last 49 games dating back to last year.....27-0 this season.
My son has a great slash line in his senior season:
.367/.500/.833
22 Runs
16 SB
And lot’s of barrels.
Part time role mind you.......and quite frankly...should be starting. The kid starting in front of him is hitting .150 so don’t ask......we have 2 games left......he has a role and is playing College Ball.....he has already won in the big picture.
To say this has been an incredibly difficult 4 years would be an understatement. Without a doubt this is the toughest most grueling high school baseball program in the State of Florida and maybe the country. Practice is 6 days a week. They play Fall and Spring......practices run 3-4 hours no exceptions.
It is run like a D1 Power 5 Collegiate program.
My son endured constant doubts about his size.
He was 4’11 90 pounds as a freshman and barely made the JV team. He made it because they liked his ball skills despite his tiny frame.
He started his Sophomore year on JV and hit .395 and was perfect in the field.
Junior year when he won his 1st national Title.....he logged a grand total of 2 AB’s and zero innings in the field. Zero. Most players would either transfer out or quit.
Not this kid. He was offered starting SS positions at 3 different high schools over the summer going into his senior year.....turned them all down. He told me “Dad.....I am going to finish what I started” "I am not a quitter” despite knowing he should be in that lineup (again I am not going to go into the “politics” of why he is not). He felt he could win a position and felt confident he would......he hit really well in the Fall.....out hit his competition pretty decisively. Did not matter apparently.
He grew......I mean shot up. Today he is now 5’11 and a rock solid 155 pounds of lean muscle and still growing. 6.7 60 yard speed and a consistent 85-76 arm velo from SS (a year ago it was 78). A gap to gap line drive hitter, fantastic bunter and base runner, high baseball IQ and smooth as silk hands and footwork at SS and 2B. In fact he was moved over to SS in the last month of the season and got to finish off our district title game at SS in the last 3 innings. He also smashed a double that hopped over the CF fence......oh so close to his first HR!! This kid endured......had a ridiculous 2022 summer and some of you already know was recruited to a fantastic D3 school in Raleigh NC named William Peace University to play for a fantastic coach in Charlie Long. In fact they just set a new school record for wins and made it all the way to their conference final for the first time in school history. So he is going to part of a rising program and have a shot to trailblazer it as well. Last summer vs the best 17U competition in the Southeast from the leadoff spot he had:
78AB's
.355 AVG
.400 OBP
.875 OPS
.345 SLG
12 Runs
7 BB
15 SB
5 K's
Just one error in the field in 45 chances playing 2B/LF/SS
That is what got him recruited.....in addition to his outstanding transcript and character.
I have to say.....his high school experience was brutal, hard, at times he thought he would hang it up (after Freshman year when he was so overmatched physically), some excitement winning a lot of games, but the journey made him so much stronger and shaped him into a rock solid D1 level type of ball player......so he will IMO have a totally different experience at college. That is the hope. And I think he will. Those coaches are in constant contact with him and excited to get him up there this Fall. They know what they are getting and what high school program (and a great summer program) he is coming from. These were strong and tough life lessons. Life is not always fair......what you do and how you respond to it will shape who you will become. I thought he handled it like the old school kid I raised. Grit, determination, hard work. Keep grinding.
His head coach in high school gave him a glowing recommendation to his college coach as well as his summer coaches did the same. So it all worked out in that regard. Despite the politics.....and lack of a significant opportunity to start Varsity.....he did play in almost every game in some capacity as a defensive replacement, Pinch Runner (primary PR for the catcher every game) and got 22 AB’s this season (just crazy man......he hit so well in his limited chances while the guy ahead of him has done literally nothing....again not going to get into the “why” but it is totally political and has to do with a faculty members kid).
Look this team is loaded....I mean loaded with talent. He was not the only senior who did not start on a regular basis....but all 8 of his senior class are headed to college and one will be drafted this summer no doubt. We are two deep at every single spot.....our backups would beat most teams too. They are that good. So to be part of this elite program came with some benefits (as well as the cost of lack of playing time). A winning culture, a top notch practice environment and guys who pushed each other each and every day to be on top of their game. My wife and I were soliders about the entire thing. We never said a word. Went to every single game, cheered on every single kid and supported the program with fundraising and working the concession stand and your’s truly worked that Grill a lot his freshman year LOL.....I also happened to coach the middle school that fed 18 players into this program and I coached with his head coach and assistant coach his first two summers as an incoming freshman and Sophomore. So I put in a lot of sweat, time and helped develop a bunch of these young men too. I hung up the coaching cleats going into his Junior year so I could solely focus on helping him with his recruiting process and for the first time....just watch him play the game he loves.
So onto States Tuesday and Wednesday night......I am fully expecting them to finish the job and make Florida history as the only undefeated public school program in state history....and the first public school to win back to back to back State Titles since the early 1900’s in the state of Florida. I mean this is a big story unfolding. We are playing Spruce Creek Tuesday night at 7PM at the Twins Spring Training complex in Lee County (Fort Meyers) in the stadium. Then we face the winner (yeah I expect us to win of course) of Park Vista vs Plant. We had already beaten Park Vista this year....8-2.
Our pre-season rank was in the high teens......and all they have done is beat every single team in front of them. And we play a very tough schedule.
Crazy stuff. This journey is finally coming to and end.......and a brand new one will begin soon. He will be playing in the West Palm Beach Collegiate League in June and July and get at least 60-70 AB’s vs top college talent. So a great primer for his first Fall in college. Exciting stuff. I could not be prouder.