I had dinner last night with a young woman. Shanahan's Steakhouse to be precise. I did not drink alcohol, the reason being it is the holidays, checkpoints are out, even if I did not drink to legally relevant levels the odor would be some indicia that would prolong my exposure to Cops were I stopped, and in my employment that would be unacceptable for many reasons.
The young woman I was with ordered a bottle of wine for herself. How she conducts herself is her own business, though I will note that she drove there and was planning on driving herself home afterwards. She consumed the bottle over the course of a two hour dinner. She is slightly built so it is likely that she was close to, or over the legal limit for driving at some point during the meal or during the next hour after, i.e. during her drive. I did offer to drive her or to pay for a cab. She declined.
Now here's the thing, her tentative plan for after dinner, which I learned of over dinner conversation, included attending an A.A. meeting.