Congratulations to those who supported Trump. What an amazing upset, truly stunning and historic.
I owe many of you an apology for being snarky and condescending in political threads over the past year. Politics was never a main interest of mine in this forum and I avoided these threads for the most part. As events unfolded I became really passionate and incredulous over what was happening. I acted like a know-it-all, and I wasn't alone, and we obviously failed to recognize the strength and breadth of this movement or whatever the #### it is that has just happened. I hope with every fiber of my being that president Trump is not the disaster that many would expect based on past evidence. But regardless of how I feel on that subject, the things I've said to some of you in here are inexcusable and do not reflect the person I want to be. For that I hope you will accept my apologies.
I am recovering from a health issue that is potentially serious if I don't keep my stress in check, and will be taking steps to take better care of myself. I'm also dealing with a wife who is a rape survivor from college and is in a mental state right now that concerns me and her family a great deal. I'm starting to feel overwhelmed and beaten down and it's feeling like a struggle just to keep breathing. The woman I fell in love with is funny, compassionate and level-headed, and she's now telling everyone in her (huge) family who supported Trump that she is disowning them, and insisting that we leave the country. In her words, our president-elect is the same person who assaulted her in college and she absolutely cannot live here under any circumstances. She is refusing to talk to a therapist about it and is close to quitting a very lucrative position so she can get on a flight to someplace else, I don't even think she knows where. Texts are blowing up from various family members and I have no idea what to tell them.
So to those of you gloating over this election and looking to rub my nose in it, enjoy the schadenfreude. Karma truly is a beeyotch (though I fully intend to whoop this and end up stronger for it in the end).