Grace Under Pressure
Footballguy
Be careful, we ended up with a daughter out of that 5th Anniversary deal.http://www.ritzcarlton.com/en/Properties/KapaluaMaui/Default.htm
going here next year for 7 days for my wife and my 5 year anniversary
Daughter's middle name is Makena, named after the beach where we tied the knot. Just down the road from the Four Seasons. There's a RC property there too, and a Marriott (Category 7, if you're planning to use points).
I prefer that side of the island personally. I've stayed at all of the above properties and the Hyatt Regency Kaanapali. For our 10th, I doubt we'll leave Wailea/Makena.
There's no wrong way to go, it depends on what you're looking for. My wife and I like to rent a pool cabana, have long dinners, wake up early and split time lounging at the beach and at the cabana. And make babies, apparently. That's about it for us, so take the above info from that perspective.