"If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yo (2 Viewers)

[No. 16]

You all underestimate No. 16!

 

[johnnycakes]

You all underestimate No. 16!

You remind me of Finless.

 

[skillz]

Have you even communicated with HI since you did the deed with her? Where does that stand?

 

[No. 16]

Have you even communicated with HI since you did the deed with her? Where does that stand?

Exchanged texts 2 days after and since then silence. The following week was Valentines week so I steered clear and then last week happened. So yah.

 

[No. 16]

VEGAS!!!!

 

[bonesman]

Non-DUI update:

So I worked today and cute nursing student was there. Low and behold she was assigned to follow me today! We chatted a lot today and I could definitely feel she was interested in me. In particular she asked how old I was and when I told her (we're the same age) she said something about how that is great because not many guys have their #### together at my age, etc. She also told me more about herself. She's 1/2 mexican, 1/2 russian and no kids! There were several times where I was "teaching" her how to do certain nursing skills and our hands touched and she never pulled back. So I think all systems are a go, but because I WAS her preceptor today it didn't feel right hitting on her. So hopefully I work next Thursday, not as her preceptor, and I can give her my number then since it will be her last week. If not I'm prepared to go the Facebook route since I made sure today to mention her last name.

Haha. I thought the same thing in my head when she said that. If she only knew.

Pretty sure she'll pick up on that pretty quickly when your dad drops you off at the restaurant for your first date

I'll always be early! Set up dates in the City where I can take Bart and walk. Eventually I charm her enough to not care about my temporary inability to drive.

Your inability to drive is only temporary? I thought I read somewhere that you were Asian... Guess not.

 

[Controller]

Your inability to drive is only temporary? I thought I read somewhere that you were Asian... Guess not.

 

[IvanKaramazov]

Your inability to drive is only temporary? I thought I read somewhere that you were Asian... Guess not.

 

[Dr. Awesome]

Gonna look at this Vegas trip as a way to begin learning how to control myself with the alky. If I can control myself in Vegas and remember everything then I'll be happy.

Yes, that's exactly why people go to Vegas.

 

[offdee]

VEGAS!!!!

Now imagine the guy in the backseat was driving (and a cop would soon be pulling them over)

 

[Zow]

Might also want to make sure you don't have a bond condition that says you can't leave the state of California while on bond before you decide on Vegas.

Really? How do I find out?

Here they generally give you some paperwork when you're released from jail that among other things lists conditions of bond. The judge then usually points them out to you again at your arraignment. I have no idea how they handle that sort of thing in California. If you aren't able to consult with an attorney before you have to decide on your trip then you can probably find out by calling the court. If you do call, make sure you're as nice as can be to the clerk. I swear, they're the most important employees in a courthouse. They can't give you legal advice so don't ask them that kind of stuff, but it's okay to ask them if you have any bond conditions. As someone pointed out above, DUI laws are very much state specific and I'm not sure of the law/procedure in California. You should definitely consult with a local attorney though, especially if you're concerned about your nursing license. There's a lot to be said for having someone representing you who knows his or her way around that particular courthouse/prosecutor/judge.Good luck to you man. You seem like you've mostly got your stuff together. I'm sure you'll come out of this ok.

I was held in cite and release. So I never posted bail. Do I still have a bond on me?

Likely no, but there may still be release conditions restricting your travel.

 

[The Hank]

Might also want to make sure you don't have a bond condition that says you can't leave the state of California while on bond before you decide on Vegas.

Really? How do I find out?

Here they generally give you some paperwork when you're released from jail that among other things lists conditions of bond. The judge then usually points them out to you again at your arraignment. I have no idea how they handle that sort of thing in California. If you aren't able to consult with an attorney before you have to decide on your trip then you can probably find out by calling the court. If you do call, make sure you're as nice as can be to the clerk. I swear, they're the most important employees in a courthouse. They can't give you legal advice so don't ask them that kind of stuff, but it's okay to ask them if you have any bond conditions. As someone pointed out above, DUI laws are very much state specific and I'm not sure of the law/procedure in California. You should definitely consult with a local attorney though, especially if you're concerned about your nursing license. There's a lot to be said for having someone representing you who knows his or her way around that particular courthouse/prosecutor/judge.Good luck to you man. You seem like you've mostly got your stuff together. I'm sure you'll come out of this ok.

I was held in cite and release. So I never posted bail. Do I still have a bond on me?

Likely no, but there may still be release conditions restricting your travel.

Too late!

 

[Ned]

Your inability to drive is only temporary? I thought I read somewhere that you were Asian... Guess not.

 

[Ned]

Gonna look at this Vegas trip as a way to begin learning how to control myself with the alky. If I can control myself in Vegas and remember everything then I'll be happy.

Yes, that's exactly why people go to Vegas.

What a terrible decision this is. I'm having a hard time believing the parents really signed off on this.

 

[gianmarco]

Your inability to drive is only temporary? I thought I read somewhere that you were Asian... Guess not.

 

[johnnycakes]

Non-DUI update:

So I worked today and cute nursing student was there. Low and behold she was assigned to follow me today! We chatted a lot today and I could definitely feel she was interested in me. In particular she asked how old I was and when I told her (we're the same age) she said something about how that is great because not many guys have their #### together at my age, etc. She also told me more about herself. She's 1/2 mexican, 1/2 russian and no kids! There were several times where I was "teaching" her how to do certain nursing skills and our hands touched and she never pulled back. So I think all systems are a go, but because I WAS her preceptor today it didn't feel right hitting on her. So hopefully I work next Thursday, not as her preceptor, and I can give her my number then since it will be her last week. If not I'm prepared to go the Facebook route since I made sure today to mention her last name.

Haha. I thought the same thing in my head when she said that. If she only knew.

Pretty sure she'll pick up on that pretty quickly when your dad drops you off at the restaurant for your first date

I'll always be early! Set up dates in the City where I can take Bart and walk. Eventually I charm her enough to not care about my temporary inability to drive.

Better to tell her you're an environmental nut and refuse to drive.

 

[No. 16]

First craps table up $500! Free bottle service for tonight and tomorrow!

 

[UniAlias]

Starting to think we're being at this point.

 

[Sea Duck]

Starting to think we're being at this point.

Start hiding taxis.

 

[valhallan]

Starting to think we're being at this point.

Nah, he's a professional dependent.

 

[DA RAIDERS]

First craps table up $500! Free bottle service for tonight and tomorrow!

Bottled water?Forgot you're asian , 1 bottle should last you guys 2 days.

 

[Man In The Box]

Your inability to drive is only temporary? I thought I read somewhere that you were Asian... Guess not.

HFS

 

[No. 16]

Good night. Won another 400 in 30 minutes at the craps table before we entered Surrender. However, I lost 300 inside Surrender but still up $600 after 3 sessions at the craps table.

The ratio at Surrender was amazing. First time there and while it doesn't compare to XS, I like it more than Tryst. Got major cockblocked on the 2 girls I was working on the whole night.

The first was a fine ### 21 year old white/black/filipino chick. We had been dancing most of the night and I know she was down to go to my room, but then her family (3 guy cousins and their GF) picked her up and they left.

After the wbf chick left, I started working on a Mexican chick named Daisy. She was grinding me so good I got wood on the dance floor. It was getting late so I asked her if she wanted go to room and she was down. We head over to the taxis outside and right when we step outside her party is in the very first taxi. They see her, call her name, and away she goes.

After that we head to Artisan and stay there until 530ish. Nice little after hours spot. No cover and less ghetto than Drais.

 

[STEADYMOBBIN 22]

I'm still in 16's corner.

 

[No. 16]

Wheelchair.

Yesterday lost another $400 so only up $200 for the weekend.

Went to Marquee last night and we got botltle service again. Last thing I remember is buying an Asian Taylor Swift a shot of Jameson at the bar after talking/dancing with her for an hour (she's from Nor Ca and we exchanged numbersl). After that we bought another handle of Grey Goose in addition to the first handle and 750ml patron so I was taking shots from there. Then my friend and I got kicked out at 130 for being to drunk (got to Marquee at 10).

I'm at the airport and still feeling buzzed. I need to stop drinking. I mean it was fun as ####, but disappointed I got so drunk I had to get wheelchaired from the taxi to the hotel room. FML.

No shots for me. I really can't control myself.

 

[Maude]

All this actually helps me vent and get some support. My friends and family have been there for me, but hearing things from a different point of view always helps. For the most part everyone in this thread has been supportive and offering non-shtick answers. Don't see what is wrong with the thread: I get support and the FFA gets a decent thread to follow along. Works both ways.

I'll decide to tomorrow about Vegas. I talked to my parents and they are fine with it. They understand if I need a little "relaxation" during this time since they know once I come back I'll get to business. Their only concern is going "overboard" with my drinking, but I intend to have a good time and limit myself. If I can do it in Vegas, I can do it anywhere. If I go I'm definitely coming back Sunday morning to rest up and hit the road on Monday. Regarding if it will affect my job. Well only my co-worker/friend who went to the party with me knows. He won't say a word. So as of now no one knows I have a DUI. However, everyone at work knows my GF of 7 years broke up with me and that I'm going to Vegas this weekend so.... yah. Don't see how it will affect my work as the "DUI" talk shouldn't surface for weeks or months from now if at all.

I had work today, so it is hard to contact lawyers about a DUI offense at work. During my break time, I just researched more lawyers. When I got home from work and after crossfit, I sent out some "online consults" to a few law offices. I hope to hear from them tomorrow. Work tomorrow complicates things, but at least the lines of communication are open and I can talk after work for the few hours that the offices are open. If the lawyers can only meet Friday... then no Vegas trip. If they can meet Monday, then I'll go. It's the weekend... I won't be able to contact the union reps and many law offices are closed Saturday and Sunday. So no harm in going for the weekend if I can get the ball rolling on Monday.

Congratulations on successfully limiting yourself.

 

[No. 16]

All this actually helps me vent and get some support. My friends and family have been there for me, but hearing things from a different point of view always helps. For the most part everyone in this thread has been supportive and offering non-shtick answers. Don't see what is wrong with the thread: I get support and the FFA gets a decent thread to follow along. Works both ways.

I'll decide to tomorrow about Vegas. I talked to my parents and they are fine with it. They understand if I need a little "relaxation" during this time since they know once I come back I'll get to business. Their only concern is going "overboard" with my drinking, but I intend to have a good time and limit myself. If I can do it in Vegas, I can do it anywhere. If I go I'm definitely coming back Sunday morning to rest up and hit the road on Monday. Regarding if it will affect my job. Well only my co-worker/friend who went to the party with me knows. He won't say a word. So as of now no one knows I have a DUI. However, everyone at work knows my GF of 7 years broke up with me and that I'm going to Vegas this weekend so.... yah. Don't see how it will affect my work as the "DUI" talk shouldn't surface for weeks or months from now if at all.

I had work today, so it is hard to contact lawyers about a DUI offense at work. During my break time, I just researched more lawyers. When I got home from work and after crossfit, I sent out some "online consults" to a few law offices. I hope to hear from them tomorrow. Work tomorrow complicates things, but at least the lines of communication are open and I can talk after work for the few hours that the offices are open. If the lawyers can only meet Friday... then no Vegas trip. If they can meet Monday, then I'll go. It's the weekend... I won't be able to contact the union reps and many law offices are closed Saturday and Sunday. So no harm in going for the weekend if I can get the ball rolling on Monday.

Congratulations on successfully limiting yourself.

Thanks.Never been more dissapointed leaving Vegas. Fun weekend, but I really can't control myself. ####.

 

[Sea Duck]

Gonna look at this Vegas trip as a way to begin learning how to control myself with the alky.

You can't control yourself when it comes to alcohol. Alcohol controls you.

 

[Steve Tasker]

I need to stop drinking.

 

[DA RAIDERS]

Wheelchair.Yesterday lost another $400 so only up $200 for the weekend.Went to Marquee last night and we got botltle service again. Last thing I remember is buying an Asian Taylor Swift a shot of Jameson at the bar after talking/dancing with her for an hour (she's from Nor Ca and we exchanged numbersl). After that we bought another handle of Grey Goose in addition to the first handle and 750ml patron so I was taking shots from there. Then my friend and I got kicked out at 130 for being to drunk (got to Marquee at 10). I'm at the airport and still feeling buzzed. I need to stop drinking. I mean it was fun as ####, but disappointed I got so drunk I had to get wheelchaired from the taxi to the hotel room. FML.No shots for me. I really can't control myself.

Wheelchair?? I have drank way way way too much many many many times and have never not been able to walk. I've fallen down a time or two, but a wheelchair? WTF has happened to the next generation?

 

[Otis]

This thread worth reading?

 

[No. 16]

Wheelchair.Yesterday lost another $400 so only up $200 for the weekend.Went to Marquee last night and we got botltle service again. Last thing I remember is buying an Asian Taylor Swift a shot of Jameson at the bar after talking/dancing with her for an hour (she's from Nor Ca and we exchanged numbersl). After that we bought another handle of Grey Goose in addition to the first handle and 750ml patron so I was taking shots from there. Then my friend and I got kicked out at 130 for being to drunk (got to Marquee at 10). I'm at the airport and still feeling buzzed. I need to stop drinking. I mean it was fun as ####, but disappointed I got so drunk I had to get wheelchaired from the taxi to the hotel room. FML.No shots for me. I really can't control myself.

Wheelchair?? I have drank way way way too much many many many times and have never not been able to walk. I've fallen down a time or two, but a wheelchair? WTF has happened to the next generation?

Seriously. I'm ####in terrible. I don't remember being in a wheelchair, but after my friend showed me the video I feel ####in terrible.No more hard liquor.

 

[DA RAIDERS]

Wheelchair.

Yesterday lost another $400 so only up $200 for the weekend.

Went to Marquee last night and we got botltle service again. Last thing I remember is buying an Asian Taylor Swift a shot of Jameson at the bar after talking/dancing with her for an hour (she's from Nor Ca and we exchanged numbersl). After that we bought another handle of Grey Goose in addition to the first handle and 750ml patron so I was taking shots from there. Then my friend and I got kicked out at 130 for being to drunk (got to Marquee at 10).

I'm at the airport and still feeling buzzed. I need to stop drinking. I mean it was fun as ####, but disappointed I got so drunk I had to get wheelchaired from the taxi to the hotel room. FML.

No shots for me. I really can't control myself.

Who the #### is paying for this bottle service? If I read your post correctly, that's 3 bottles at marquee, which should run around $1200. Minimum. You might want to add math to things you struggle with.

And please provide an example of an asain Taylor swift. I can't wrap my head around that.

 

[DA RAIDERS]

Wheelchair.Yesterday lost another $400 so only up $200 for the weekend.Went to Marquee last night and we got botltle service again. Last thing I remember is buying an Asian Taylor Swift a shot of Jameson at the bar after talking/dancing with her for an hour (she's from Nor Ca and we exchanged numbersl). After that we bought another handle of Grey Goose in addition to the first handle and 750ml patron so I was taking shots from there. Then my friend and I got kicked out at 130 for being to drunk (got to Marquee at 10). I'm at the airport and still feeling buzzed. I need to stop drinking. I mean it was fun as ####, but disappointed I got so drunk I had to get wheelchaired from the taxi to the hotel room. FML.No shots for me. I really can't control myself.

Wheelchair?? I have drank way way way too much many many many times and have never not been able to walk. I've fallen down a time or two, but a wheelchair? WTF has happened to the next generation?

Seriously. I'm ####in terrible. I don't remember being in a wheelchair, but after my friend showed me the video I feel ####in terrible.No more hard liquor.

There's video!!! you must post this! That would be very therapeutic, cleansing so to speak. Make it happen.

 

[No. 16]

Wheelchair.

Yesterday lost another $400 so only up $200 for the weekend.

Went to Marquee last night and we got botltle service again. Last thing I remember is buying an Asian Taylor Swift a shot of Jameson at the bar after talking/dancing with her for an hour (she's from Nor Ca and we exchanged numbersl). After that we bought another handle of Grey Goose in addition to the first handle and 750ml patron so I was taking shots from there. Then my friend and I got kicked out at 130 for being to drunk (got to Marquee at 10).

I'm at the airport and still feeling buzzed. I need to stop drinking. I mean it was fun as ####, but disappointed I got so drunk I had to get wheelchaired from the taxi to the hotel room. FML.

No shots for me. I really can't control myself.

Who the #### is paying for this bottle service? If I read your post correctly, that's 3 bottles at marquee, which should run around $1200. Minimum. You might want to add math to things you struggle with.

And please provide an example of an asain Taylor swift. I can't wrap my head around that.

$3400 was our tab between 7 guys.Just think of Taylor Swift with jet black hair and a short hair cut. ####in gorgeous. Too bad I got too drunk to seal the deal.

 

[No. 16]

I hate flying Virgin.

I'm stuck between 2 heffers in Main Cabin Select.

There's a few hot chicks but with this pre-selected seating I have no chance.

Southwest is the way to go.

 

[GreatLakesMike]

Yeah, my cousin always said no more hard liquor as well. Then, after 2 or 3 beers, it was time for a shot. 3 DUI's, 1 possession of drugs, 1 public indecency (urinating), 1 fleeing charge, and about a decade of wasted life later, he's a changed man.

You're a smart guy and in the health care field, so I'm not here to lecture you on the dangers of alcoholism, but please, please, please.... DO NOT BE ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE WHO NEEDS A BABYSITTER. You ruin the entire night for everyone.

ETA: To be clear 16, I'm not saying you can't stop drinking hard liquor; I quit over a decade ago and don't miss it. It's a nice high, but it's a bit too much adrenaline, for lack of a better word, for my tastes. I like the micros.... great taste, great relaxed buzz, and you can't shotgun them like a Bud light.

 

[DA RAIDERS]

I hate flying Virgin.I'm stuck between 2 heffers in Main Cabin Select.There's a few hot chicks but with this pre-selected seating I have no chance. Southwest is the way to go.

Atta boy! So ####### hungover you can barely function and still thinking about poon. And, oof! $500 bones on booze? That's reason enough to lay off

 

[Sea Duck]

Who the #### is paying for this bottle service? If I read your post correctly, that's 3 bottles at marquee, which should run around $1200. Minimum. You might want to add math to things you struggle with.

He's really ruining the stereotype here.

 

[shadyridr]

This is awesome.

watching a good kid's life self destruct before our eyes is awesome?

 

[bushdocda]

I applaud the use of 'wheelchaired' to start a post.

 

[Maude]

This thread worth reading?

Only if want to start ragging on a dumped asian male nurse alcoholic burnout waiting on a DUI charge. Lotta worthwhile stuff goin on in here.

 

[No. 16]

Who the #### is paying for this bottle service? If I read your post correctly, that's 3 bottles at marquee, which should run around $1200. Minimum. You might want to add math to things you struggle with.

He's really ruining the stereotype here.

What stereotype?

 

[Maude]

Who the #### is paying for this bottle service? If I read your post correctly, that's 3 bottles at marquee, which should run around $1200. Minimum. You might want to add math to things you struggle with.

He's really ruining the stereotype here.

What stereotype?

Hope you have a small penis to keep things in check.

 

[No. 16]

Who the #### is paying for this bottle service? If I read your post correctly, that's 3 bottles at marquee, which should run around $1200. Minimum. You might want to add math to things you struggle with.

He's really ruining the stereotype here.

What stereotype?

Hope you have a small penis to keep things in check.

Check.Damn sitting at the airport waiting for my brother to pick me up. Lots of time to think. Just so crazy how 2 months ago I was the happiest guy you could meet and now it's all a show. Life. I need to take control again. Alcohol is a problem. Can't deny it any longer. Holy crap I drank a lot. Even after a nap on the plane still a bit buzzed. Not as much as earlier but it's there.

 

[identikit]

Who the #### is paying for this bottle service? If I read your post correctly, that's 3 bottles at marquee, which should run around $1200. Minimum. You might want to add math to things you struggle with.

He's really ruining the stereotype here.

What stereotype?

Hope you have a small penis to keep things in check.

Check.Damn sitting at the airport waiting for my brother to pick me up. Lots of time to think.

Just so crazy how 2 months ago I was the happiest guy you could meet and now it's all a show. Life.

I need to take control again. Alcohol is a problem. Can't deny it any longer. Holy crap I drank a lot. Even after a nap on the plane still a bit buzzed. Not as much as earlier but it's there.

You keep saying this.About time you did it.

 

[Otis]

This thread worth reading?

Only if want to start ragging on a dumped asian male nurse alcoholic burnout waiting on a DUI charge. Lotta worthwhile stuff goin on in here.

?

 

[simmonjm]

Check.

Damn sitting at the airport waiting for my brother to pick me up. Lots of time to think.

Just so crazy how 2 months ago I was the happiest guy you could meet and now it's all a show. Life.

I need to take control again. Alcohol is a problem. Can't deny it any longer. Holy crap I drank a lot. Even after a nap on the plane still a bit buzzed. Not as much as earlier but it's there.

Your feeling guily because your hungover and feel like ###. Tommorow morning when you wake feeling normal this whole alcohol is a problem thing will go away or at least feel less important.

 

[cstu]

Who the #### is paying for this bottle service? If I read your post correctly, that's 3 bottles at marquee, which should run around $1200. Minimum. You might want to add math to things you struggle with.

He's really ruining the stereotype here.

What stereotype?

Hope you have a small penis to keep things in check.

Check.Damn sitting at the airport waiting for my brother to pick me up. Lots of time to think.

Just so crazy how 2 months ago I was the happiest guy you could meet and now it's all a show. Life.

I need to take control again. Alcohol is a problem. Can't deny it any longer. Holy crap I drank a lot. Even after a nap on the plane still a bit buzzed. Not as much as earlier but it's there.

You keep saying this.About time you did it.

C'mon, just one more bender to get it all out of his system.

 

[cstu]

I hate flying Virgin.

I'm stuck between 2 heffers in Main Cabin Select.

There's a few hot chicks but with this pre-selected seating I have no chance.

Southwest is the way to go.

Obviously not for hot chicks.