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[No. 16]

I'm now really done.

Greatest post in the thread.

Pffft... A bunch of tripe if you ask me.

Tells 16 he shouldn't be judging people (when he wasn't, he was merely observing) and then proceeds to judge 16 himself. And he's WAY off base on his judgments/assumptions about 16.

Then he even has the nerve to insinuate that 16 should in someway be open to getting back w/ his ex?!? HUH?!?

Glad someone gets what I was doing. I appreciate LongDuckDong's response and I am certainly synthesizing what he said, but I feel I have to clarify my thoughts on some of his points.

Before, we got to the car anticipating the midday California sun, I put on my tortoise Carrera sunglasses and Rusty, John, our friend AJ, and myself loaded into the car on our way to the wedding. There's no feeling like feeling like the best looking guy in a group. Rusty was a good looking guy, but his suit was ill fitting. John talked as if he knew how to dress his fat pudgy body, but in a suit he still looked fat and pudgy. AJ had the style down, but he didn't have the smoothness and confidence to pull it off without looking like he was trying too hard. They're my friends, I don't mean to put them down... but when she sees me next to these guys it would be hard not to look good.

Honestly, I think this is when, to use a wrestling term, you went from face to heel. Are these your friends? I will tell you that any "friend" I had who was happy to attend events with me because he'd look good standing next to me wouldn't be a friend thereafter. But I guess I'll leave my personal feelings out of it as much as I can and say that this statement reeks of a lack of self confidence in ways you have flirted with to this point but never reached.

I pray you read this a year from now and say "who the hell was that guy", because I can't even fathom this mindset. The girl you're still in love with will be happy to see you because you're attending it with people who aren't as good looking as you? What?

1) About my friend's appearance - I'm not friends with them only because they would make me look good. I've been friends with them since HS so that's so far from the truth. It just so happened that day, whether it was true or not, but to my observations, I looked the best and that's because I spent a godawful amount of time, energy, and attention to looking great because of the circumstances. Rusty is a good looking guy and has no problems getting ladies, even in his ill fitting suit he'd be able to get more chicks than me based on physical appearance. John irked me a bit because he was giving us "style" tips when we were changing, but when he put on his suit he looked the worst (fact). AJ was AJ. He was on point with his style, but it still just seemed a bit "off". He was one of the awkward ones in HS. I'm sure everyone knows what I mean. The point of that whole passage was just to show, yes.... I did think of every damn thing possible to make sure I looked good.

After about 30 minutes, I finally notice that coral dress at the cocktail hour sitting on a bench. She is sipping on champagne as well, but is in a smaller group with her old college friends, 3 of them to be exact. They look like they're enjoying themselves like friends would by the backyard grill, but it's no where near the level of the group that I am in, partying like we're at club.

Who thinks this? You're at a wedding and judging someone(who by the way you would have run up to that altar with and married as a supplement to the wedding) because the people they're talking to aren't partying as hard as you are? Christ almighty. 2) Like bones said... this wasn't a judgement, it was an observation. I was writing a narrative and just thought those were two good visuals of the different dynamics of the groups. People have fun in both environments. Hell, I'd actually prefer hanging out in the backyard grill with my friends over a club any day of the week. With that said, everyone has a mental image associated with those two settings and I think it described what was going on perfectly. If was conveyed as a judgement, then that's my fault and I need to choose my words more carefully.

Everything else you said, there's probably some truth to it or a thought that did cross my mind at one point. Not saying you are 100% correct, but I appreciate the advice.

Also for people remarking on the sudden change it writing style... I figured I'd give it a try. I like writing and honestly, I found the wedding evening to be pretty uneventful actually experiencing it. If my writing made it seem more dramatic... well then I accomplished what I set out to do. Tell the boring truth in as interesting way as possible.

I simply could have written.

I saw my ex at the wedding. She looked great. We had a bunch of awkward exchanges and she was actually annoying at one point, trying hard to get my attention. She even #### blocked me by getting a girl I was working on passed out drunk during dinner. So I danced the night away, tried hitting on the maid of honor (which failed), so I went back to dancing and just having a good time without trying to sex anyone.

Where this thread goes from here... I don't know.

 

[LongDuckDong]

Honestly 16, you don't have to synthesize anything I said.

I just think you're going to look back in a year and laugh. I can tell you're a good guy. There's just stuff that went through your description that was tough to read.

I do wish you well because it's obvious you're one of the good guys. Just still in a tough place.

 

[hutchins929]

Anyone who thinks back and can remember in detail what everyone was wearing is either 1... Gay, 2... Gay or 3... Straight, but really just Gay!

Not that there is anything wrong with being Gay but still... Gay!

 

[boots11234]

I miss the HI stories from this thread. Call her back and get this thread back on track.

 

[Evilgrin 72]

OK, phase 1 of getting your ex back is complete. You played this like a champ.

Now, let me know when you're REALLY ready to get down to business. :rubshandstogether:

 

[Buck Bradcanon]

Shoulda raped Alyssa

On what planet is this an acceptable comment? Come on.

 

[xulf]

No 16 - maybe its time to expirament with your sexuality? Try some new things (whips, chains, fatties) or even new genders (if youre into that...or even think you are). Time to find out who you are in this aspect.

 

[No. 16]

OK, phase 1 of getting your ex back is complete. You played this like a champ.Now, let me know when you're REALLY ready to get down to business. :rubshandstogether:

Not planning to but curious. This thread needs more EG.

 

[SteevieG]

Shoulda raped Alyssa

On what planet is this an acceptable comment? Come on.

However, it doesn't sound like he would have had to resort to that. I think she would have been willing. And he should have done it, taken pics, post:e:d them and really been done with her.

 

[tikitime]

I'm now really done.

Greatest post in the thread.

Pffft... A bunch of tripe if you ask me.

Tells 16 he shouldn't be judging people (when he wasn't, he was merely observing) and then proceeds to judge 16 himself. And he's WAY off base on his judgments/assumptions about 16.

Then he even has the nerve to insinuate that 16 should in someway be open to getting back w/ his ex?!? HUH?!?

Glad someone gets what I was doing. I appreciate LongDuckDong's response and I am certainly synthesizing what he said, but I feel I have to clarify my thoughts on some of his points.

Before, we got to the car anticipating the midday California sun, I put on my tortoise Carrera sunglasses and Rusty, John, our friend AJ, and myself loaded into the car on our way to the wedding. There's no feeling like feeling like the best looking guy in a group. Rusty was a good looking guy, but his suit was ill fitting. John talked as if he knew how to dress his fat pudgy body, but in a suit he still looked fat and pudgy. AJ had the style down, but he didn't have the smoothness and confidence to pull it off without looking like he was trying too hard. They're my friends, I don't mean to put them down... but when she sees me next to these guys it would be hard not to look good.

Honestly, I think this is when, to use a wrestling term, you went from face to heel. Are these your friends? I will tell you that any "friend" I had who was happy to attend events with me because he'd look good standing next to me wouldn't be a friend thereafter. But I guess I'll leave my personal feelings out of it as much as I can and say that this statement reeks of a lack of self confidence in ways you have flirted with to this point but never reached.

I pray you read this a year from now and say "who the hell was that guy", because I can't even fathom this mindset. The girl you're still in love with will be happy to see you because you're attending it with people who aren't as good looking as you? What?

1) About my friend's appearance - I'm not friends with them only because they would make me look good. I've been friends with them since HS so that's so far from the truth. It just so happened that day, whether it was true or not, but to my observations, I looked the best and that's because I spent a godawful amount of time, energy, and attention to looking great because of the circumstances. Rusty is a good looking guy and has no problems getting ladies, even in his ill fitting suit he'd be able to get more chicks than me based on physical appearance. John irked me a bit because he was giving us "style" tips when we were changing, but when he put on his suit he looked the worst (fact). AJ was AJ. He was on point with his style, but it still just seemed a bit "off". He was one of the awkward ones in HS. I'm sure everyone knows what I mean. The point of that whole passage was just to show, yes.... I did think of every damn thing possible to make sure I looked good.

After about 30 minutes, I finally notice that coral dress at the cocktail hour sitting on a bench. She is sipping on champagne as well, but is in a smaller group with her old college friends, 3 of them to be exact. They look like they're enjoying themselves like friends would by the backyard grill, but it's no where near the level of the group that I am in, partying like we're at club.

Who thinks this? You're at a wedding and judging someone(who by the way you would have run up to that altar with and married as a supplement to the wedding) because the people they're talking to aren't partying as hard as you are? Christ almighty. 2) Like bones said... this wasn't a judgement, it was an observation. I was writing a narrative and just thought those were two good visuals of the different dynamics of the groups. People have fun in both environments. Hell, I'd actually prefer hanging out in the backyard grill with my friends over a club any day of the week. With that said, everyone has a mental image associated with those two settings and I think it described what was going on perfectly. If was conveyed as a judgement, then that's my fault and I need to choose my words more carefully.

Everything else you said, there's probably some truth to it or a thought that did cross my mind at one point. Not saying you are 100% correct, but I appreciate the advice.

Also for people remarking on the sudden change it writing style... I figured I'd give it a try. I like writing and honestly, I found the wedding evening to be pretty uneventful actually experiencing it. If my writing made it seem more dramatic... well then I accomplished what I set out to do. Tell the boring truth in as interesting way as possible.

I simply could have written.

I saw my ex at the wedding. She looked great. We had a bunch of awkward exchanges and she was actually annoying at one point, trying hard to get my attention. She even #### blocked me by getting a girl I was working on passed out drunk during dinner. So I danced the night away, tried hitting on the maid of honor (which failed), so I went back to dancing and just having a good time without trying to sex anyone.

Where this thread goes from here... I don't know.

What exactly was the benefit of dragging this out over three or four posts? I feel no more enlightened by your romance novel posts than I would by the above 5 sentences.

 

[Evilgrin 72]

OK, phase 1 of getting your ex back is complete. You played this like a champ.Now, let me know when you're REALLY ready to get down to business. :rubshandstogether:

Not planning to but curious. This thread needs more EG.

Give her the rest of this week to reach out to you via text/e-mail. If it doesn't happen, then we need to take action ourselves. Keep me posted.

 

[Slider6]

No 16s new girl is named molly. She's a ##### to get over too.

4 mollies after boozing for 6 hours is not an amatuer move. At least the self grat is more interesting with her.

Actually, it's definitely an amateur move. Professionals know how to not flirt with death when dying isn't on their wish list.

I stopped drinking around 2100. Didn't really have much at the reception. I believe I had: 2 glases of wine and 2 jameson and ginger ales from 1730-2100.Stopped drinking alky when I decided to take the mollies. I took 2 mollies around 2100... didn't feel much of a kick after waiting an hour plus so I took the other two.

Dude, so you are now stooping to taking E to have a good time at one of your best friend's wedding reception? I certainly hope you are embellishing your story for our entertainment.I did my share of #### when I was your age, but breaking out the hardcore drugs at my best friend's wedding was certainly not cool. So you were just rolling balls in the middle of all his extended family at the wedding reception? Sure he appreciated that.At least, that is what 'mollie' was back in the late 90s, unless it has changed in the past 10-15 years? MDMA powder...

At what point did rolling balls at a wedding reception sound like a good idea?

 

[Evilgrin 72]

No 16s new girl is named molly. She's a ##### to get over too.

4 mollies after boozing for 6 hours is not an amatuer move. At least the self grat is more interesting with her.

Actually, it's definitely an amateur move. Professionals know how to not flirt with death when dying isn't on their wish list.

I stopped drinking around 2100. Didn't really have much at the reception. I believe I had: 2 glases of wine and 2 jameson and ginger ales from 1730-2100.Stopped drinking alky when I decided to take the mollies. I took 2 mollies around 2100... didn't feel much of a kick after waiting an hour plus so I took the other two.

Dude, so you are now stooping to taking E to have a good time at one of your best friend's wedding reception? I certainly hope you are embellishing your story for our entertainment.I did my share of #### when I was your age, but breaking out the hardcore drugs at my best friend's wedding was certainly not cool. So you were just rolling balls in the middle of all his extended family at the wedding reception? Sure he appreciated that.At least, that is what 'mollie' was back in the late 90s, unless it has changed in the past 10-15 years? MDMA powder...

At what point did rolling balls at a wedding reception sound like a good idea?

What makes it a bad idea?You guys need to lay off No. 16 a little bit here. Guy's just partying, exactly what he should be doing right now.

 

[Aaron Rudnicki]

rolling at a wedding can be fun.

 

[Evilgrin 72]

rolling at a wedding can be fun.

People are too judgmental in here. If you want to give the guy advice on how to bag hogs, so be it, but let's not dissect every damn decision the guy makes, OK? Fastest way to ensure we get no more updates.

 

[DA RAIDERS]

rolling at a wedding can be fun.

People are too judgmental in here. If you want to give the guy advice on how to bag hogs, so be it, but let's not dissect every damn decision the guy makes, OK? Fastest way to ensure we get no more updates.

you're supposed to party at weddings.righetti down?

 

[Slider6]

No 16s new girl is named molly. She's a ##### to get over too.

4 mollies after boozing for 6 hours is not an amatuer move. At least the self grat is more interesting with her.

Actually, it's definitely an amateur move. Professionals know how to not flirt with death when dying isn't on their wish list.

I stopped drinking around 2100. Didn't really have much at the reception. I believe I had: 2 glases of wine and 2 jameson and ginger ales from 1730-2100.Stopped drinking alky when I decided to take the mollies. I took 2 mollies around 2100... didn't feel much of a kick after waiting an hour plus so I took the other two.

Dude, so you are now stooping to taking E to have a good time at one of your best friend's wedding reception? I certainly hope you are embellishing your story for our entertainment.I did my share of #### when I was your age, but breaking out the hardcore drugs at my best friend's wedding was certainly not cool. So you were just rolling balls in the middle of all his extended family at the wedding reception? Sure he appreciated that.

At least, that is what 'mollie' was back in the late 90s, unless it has changed in the past 10-15 years? MDMA powder...

At what point did rolling balls at a wedding reception sound like a good idea?

What makes it a bad idea?You guys need to lay off No. 16 a little bit here. Guy's just partying, exactly what he should be doing right now.

If he's told us every time he's rolled, then this was his 3rd time and it sounds like he doubled his dosage from EDC. So, there is a good chance that everyone could tell he was on something and being "that guy" at a wedding reception just seems very disrespectful to me. My linkPlus, wedding receptions aren't as "crackin" as clubs are and they generally shut it down 2-3 hours earlier as well. Popping 4 pills at 9-10 when going to a club means you should have a great time and probably still be rolling when the lights come on. But popping 4 pills at 9-10 at a wedding reception means you probably won't start rolling until an hour or so before the lights come on.

 

[bonesman]

I simply could have written.I saw my ex at the wedding. She looked great. We had a bunch of awkward exchanges and she was actually annoying at one point, trying hard to get my attention. She even #### blocked me by getting a girl I was working on passed out drunk during dinner. So I danced the night away, tried hitting on the maid of honor (which failed), so I went back to dancing and just having a good time without trying to sex anyone.

That would have sufficed. Save the long narrative and TBC's for when something EPIC happens and there's a big pay off for all the reading.

 

[No. 16]

No 16s new girl is named molly. She's a ##### to get over too.

4 mollies after boozing for 6 hours is not an amatuer move. At least the self grat is more interesting with her.

Actually, it's definitely an amateur move. Professionals know how to not flirt with death when dying isn't on their wish list.

I stopped drinking around 2100. Didn't really have much at the reception. I believe I had: 2 glases of wine and 2 jameson and ginger ales from 1730-2100.Stopped drinking alky when I decided to take the mollies. I took 2 mollies around 2100... didn't feel much of a kick after waiting an hour plus so I took the other two.

Dude, so you are now stooping to taking E to have a good time at one of your best friend's wedding reception? I certainly hope you are embellishing your story for our entertainment.I did my share of #### when I was your age, but breaking out the hardcore drugs at my best friend's wedding was certainly not cool. So you were just rolling balls in the middle of all his extended family at the wedding reception? Sure he appreciated that.

At least, that is what 'mollie' was back in the late 90s, unless it has changed in the past 10-15 years? MDMA powder...

At what point did rolling balls at a wedding reception sound like a good idea?

What makes it a bad idea?You guys need to lay off No. 16 a little bit here. Guy's just partying, exactly what he should be doing right now.

If he's told us every time he's rolled, then this was his 3rd time and it sounds like he doubled his dosage from EDC. So, there is a good chance that everyone could tell he was on something and being "that guy" at a wedding reception just seems very disrespectful to me. My linkPlus, wedding receptions aren't as "crackin" as clubs are and they generally shut it down 2-3 hours earlier as well. Popping 4 pills at 9-10 when going to a club means you should have a great time and probably still be rolling when the lights come on. But popping 4 pills at 9-10 at a wedding reception means you probably won't start rolling until an hour or so before the lights come on.

So which one is it? Was I "that guy" or did I pop too late? FWIW, I handled myself pretty well. Far from being "that guy." No one even knew I was rolling until I mentioned it back at the hotel when no one wanted to party anymore.

 

[No. 16]

No 16s new girl is named molly. She's a ##### to get over too.

4 mollies after boozing for 6 hours is not an amatuer move. At least the self grat is more interesting with her.

Actually, it's definitely an amateur move. Professionals know how to not flirt with death when dying isn't on their wish list.

I stopped drinking around 2100. Didn't really have much at the reception. I believe I had: 2 glases of wine and 2 jameson and ginger ales from 1730-2100.Stopped drinking alky when I decided to take the mollies. I took 2 mollies around 2100... didn't feel much of a kick after waiting an hour plus so I took the other two.

Dude, so you are now stooping to taking E to have a good time at one of your best friend's wedding reception? I certainly hope you are embellishing your story for our entertainment.I did my share of #### when I was your age, but breaking out the hardcore drugs at my best friend's wedding was certainly not cool. So you were just rolling balls in the middle of all his extended family at the wedding reception? Sure he appreciated that.At least, that is what 'mollie' was back in the late 90s, unless it has changed in the past 10-15 years? MDMA powder...

At what point did rolling balls at a wedding reception sound like a good idea?

No different than the people who decide to get super drunk at weddings.

 

[chidoy]

No different than the people who decide to get super drunk at weddings.

..... "But alcohol is legal".....

 

[gandalas]

No 16s new girl is named molly. She's a ##### to get over too.

4 mollies after boozing for 6 hours is not an amatuer move. At least the self grat is more interesting with her.

Actually, it's definitely an amateur move. Professionals know how to not flirt with death when dying isn't on their wish list.

I stopped drinking around 2100. Didn't really have much at the reception. I believe I had: 2 glases of wine and 2 jameson and ginger ales from 1730-2100.Stopped drinking alky when I decided to take the mollies. I took 2 mollies around 2100... didn't feel much of a kick after waiting an hour plus so I took the other two.

Dude, so you are now stooping to taking E to have a good time at one of your best friend's wedding reception? I certainly hope you are embellishing your story for our entertainment.I did my share of #### when I was your age, but breaking out the hardcore drugs at my best friend's wedding was certainly not cool. So you were just rolling balls in the middle of all his extended family at the wedding reception? Sure he appreciated that.At least, that is what 'mollie' was back in the late 90s, unless it has changed in the past 10-15 years? MDMA powder...

At what point did rolling balls at a wedding reception sound like a good idea?

No different than the people who decide to get super drunk at weddings.

Psst...those guys are not exactly the example you should be striving for either. They are just as much dip####s as the guy taking pills. Now smoking a J out in the parking lot or whatever? That I can understand. But dropping some club drugs? Surely there is a better time and place for that...

 

[DA RAIDERS]

No 16s new girl is named molly. She's a ##### to get over too.

4 mollies after boozing for 6 hours is not an amatuer move. At least the self grat is more interesting with her.

Actually, it's definitely an amateur move. Professionals know how to not flirt with death when dying isn't on their wish list.

I stopped drinking around 2100. Didn't really have much at the reception. I believe I had: 2 glases of wine and 2 jameson and ginger ales from 1730-2100.Stopped drinking alky when I decided to take the mollies. I took 2 mollies around 2100... didn't feel much of a kick after waiting an hour plus so I took the other two.

Dude, so you are now stooping to taking E to have a good time at one of your best friend's wedding reception? I certainly hope you are embellishing your story for our entertainment.I did my share of #### when I was your age, but breaking out the hardcore drugs at my best friend's wedding was certainly not cool. So you were just rolling balls in the middle of all his extended family at the wedding reception? Sure he appreciated that.At least, that is what 'mollie' was back in the late 90s, unless it has changed in the past 10-15 years? MDMA powder...

At what point did rolling balls at a wedding reception sound like a good idea?

No different than the people who decide to get super drunk at weddings.

Psst...those guys are not exactly the example you should be striving for either. They are just as much dip####s as the guy taking pills. Now smoking a J out in the parking lot or whatever? That I can understand. But dropping some club drugs? Surely there is a better time and place for that...

That is so ####### hypocritical. Only do the illegal drugs I approve of....

 

[No. 16]

You guys will love this update.

So today after I work I see a text message on my phone from a number not in my contact list. This is what it read:

"Hey No. 16.

My sister introduce PT to us and my mom and dad at the kids bday party so let me know if you still want to talk to my mom and dad ok..."

I fired back a text that saying that I would appreciate the opportunity and for them to give me a call today whenever they get off work. Just plan on keeping it simple and thanking them for everything.

Don't really know where my head is at with this. I just know it sucks and has put a little damper in my day. I honestly meant it when I said I don't want to get back with her, but in the back of my mind I always felt since she had yet to introduce this guy to her family she still had feelings for me or couldn't decide what she wanted.... that I was still better. Maybe my actions at the wedding finally forced her hand, maybe it didn't. Doesn't matter much. It hurts a bit, not much, but it just brings up feelings.

It sucks, but at the same time I am a bit relieved. Now I know she has moved on and while I am doing the same and tried to approach my life that way, I always felt there was a chance she would try and get back with me and that scared the #### out of me. I didn't want to take her back and be "that guy", be the "fall back plan", but I knew in my current state it would be a strong possibility if that scenario played out.

Can't wait until I feel indifferent about anything to do with her. I don't want to be happy or sad in regards to her.... just not feel a damn thing if that makes any sense.

 

[GreatLakesMike]

Rant coming... sorry, things like this are a pet peeve of mine.

I'm with Slider on this..... Dropping E at a wedding is disrespectful.

First, a lot of people knew you were on something so I'm not sure why you keep saying that they didn't. People aren't stupid. You sound like a drug addict when you say #### like that.

Second, many people spend a considerable amount of time and effort trying to put forth the best wedding possible for their loved ones. Seeing a kid on something and acting like a ##### probably made a few nervous and ruined their night.

Third, this day wasn't about you. It was about the bride, the groom, and their families. IMO, waiting a few hours to drop a bunch of E is not too much to ask.

Sorry, but a wedding is one of the most important days of a person's life and 16 basically said "#### it, I'm dropping a bunch of E and playing games." He had no consideration for anyone involved. If he doesn't give a #### about the bride and groom, then don't go in the first place.

Rant over. To each their own.

ETA: And no, I don't think smoking pot at a wedding is acceptable either. No drugs are acceptable unless the bride and groom are leading the way.

 

[JFT Ben]

"Hey No. 16.My sister introduce PT to us and my mom and dad at the kids bday party so let me know if you still want to talk to my mom and dad ok..."

What means this? I don't think that's even engrish.

 

[Slapdash]

WTF

 

[identikit]

"Hey No. 16.My sister introduce PT to us and my mom and dad at the kids bday party so let me know if you still want to talk to my mom and dad ok..."

What means this? I don't think that's even engrish.

 

[Aaron Rudnicki]

lol... love the guys who turned this into a "legalize drugs" moment. Alcohol is legal and socially acceptable at most events/functions. When drugs are legal and socially acceptable, then you guys have at it. Until then, I don't think it's too much to ask to conform to the bride and groom's wishes for a few hours.

I guess we didn't realize you were at the same wedding and obviously tight with the happy couple.

 

[IvanKaramazov]

"Hey No. 16.My sister introduce PT to us and my mom and dad at the kids bday party so let me know if you still want to talk to my mom and dad ok..."

What means this? I don't think that's even engrish.

The ex's sister contacted 16 to let him know that the ex introduced the physical trainer to the family. She thinks that now might be a good time to reach out to the ex's parents, which 16 has wanted to do since the beginning of the thread for some unfathomable reason.

 

[Aaron Rudnicki]

"Hey No. 16.My sister introduce PT to us and my mom and dad at the kids bday party so let me know if you still want to talk to my mom and dad ok..."

What means this? I don't think that's even engrish.

took me like 6 times reading that to figure it out.the ex finally introduced her new boyfriend to the family and he told the ex's sister that he would still like to speak to the ex's parents.

 

[GreatLakesMike]

lol... love the guys who turned this into a "legalize drugs" moment. Alcohol is legal and socially acceptable at most events/functions. When drugs are legal and socially acceptable, then you guys have at it. Until then, I don't think it's too much to ask to conform to the bride and groom's wishes for a few hours.

I guess we didn't realize you were at the same wedding and obviously tight with the happy couple.

That's not my fault.

 

[gandalas]

No 16s new girl is named molly. She's a ##### to get over too.

4 mollies after boozing for 6 hours is not an amatuer move. At least the self grat is more interesting with her.

Actually, it's definitely an amateur move. Professionals know how to not flirt with death when dying isn't on their wish list.

I stopped drinking around 2100. Didn't really have much at the reception. I believe I had: 2 glases of wine and 2 jameson and ginger ales from 1730-2100.Stopped drinking alky when I decided to take the mollies. I took 2 mollies around 2100... didn't feel much of a kick after waiting an hour plus so I took the other two.

Dude, so you are now stooping to taking E to have a good time at one of your best friend's wedding reception? I certainly hope you are embellishing your story for our entertainment.I did my share of #### when I was your age, but breaking out the hardcore drugs at my best friend's wedding was certainly not cool. So you were just rolling balls in the middle of all his extended family at the wedding reception? Sure he appreciated that.At least, that is what 'mollie' was back in the late 90s, unless it has changed in the past 10-15 years? MDMA powder...

At what point did rolling balls at a wedding reception sound like a good idea?

No different than the people who decide to get super drunk at weddings.

Psst...those guys are not exactly the example you should be striving for either. They are just as much dip####s as the guy taking pills. Now smoking a J out in the parking lot or whatever? That I can understand. But dropping some club drugs? Surely there is a better time and place for that...

That is so ####### hypocritical. Only do the illegal drugs I approve of....

No, it is a matter of degrees. BIG difference between weed and E...sorry if you can't grasp that fact. I personally wouldn't do anything myself, but gotta remember, he is in California. Odds are, half the party had a medical prescription for Pot anyway.

 

[Aaron Rudnicki]

Some people can handle their drugs or booze better than others. Not sure why people assume anyone who does something they wouldn't do is out of control or easy to spot.

I doubt he pulled out glow sticks and blow pops on the dance floor.

 

[IvanKaramazov]

16 got owned here btw. All it took was this one move by the ex to undo whatever progress he made at the wedding (which wasn't much ).

 

[fatness]

lol... love the guys who turned this into a "legalize drugs" moment. Alcohol is legal and socially acceptable at most events/functions. When drugs are legal and socially acceptable, then you guys have at it. Until then, I don't think it's too much to ask to conform to the bride and groom's wishes for a few hours.

I guess we didn't realize you were at the same wedding and obviously tight with the happy couple.

That's not my fault.

So you were at the wedding?

 

[GreatLakesMike]

Some people can handle their drugs or booze better than others. Not sure why people assume anyone who does something they wouldn't do is out of control or easy to spot.I doubt he pulled out glow sticks and blow pops on the dance floor.

You're completely missing the point, again. I won't say anymore. To me, this is one of things you either get or you don't. You obviously don't get it. And for the record, it's pretty easy to spot someone on E.

 

[Aaron Rudnicki]

And for the record, it's pretty easy to spot someone on E.

depends on the person.

 

[bushdocda]

I think 16 brings it on the dance floor with or without amphetamines. And put me down for one in the eating drugs solo at a wedding is weird column.

I go the old fashioned way of drinking scotch until I get cut off. Classy baby.

 

[gandalas]

I think 16 brings it on the dance floor with or without amphetamines. And put me down for one in the eating drugs solo at a wedding is weird column.

I go the old fashioned way of drinking scotch until I get cut off. Classy baby.

MDMA <> Amphetamines. You are the 2nd person to type that, and I guess you may not know the difference? MDMA = touchy-feely cool with everyone want to get laid drug.

 

[bushdocda]

Also, unless there has been a significant upgrade in the E quality dept, that is some nasty stuff in there anymore.

 

[Maude]

I think 16 brings it on the dance floor with or without amphetamines. And put me down for one in the eating drugs solo at a wedding is weird column.

I go the old fashioned way of drinking scotch until I get cut off. Classy baby.

MDMA <> Amphetamines. You are the 2nd person to type that, and I guess you may not know the difference? MDMA = touchy-feely cool with everyone want to get laid drug.

X

 

[gandalas]

I think 16 brings it on the dance floor with or without amphetamines. And put me down for one in the eating drugs solo at a wedding is weird column.

I go the old fashioned way of drinking scotch until I get cut off. Classy baby.

MDMA <> Amphetamines. You are the 2nd person to type that, and I guess you may not know the difference? MDMA = touchy-feely cool with everyone want to get laid drug.

X

Holy crap, I guess you are right. Had no idea they classified it as an Amphetamine. Definitely a HUGE difference between that and crystal meth or something.

 

[bushdocda]

Knowing is half the battle.

 

[Gr00vus]

Can't wait until I feel indifferent about anything to do with her.

Neither can I.Please don't talk to her parents. I'm begging you. Don't have anything to do with her or anything about her anymore. Let the mutual friends know this as well. Also, you might want to take the gas off the pedal on the alcohol/drugs too - I'd hate for that to become your main coping mechanism. In moderation it's fine. Be aware of your mental state and when/why you're using, make sure it's a choice and not a dependency.On a somewhat hypocritical note, you need to get out there and have more (safe) sex. Take the advice of others and lower the standards for a bit to really break the slump, then tighten up the parameters. If you haven't yet, you should probably spend some time in the idating thread to get any tips you might need on how to work the internet for meaningless hookups.You need to build the confidence back up to the point where you don't have to mention how confident you're feeling - in these threads, to yourself, etc - you're just plain confident. Get there and everything will be gold.

 

[identikit]

Can't wait until I feel indifferent about anything to do with her.

Neither can I.Please don't talk to her parents. I'm begging you. Don't have anything to do with her or anything about her anymore. Let the mutual friends know this as well. Also, you might want to take the gas off the pedal on the alcohol/drugs too - I'd hate for that to become your main coping mechanism. In moderation it's fine. Be aware of your mental state and when/why you're using, make sure it's a choice and not a dependency.On a somewhat hypocritical note, you need to get out there and have more sex. Take the advice of others and lower the standards for a bit to really break the slump, then tighten up the parameters. If you haven't yet, you should probably spend some time in the idating thread to get any tips you might need on how to work the internet for meaningless hookups.

No talking to her parents, and give her the damned dog.

 

[Balco]

Can't wait until I feel indifferent about anything to do with her.

Neither can I.Please don't talk to her parents. I'm begging you. Don't have anything to do with her or anything about her anymore. Let the mutual friends know this as well. Also, you might want to take the gas off the pedal on the alcohol/drugs too - I'd hate for that to become your main coping mechanism. In moderation it's fine. Be aware of your mental state and when/why you're using, make sure it's a choice and not a dependency.On a somewhat hypocritical note, you need to get out there and have more sex. Take the advice of others and lower the standards for a bit to really break the slump, then tighten up the parameters. If you haven't yet, you should probably spend some time in the idating thread to get any tips you might need on how to work the internet for meaningless hookups.

No talking to her parents, and give her the damned dog.

Please don't do it. No need to thank them for anything. I am sure they understand that relationships end. Give the dog back too. It will help you move on quicker.

 

[Aaron Rudnicki]

Also, unless there has been a significant upgrade in the E quality dept, that is some nasty stuff in there anymore.

there can be a pretty big difference between E and pure MDMA.not sure about taking 4 when there was no plans to go out afterwards though. rolling in the hotel room while all your buddies sleep sounds like a waste of good drugs.

 

[Steve Tasker]

I suddenly feel like the only person on the internet who has never taken E.

 

[identikit]

I suddenly feel like the only person on the internet who has never taken E.

Ditto.