For the record, if I was the guy getting Cruz in this deal, I would let the guy out of it. Maybe I'm too nice but stuff happens in leagues where there is a waiting period.
Thankfully I play in a league where it is simply a hobby and no one is making a career out of fantasy football. No way should the guy getting Cruz stick with him. The only decent thing is to send back Cruz. Of course, if you're not decent and you'd actually keep Cruz, then that is something different. It'd be a good lesson to learn if I was ever in a league with someone like that to get out immediately.
Edited to add: Personal preference only; I choose not to be in leagues where people take fantasy football a little
too seriously.
Also edited to add: I'm not sure of the purpose of a two day league approval window. Can the league owners weigh in on other people's trades? If so, that's a rule that needs to be gotten rid of. Does it take 2 whole days for the commissioner to process a trade? If so, maybe the commish should hand over the duties to someone who can be more active with the league.
Trade should go through, but that sucks. I agree with the notion that the other owner probably could/should agree to trade being vacated (but he certainly doesn't have to).
I can certainly understand this point. For me it would depend on the league and the level of competition. But I'll ask both of you; if there was no review period and the players change rosters the instant the 'accept' button is hit, would you feel compelled to reverse the trade out of the goodness of your heart? Or is that a different situation?
I'm in some leagues which are more competitive than others (none of which have a 2 day review period). Circumstance dictate what I do. Last year in an extensive keeper league (but not a dynasty league), I traded Jahvid Best for a draft pick when it seemed like he was about 50/50 to be cleared to play. Two days later, news came out that his career was over. I discussed it with the guy I traded with and I agreed, without much prompting, to rescind the trade. We both bargained for the exchange of an injured player believing he would come back at some point; the only question was when. When his career was over (or at least it was apparently he would not be cleared at any real point in the future), I felt it appropriate to rescind because our mutual assumption was false.
On this trade, there is no reason for the league to overturn it. The trade was fair when made and when it was accepted, nothing had changed. That said, I think it's reasonable that the two owners get together and work it out. I think the league should approve (if the two involved agree) to either rescind the trade or approve a deal where something else is tendered for Cruz.
If they can't agree, I suspect that the rest of the league will see it as a jerk move by the guy getting Cruz.
My reputation as being fair to the people I play against is more important to me than getting over on someone else like that. To each his (or her) own.