I used to see no harm in trophies for all until i saw the real sports segment. Those trophies aren't helping anybody but the trophy industry. These kids grow up coddled and insulated and by the time they get to college their entire lives revolve around micro-aggressions. Good stand-ups won't eve play colleges now. It's pathetic and it begins with these trophies.
What a load. Parents have a lot.more to do with any of that than a trophy. And really the child did do something. He made a commitment and saw it through. If he kind of sucked at the sport that probably wasn't always easy.
Hello my friend,
I agree and disagree with you here. Parents DO have a lot more to do with any of that than a trophy, 100% agree.
I disagree that they should get a trophy for sticking to a commitment. It's a terrible precedent to set, and it coddles the kids. They need to learn like I did and like I taught my daughter, you make a commitment you stick to it, and if you don't you're going to get your ### chewed. You teach them the value of sticking to a commitment. Not lean on a trophy or medal. It's more important to stress they stick with it more when he/she sucks at it. Kids and people in general quit too easy today. Take the easy way out. That doesn't bode well for their future because we all know life is not easy.
Edited to add, all that said, him throwing the trophies away is wrong.