Loaning a chick money 9/9/16 - Bye (2 Viewers)

[Socrates11]

AR's wife going full blown lesbo in 5...4...3...

 

[mozzy84]

In better times, I'd say 8 to 10 times a month was the minimum in my marriage.

Wow. I didn't know such a world existed outside of books or movies--and I consider mine to be a good marriage.

I am in a simialr boat

If I had my druthers, I'd average like 60 times a month.I'm 35 and so is my wife... are you guys older or something?

no one wants to bang their own wife 60 times a month

 

[iamsmilin]

I love that the answer here is "#### Angie some more".

If you need to get laid, find anyone else. Seriously.

 

[Hang 10]

In better times, I'd say 8 to 10 times a month was the minimum in my marriage.

Wow. I didn't know such a world existed outside of books or movies--and I consider mine to be a good marriage.

I am in a simialr boat

If I had my druthers, I'd average like 60 times a month.I'm 35 and so is my wife... are you guys older or something?

no one wants to bang their own wife 60 times a month

Sounds like something a 15 year old would say.

 

[(HULK)]

In better times, I'd say 8 to 10 times a month was the minimum in my marriage.

Wow. I didn't know such a world existed outside of books or movies--and I consider mine to be a good marriage.

I am in a simialr boat

If I had my druthers, I'd average like 60 times a month.I'm 35 and so is my wife... are you guys older or something?

no one wants to bang their own wife 60 times a month

Sounds like something a 15 year old would say.

I'm 35 and really can't get enough. My libido never really slowed down from 15 though, so yes, I probably would've said that then as well.

 

[Wyld Stallyns]

Seems pretty simple to me, Mrs set up the rules here which Ron has admitted multiple times earlier in the thread. Part of those rules is not keeping things from her, she likes the control and is very upset that Ron stepped out of bounds. Add to that fact that I'm sure the full blown Lesbo she is hanging with is doing whatever she can to drive a wedge.

They're in an open relationship and the one rule is to be open. She could care less where he sticks his dingaling, she just want to be completely in the loop on everything. Not being up front with her from the start has gotten her big time bent out of shape. Also, her girlfriend(s) are definitely in her ear not helping the situation. This is a code red. My emergency manual says "go bang the hot Hawasian girl to clear your mind".

 

[cstu]

BTW, my wife and I have been in a totally messed up space with each other since mid-december. We've began couples therapy, yada yada, but we're not on real good terms yet.We've still done it 3 times in 2013. If your number is lower than that... thats not good. 3 times in 2013 is like the bar for a barely functioning held together with duct tape marriage imo.

I've had sex about 6 times in 2013. Once with her at the beginning of this month. Yeah, we've got a problem.

Oof..Someone mentioned earlier that your wife is using you to have kids..sounds like they hit the nail on the head.

I posted this link earlier in the thread and Ron's story sounds a lot like the ones women have there.Mrs. Ron:

ladyloveemy husband used to say the same thing with me " you can have sex with woman as long as there are no feelings involved " they dont get it we want more not just the sex ( which is amazing ) but the emotion, the feelings, the everything....Sep 12, 2012

 

[rizzler]

Your wife just bolted 10 seconds into a conversation like that? FWIW, if she wants to "figure out some things" about your relationship with her, its typically helpful to include you in that process.

I kinda felt that she was looking for a reason to fly off the handle. She boiled up pretty quickly to my surprise which means I ignored he simmering.

Despite what Shadyridr has said about me, I never said anything graphic about your wife personally. I was merely graphic in the detail of what could be happening and your reaction to it. And in all credit to you, you`ve kept cool and handled it well..That being said, everything I had `brought up to you`was all leading to this. While everyone praised the loose and fast relationship you and your wife share, some of us saw a bitter time ahead for you... Seems that it`s caught up. I may be crude/vulgar in some ppls eyes, but i just call it as I see it. you seem to get that

 

[cstu]

Wife: “Why didn’t you tell me this and when did you start feeling the need to hide things from me? I don’t even feel like we’re married any more. Why bother”She also told me that she saw my wife out with Girl 3 last night (Wednesday night when she left mad).

Translation: she was looking for any excuse to hook up with Girl 3 that night.

 

[DA RAIDERS]

Mmmm....shockingI feel for ya dude. Sux0rs

 

[[icon]]

Only the FFA could take an awesome thread about random hot strange ### and turn it into a marriage counseling session. Could you nancies please strap your Johnson's back on and pipe the #### down so we can get the signal to noise ratio back up in this thread? TIA!

 

[[icon]]

I got a texted from Girl 1, wants to hang out tonight. I'm not sure if that means with "us" or with "me".

Treat lightly here unless wife is involved. Could be a trap.

 

[TxBuckeye]

Only the FFA could take an awesome thread about random hot strange ### and turn it into a marriage counseling session. Could you nancies please strap your Johnson's back on and pipe the #### down so we can get the signal to noise ratio back up in this thread? TIA!

I know, right? [icon]'s entertainment is way more important than some dumbasses marriage or a child having to grow up without a father. Sheesh.

 

[[icon]]

Only the FFA could take an awesome thread about random hot strange ### and turn it into a marriage counseling session. Could you nancies please strap your Johnson's back on and pipe the #### down so we can get the signal to noise ratio back up in this thread? TIA!

I know, right? [icon]'s entertainment is way more important than some dumbasses marriage or a child having to grow up without a father. Sheesh.

Oh Jesus....

 

[TxBuckeye]

Only the FFA could take an awesome thread about random hot strange ### and turn it into a marriage counseling session. Could you nancies please strap your Johnson's back on and pipe the #### down so we can get the signal to noise ratio back up in this thread? TIA!

I know, right? [icon]'s entertainment is way more important than some dumbasses marriage or a child having to grow up without a father. Sheesh.

Oh Jesus....

[psssssssst, it was tongue in cheek. I don't think a word of this is real]

 

[Das Boot]

I, for one, am shocked that a rock solid marriage where the daughter routinely gets dropped off at the sitter so the parents can separately #### other people has somehow ended up in turmoil.Who could have seen this coming.

 

[jamil]

Is this a prequel to the Showtime show house of lies? Are you Don Cheadle?

 

[johnnycakes]

Only the FFA could take an awesome thread about random hot strange ### and turn it into a marriage counseling session. Could you nancies please strap your Johnson's back on and pipe the #### down so we can get the signal to noise ratio back up in this thread? TIA!

The holier-than-thous who have never walked the mile in AZ's shoes should butt out too.

 

[johnnycakes]

Hasn't dancingbones been down a very similar path? And he wound up going for the "friendly divorce" which probably means his wife got a lot less than if she had an attorney, even if the whole process was mediated. Anyhow, DB is the one FBG who might have something of value to add here. Everyone else is either reveling in AR's misery or prognosticating out of total ignorance and s false sense of moral superiority.

 

[Tremendous Upside]

Everyone else is either reveling in AR's misery or prognosticating out of total ignorance and s false sense of moral superiority.

Welcome to the FFA, there's punch and pie in the corner

 

[johnnycakes]

Everyone else is either reveling in AR's misery or prognosticating out of total ignorance and s false sense of moral superiority.

Welcome to the FFA, there's punch and pie in the corner

punch?

 

[Mr. Pickles]

I got a texted from Girl 1, wants to hang out tonight. I'm not sure if that means with "us" or with "me".

Treat lightly here unless wife is involved. Could be a trap.

Admiral Ackbar nods knowingly.

 

[Mr. Pickles]

I know, right?

Oh good grief.

 

[DrJ]

I told you not to go throwing away Angie just yet. Rough around the edges, but nothing that can't be molded a little.

 

[jon_mx]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

 

[iamsmilin]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

 

[jon_mx]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

Of course she is not totally to blame, but Ron took full responsibility right away. He should have started off talking about how crazy she has been acting like showing up to his job without permission, and then ease into the details when asked.

 

[johnnycakes]

A way to man's heart isn't through his stomach.

 

[jon_mx]

A way to man's heart isn't through his stomach.

No, but it is pretty ####### close.

 

[Mr. Pickles]

Helping her move? Stupid.

Have we learned nothing from Seinfeld?

 

[Tiger Fan]

serious question AR - do you have a prenup? For some reason, you strike me as a guy who would

 

[cstu]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

Isn't the stuff she's doing falling into GF category? This woman wants her pie and to eat it too.

 

[jon_mx]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

Isn't the stuff she's doing falling into GF category? This woman wants her pie and to eat it too.

Yeah, it wasn't like Ron sought her out to do her these favors. She approached him.

 

[iamsmilin]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

Isn't the stuff she's doing falling into GF category? This woman wants her pie and to eat it too.

Agreed. However, she sounds more forth coming with her activities than he is. Could be a perception thing since all the stories are of him and Angie.

 

[iamsmilin]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

Isn't the stuff she's doing falling into GF category? This woman wants her pie and to eat it too.

Yeah, it wasn't like Ron sought her out to do her these favors. She approached him.

And there is no way he coulda said no.

 

[jon_mx]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

Isn't the stuff she's doing falling into GF category? This woman wants her pie and to eat it too.

Yeah, it wasn't like Ron sought her out to do her these favors. She approached him.

And there is no way he coulda said no.

Unpossible.

 

[Wyld Stallyns]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

I don't see either of those as mistakes on our hero's part. As far as he knew they were just FWB'ing it at the time. If you have a friend with great benefits, and you'd like to keep benefitting all over those benefits... Then you help her out when she needs a favor.

 

[Maurile Tremblay]

It’s about 12:30pm; I’m on the couch at home finishing off a beer, nodding off while watching TV – I perked up when I hear a car pulling into my driveway. I notice the time, jeez it’s late. I walk up to the window and look outside. JFC – Girl 3 and my wife are carrying Angie up the driveway. WTF?!?!?!

What is going through your mind here? Annoyance that Angie is being dragged back into your world, or excitement because it means that your FFA thread will soon get a worthwhile update? At what point does your inner monologue go from "Jesus, will this crap never end?" to "Oh, man, the guys in the FFA are going to really like this!"?

 

[Instinctive]

It’s about 12:30pm; I’m on the couch at home finishing off a beer, nodding off while watching TV – I perked up when I hear a car pulling into my driveway. I notice the time, jeez it’s late. I walk up to the window and look outside. JFC – Girl 3 and my wife are carrying Angie up the driveway. WTF?!?!?!

What is going through your mind here? Annoyance that Angie is being dragged back into your world, or excitement because it means that your FFA thread will soon get a worthwhile update? At what point does your inner monologue go from "Jesus, will this crap never end?" to "Oh, man, the guys in the FFA are going to really like this!"?

 

[iamsmilin]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

I don't see either of those as mistakes on our hero's part. As far as he knew they were just FWB'ing it at the time. If you have a friend with great benefits, and you'd like to keep benefitting all over those benefits... Then you help her out when she needs a favor.

I don't think you understand the FWB thing. They get together and F without the complications of a relationship. Helping someone move, bailing someone outta jail, giving them cash for drinks, etc are complications of having a GF, not of FWB. Keeping her happy was the loan of 3 racks.

 

[iamsmilin]

Double post.

 

[SteevieG]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

I don't see either of those as mistakes on our hero's part. As far as he knew they were just FWB'ing it at the time. If you have a friend with great benefits, and you'd like to keep benefitting all over those benefits... Then you help her out when she needs a favor.

I don't think you understand the FWB thing. They get together and F without the complications of a relationship. Helping someone move, bailing someone outta jail, giving them cash for drinks, etc are complications of having a GF, not of FWB. Keeping her happy was the loan of 3 racks.

She knows stuff!!

 

[Henry Ford]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

I don't see either of those as mistakes on our hero's part. As far as he knew they were just FWB'ing it at the time. If you have a friend with great benefits, and you'd like to keep benefitting all over those benefits... Then you help her out when she needs a favor.

I don't think you understand the FWB thing. They get together and F without the complications of a relationship. Helping someone move, bailing someone outta jail, giving them cash for drinks, etc are complications of having a GF, not of FWB. Keeping her happy was the loan of 3 racks.

No, those are complications of hving a friend. Girlfriend complications are things like monogamy, holidays with family, etc.

Guys help friends move, get out of jail, buy each other drinks all the time. Women, however, wouldn't show up to help move a piece of furniture unless an engagement ring was under it. Hence the confusion here.

 

[DrJ]

I'm not really seeing the problem here. Wife will cool off, Ron got some things off of his chest. This isn't much worse than what happened after the 3 racks disclosure, that one might have looked even worse because whatever that one trick's name was the one disclosing it and Ron basically told her to piss off during the confrontation. Angie's still on the line, and it appears that the money might actually come back at some point. That will likely help matters some, and support our hero's assertion to her that it was a loan when that whole thing blew up to begin with. Wife knew there were going to be some complications in this arrangement at some point, this one ain't all that big of a deal. Nothing is ####ed here.

 

[Das Boot]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

I don't see either of those as mistakes on our hero's part. As far as he knew they were just FWB'ing it at the time. If you have a friend with great benefits, and you'd like to keep benefitting all over those benefits... Then you help her out when she needs a favor.

I don't think you understand the FWB thing. They get together and F without the complications of a relationship. Helping someone move, bailing someone outta jail, giving them cash for drinks, etc are complications of having a GF, not of FWB. Keeping her happy was the loan of 3 racks.

No, those are complications of hving a friend.

I think it might be a scientific fact that guys can't have women just for friends.

 

[kineticnfl]

First time into the FFA thread and I come across this!Best.Thread.Ever.

 

[Sand]

First time into the FFA thread and I come across this!Best.Thread.Ever.

Oh, the things you've missed. The poop in the ceiling, the Russian Brides, the "Osama was into Porn" (which I archived it was so good)...

 

[Steve Tasker]

First time into the FFA thread and I come across this!Best.Thread.Ever.

Oh, the things you've missed. The poop in the ceiling, the Russian Brides, the "Osama was into Porn" (which I archived it was so good)...

Colon Blow Diaries

 

[iamsmilin]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

I don't see either of those as mistakes on our hero's part. As far as he knew they were just FWB'ing it at the time. If you have a friend with great benefits, and you'd like to keep benefitting all over those benefits... Then you help her out when she needs a favor.

I don't think you understand the FWB thing. They get together and F without the complications of a relationship. Helping someone move, bailing someone outta jail, giving them cash for drinks, etc are complications of having a GF, not of FWB. Keeping her happy was the loan of 3 racks.

No, those are complications of hving a friend. Girlfriend complications are things like monogamy, holidays with family, etc.

Guys help friends move, get out of jail, buy each other drinks all the time. Women, however, wouldn't show up to help move a piece of furniture unless an engagement ring was under it. Hence the confusion here.

I'll disagree. Guys help other guys/girls move but they don't rent the truck, hire the movers and take care of things while their friend says "whoops". Guys buy each other drinks but none of the guys I know would give another guy cash for drinks when they aren't drinking together. Hey, John, after bailing you outta jail, why don't you take this 40 and have a round on me?

Yeah, idiotic. And I've helped plenty of people move, guy.

 

[Instinctive]

The way Ron presented it to his wife he was taking the blame for Angie to be Batass crazy. Should not have taken the fall for her behavior, IMHO. I don't blame his wife for the way she responded. He played it smooth with the other chick that was butting into his marriage, but this time he dropped the ball. Of course that happens when you play in the mine fields.

Well to be fair, he did a lot of stuff with Angie that falls into the boy-friend category and didn't tell his wife. Helping her move? Stupid. Shoulda left her to figure it out. Bailing her out? Also stupid. Seriously, do you really blame the girl for thinking he has more than casual feelings for her after all that?

I don't see either of those as mistakes on our hero's part. As far as he knew they were just FWB'ing it at the time. If you have a friend with great benefits, and you'd like to keep benefitting all over those benefits... Then you help her out when she needs a favor.

I don't think you understand the FWB thing. They get together and F without the complications of a relationship. Helping someone move, bailing someone outta jail, giving them cash for drinks, etc are complications of having a GF, not of FWB. Keeping her happy was the loan of 3 racks.

No, those are complications of hving a friend. Girlfriend complications are things like monogamy, holidays with family, etc.

Guys help friends move, get out of jail, buy each other drinks all the time. Women, however, wouldn't show up to help move a piece of furniture unless an engagement ring was under it. Hence the confusion here.

I'll disagree. Guys help other guys/girls move but they don't rent the truck, hire the movers and take care of things while their friend says "whoops". Guys buy each other drinks but none of the guys I know would give another guy cash for drinks when they aren't drinking together. Hey, John, after bailing you outta jail, why don't you take this 40 and have a round on me?

Yeah, idiotic. And I've helped plenty of people move, guy.

I think you guys are confusing the difference between "Friends With Benefits" and "####-buddies". I'd totally help out a FWB if she was moving...my FBs are a 2-3 hour at a time, door closes and go for it thing.Angie quite clearly would fall into the FWB category...but I'm not sure how it works with the whole open-relationship-marriage thing. I'm just a single college student