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Marital Advice - Friendly camping trip too friendly? (1 Viewer)

What do I do next?

  • Nothing, let it go.

    Votes: 9 17.6%
  • Go to counseling.

    Votes: 13 25.5%
  • Have my wife call this guy to figure out the events.

    Votes: 26 51.0%
  • [No response text]

    Votes: 15 29.4%

  • Total voters
    51
Bob Sacamano said:
It's a shame this wasn't completed sooner. Here's to you Man in the Yellow Hat
Nice!I was asked to provide an update.

I've come to grips with the fact that no one is going to tell me exactly what the hell went on. My wife does not remember. And Steve ain't talking.

In an interesting turn of events, my wife actually called Steve last week without talking to me about it first. She said she asked him point blank what happened. He said all he remebers is that she walked in and checked out his junk. And in his mind, nothing more did or could have happened. He said she didn't touch it. She then told him she didn't remember anything. Not a good move, as I eplained to her after the fact. He said nothing could of happened because his wife was in the bathroom the whole time, which isn't true but at least shows his wife is ignorant of the chain of events too, since Steve and Mrs. Steve have discussed it. In any case, he ain't talking and claims there's no way he would've let anything happen.

He did ask my wife several times if I was going to punch him the next time I saw him. So at least he knows I'm pissed and not putting up with any bull####. He knows where I stand.

 
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N.Y. Shreks said:
Gangster said:
I had something along the same vein happen to me once. All I can say is this. Your other friends know what happened. They could tell you exactly what went down as everyone was walking to the bathroom, what happened at the bathroom, what Steve was acting like, what your wife was acting like, etc. And if they knew they were in the bathroom together, why would they leave them there before returning to the campsite? Most likely they aren't going to want to be completely frank with you because they'll feel like they shouldn't get in the middle or it isn't their business. But if they're real friends, it is their business to tell you.

If it was me, these two things would make me suspicious.

A few minutes later, they came walking back to the site together. George asked them what was going on and Steve just laughed.
She remebers things from the night, but does not remember going into the stall with the guy, nor does she remember anything happening. She kind of freaked out about this, and I certainly wish I'd have listned to George and walked to the bathroom to check on them.
I don't care how drunk you are- people don't just forget about things like this. You may forget minor details, but come on. It sounds more like two people who are being deliberately vague with you. Sorry to be the voice of negativity and I hope for your peace of mind that nothing happened. But I'd say you have every right to be suspicious and pissed off.
BULL!!! My best friend saved me from going home with a total stranger.......I really thought that I was with my SO. BTW, this information was giving to me the day after but I still have no memory of anything.
Yeah, but then again you were only going to go home with this stranger. It never progressed beyond that if your post is any indication. My point is if you do the deed you are going to remember some part of it. It seems that in your case you weren't actually grabbing his hot link or bobbing for bananas.
That's just it! If it were not for my friend telling me what happened, how would I have made the decision, not to go home with a stranger, myself? Honestly, I still have no memory of the events that transpired that evening......freaky!!!

 
MITYH - Thanks for the update/temporary closure. If something pops up and you are comfortable relaying that information (I really did not mean that as a pun, but can't delete it now) we'd love to hear.

Hope things do work out for you. :rolleyes:

PS: You can still punch Steve. DEFINATELY what happens if you do that. :(

 
have steve come over to your house while wife is there. Hit steve in the face, then slap wife upside the head. Tell them that's what they get for ####### with you. Then close the book.

 
I'm going to try to keep this short sweet, but since I'm thinking about this and can't sleep, here goes.Every year, some friends organize a camping trip for a whole group of people. These are former college roomates and their significant others, most of whom we've known for close to ten years. This year's event happened over the weekend.Some backstory. I started my freshman year in college when I was twenty after taking a few years off. My now wife was friends with some of the guys I ended up living with when I arrived. We'll call one of these guys 'Steve'. I got to know Steve through some of my close friends, and I ended living with him for two years. Now, Steve was a nice enough guy, but he was a bit of a player. The opposite of me in that respect. I had my share of girl's I dated, but I was pretty low key when it came to hitting on women. Steve started dating his current wife about 6 months after I started dating my wife. We hung out quite a bit during our college years. Now, Steve is a nice guy, but he wasn't exactly faithful while dating this girl. My wife isn't aware of his indiscretions, and it's not my place to fill her in. In any case, I know the guy isn't one to turn down a free offer.Fast forward a few years. As husbands and wives sometimes do, my wife and I started having a discussion about college, and she told me that she had a huge crush on Steve before I met my wife. I wasn't really surprised by this, as they were kind of flirty. It never really bothered me though.Fast forward to last weekend's camping trip. Steve was there, along with many other friends and their significant others. This grouip always gets goofy when we get together, and joke about swapping wives and stuff. I never take any of it too seriously, and flirting is all in good fun. Friday night we all had our kids with us, but on Saturday, we all handed them off to grandparents, who all happened to live near the camping area. Our kid exchange didn't go all that smooth, as one of our boys was feeling a little sick Saturday morning. So, my wife and I were both stressed out. When we got back to the campground, my wife had her first drink. This was around 3. We ended up playing beach volleyball for a while, and then things start getting fuzzy for me.Somewhere between about 9 and 1 a.m., we ended up back at the campsite. I distincly remember three of the guys, inclusing Steve announcing they had to walk to the bathroom. I also remembr my wife saying 'me too' and walking with them toward the bathrooms. Five or so minutes later, two of the guys came back. One of them, we'll call him 'George' told me "Hey, you should go check on your wife, she went into the same stall as Steve". I laughed, because we're always doing goofy things like that to each other. Another 15 minutes or so (having a hard time with time) went by, and George looked and me and said "Dude, seriously. Where are those two? They went into the same stall together." I wondered about it, but again, played it off. A few minutes later, they came walking back to the site together. George asked them what was going on and Steve just laughed. I laughed it off, but now some pieces are starting to come together for me.Later that night, my wife wasn't feeling well, as she drank way too much. She walked up to the bathroom, and walked up a few minutes later to check on her. She was doing OK, but wanted to walk back to the campsite. As she walked out of the bathroom, she said "Hey, my #### are haning out of my bra." I asked how that happened, and she had no idea. Me being drunk and horny, I reach under her shirt and her bra is still fastned, but her breasts are out. Not easy to do with a big chest, so cleary she or someone else helped take those out.I laughed that off as well, until I started thinking about this yesterday. Last night, I brought this series of events up to my wife, and she does not remember any of it. She remebers things from the night, but does not remember going into the stall with the guy, nor does she remember anything happening. She kind of freaked out about this, and I certainly wish I'd have listned to George and walked to the bathroom to check on them.Quite honestly, this all does not sit well with me today, which is why I can't sleep. So, what's my next move?
DID YOU ASK STEVE? YOU CAN BE SURE IF HE GOT HIS HANDS ON THOSE THINGS THAT HE REMEMBERS IT..
 
I just realized that I never voted in this poll despite my ton of responses/visits to this thread.
:hifive:same here.
Did you not like the poll options or something?
I don't think I've ever even read them. This matter could not be settled with a simple 3 option poll.I sure hope he's checked her phone records and or email.
Pshht, that would be a terrible idea. :thumbdown:
 
I just realized that I never voted in this poll despite my ton of responses/visits to this thread.
:thumbup: same here.
Did you not like the poll options or something?
I don't think I've ever even read them. This matter could not be settled with a simple 3 option poll.I sure hope he's checked her phone records and or email.
Pshht, that would be a terrible idea. :lmao:
Well, he should have at least gone and checked in on her when George told him to. Has anyone asked why he didn't do that?
 
Best case - 38DD got a peek and probably a hand on Steve's Jiggly Meat.

Worst Case - 38DDs tom toms were pulled out of the bra by Steve as he hammered her from the back.

Either way, its bad. Or the best fishing expedition ever.

 
OK. My update.

I've come to grips with this all and moved on. I believe my wife, and have no reason to doubt her.

That being said. She is pregnant and due in March. There is a small part of me that does wonder at times. However, I'm pretty confident that the worst case scenario will not play out here. To me, there are bigger fish to fry right now.

We have a 3D ultrasound scheduled today. Turns out there are supposed to be three vessels in the umbilical cord that show up on ultrasounds. They only saw two on the first pictures. Didn't sound too serious, but they're being cautious. On top of that, the doc who read the first ultrasound didn't like the picture of the babies face. He was concerned that not enough top lip was showing. Cleft lip is what he's worried about.

At this point, my main concern is finding out that everything is OK with the kid.

 
OK. My update. I've come to grips with this all and moved on. I believe my wife, and have no reason to doubt her.That being said. She is pregnant and due in March. There is a small part of me that does wonder at times. However, I'm pretty confident that the worst case scenario will not play out here. To me, there are bigger fish to fry right now.We have a 3D ultrasound scheduled today. Turns out there are supposed to be three vessels in the umbilical cord that show up on ultrasounds. They only saw two on the first pictures. Didn't sound too serious, but they're being cautious. On top of that, the doc who read the first ultrasound didn't like the picture of the babies face. He was concerned that not enough top lip was showing. Cleft lip is what he's worried about.At this point, my main concern is finding out that everything is OK with the kid.
Congrats and good luck, MITYH!
 
OK. My update.

I've come to grips with this all and moved on. I believe my wife, and have no reason to doubt her.

That being said. She is pregnant and due in March. There is a small part of me that does wonder at times. However, I'm pretty confident that the worst case scenario will not play out here. To me, there are bigger fish to fry right now.

We have a 3D ultrasound scheduled today. Turns out there are supposed to be three vessels in the umbilical cord that show up on ultrasounds. They only saw two on the first pictures. Didn't sound too serious, but they're being cautious. On top of that, the doc who read the first ultrasound didn't like the picture of the babies face. He was concerned that not enough top lip was showing. Cleft lip is what he's worried about.

At this point, my main concern is finding out that everything is OK with the kid.
I hope your baby is fine, and is your baby.
 
OK. My update. I've come to grips with this all and moved on. I believe my wife, and have no reason to doubt her.That being said. She is pregnant and due in March. There is a small part of me that does wonder at times. However, I'm pretty confident that the worst case scenario will not play out here. To me, there are bigger fish to fry right now.We have a 3D ultrasound scheduled today. Turns out there are supposed to be three vessels in the umbilical cord that show up on ultrasounds. They only saw two on the first pictures. Didn't sound too serious, but they're being cautious. On top of that, the doc who read the first ultrasound didn't like the picture of the babies face. He was concerned that not enough top lip was showing. Cleft lip is what he's worried about.At this point, my main concern is finding out that everything is OK with the kid.
Does the dude who's schvantz she was supposedly playing firefighter with in the bathroom have a cleft lip?Best of luck, bro. I'm sure it's yours... but there are DNA tests they can do to give you piece of mind.
 

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