Marital Advice - Friendly camping trip too friendly? (1 Viewer)

[SuperJohn96]

If you want to know what really happened this is what you do:Make up an email address that would sort of sound like Steve........on his provider or hotmail etc. Write an email to your wife as Steve. Say that your wife is asking what happened in the bathroom that nite and you only remember bits and pieces and ask her what she remembers.........They you will know what your wife knows.

No kidding...Then the wife calls Steve, they find out it's a ruse, and she writes back a letter fooling MITYH into thinking everything is all good...

 

[Cavalier]

Why not be upfront about it, be a man, and ASK your wife. Tell her that people have been saying a lot of things, and that while you don't believe anything to have happened, to be honest, considering how drunk everyone was, you really don't know. Give her a chance to come out in the open. Otherwise, this will naw at you forever.If you and your wife have a strong relationship, this is the only way to go. Just talk about it, get it out in the open and move on.

He already did, she "doesn't remember"

 

[omally]

As for me not going up there, I really didn't think George was serious. And since he can't remember, I question just how serious he was.

George looked and me and said "Dude, seriously. Where are those two? They went into the same stall together."

So does George always say "dude, seriously" when he's joking around?

He could have if they were playing some joke on him, and he really wanted him to go back there to look, cause the other two were back there waiting for him to show up.

 

[flufhed]

Why not be upfront about it, be a man, and ASK your wife. Tell her that people have been saying a lot of things, and that while you don't believe anything to have happened, to be honest, considering how drunk everyone was, you really don't know. Give her a chance to come out in the open. Otherwise, this will naw at you forever.If you and your wife have a strong relationship, this is the only way to go. Just talk about it, get it out in the open and move on.

He did ask her, and she claimed she doesn't remember anything. If she was an honest person, we wouldn't be in this dilemma to begin with.

 

[SeveredHorseHeads]

You said Steve is married right? I would show up at his house, unannounced, and start asking him some questions.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

If she was an honest person, we wouldn't be in this dilemma to begin with.

How do you know she isn't being honest?

 

[Willy]

Why not be upfront about it, be a man, and ASK your wife. Tell her that people have been saying a lot of things, and that while you don't believe anything to have happened, to be honest, considering how drunk everyone was, you really don't know. Give her a chance to come out in the open. Otherwise, this will naw at you forever.If you and your wife have a strong relationship, this is the only way to go. Just talk about it, get it out in the open and move on.

I wonder what percentage of cheaters will be honest when confronted with a direct question like that. It's probably higher than zero, but not much.

 

[SeveredHorseHeads]

As for me not going up there, I really didn't think George was serious. And since he can't remember, I question just how serious he was.

George looked and me and said "Dude, seriously. Where are those two? They went into the same stall together."

So does George always say "dude, seriously" when he's joking around?

He could have if they were playing some joke on him, and he really wanted him to go back there to look, cause the other two were back there waiting for him to show up.

And somehow her boobs fell out along the way?

 

[Cavalier]

STOP THE TRAIN>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I GOT THE ANSWER!!!!!!!!

Use the lie detection software from Exposed..........................winner winner chicken dinner.

 

[omally]

Why not be upfront about it, be a man, and ASK your wife. Tell her that people have been saying a lot of things, and that while you don't believe anything to have happened, to be honest, considering how drunk everyone was, you really don't know. Give her a chance to come out in the open. Otherwise, this will naw at you forever.If you and your wife have a strong relationship, this is the only way to go. Just talk about it, get it out in the open and move on.

He did ask her, and she claimed she doesn't remember anything. If she was an honest person, we wouldn't be in this dilemma to begin with.

If she was an honest person? How do you know she didn't really blackout? It isn't uncommon for someone to have a blackout from drinking too much. She threw up the next day from all the alcohol. According to Yellow Man she has never given him cause to worry about cheating in the past.

 

[Wyldfox]

I just read what happened and skipped all the rest, so not sure if I'm missing out on anything that may have been added.I say just let it go. You saw the flirting, George was trying to tell you something, and you just laughed it off. Y'all were drunk, which is no excuse, but it's over and done with. Next time listen to George when he points out that they're not back yet. He seemed more concerned about it than you did.

You cheated on your ex-husband, right?

Depends how you define cheating.

 

[Stevie]

If you want to know what really happened this is what you do:Make up an email address that would sort of sound like Steve........on his provider or hotmail etc. Write an email to your wife as Steve. Say that your wife is asking what happened in the bathroom that nite and you only remember bits and pieces and ask her what she remembers.........They you will know what your wife knows.

You might end up divorced but at least you know the truth.You could have always checked the muff that night.........would have made it easy.

 

[Third]

Hat,

Anything more from George?

Or did you just leave it with what he said?

And how exactly did he say it? Was he at all concerned that you think your wife and Steve may have cheated together!?!?!

Left it with what he had to say. He said he thought he had a firm grasp on how the night went, but he has no recollection of that happening. He didn't seem overly concerned with me asking about it. In fact, he seemed surprised.

Further evidence that this is simply a case of Steve/George having a little fun at MITYH's expense. At this point I really think nothing happened. Steve gentlemanly walked Mrs. MITYH back to the campsite from the bathroom, and that's that. An offhand comment about "what took you two so long" would be a common joke and certainly nothing to get worried about.

BS. Why were they gone 15 minutes longer than everyone else? Why did George make his little joke not once, but twice and 15 minutes apart? Why were her #### hanging out of her bra later? Here's the thing: MIYH says the mens and women's bathrooms are on opposite ends of the facility. If Mrs. MIYH truly went to the restroom in the women's side and it took her 15 minutes, she would be able to remember the fact that she was not at anytime in the stall with Steve.

More importantly, if George knows that MIYH is concerned about what happened and George says he has a good handle on what happened that night except for the stall story, he would be able to recollect whether she was in the bathroom with them. If she went into the men's bathroom while George was in there, he would remember. If he was just joking around and made the whole thing up, he would be able to now say "no, she wasn't in the men's bathroom, she went into the women's."

The "black out" of this one incident is BS. Of the 4 people that went to the bathroom, at least 1 of them remembers whether she went into the men's bathroom or not. We're not talking about the details of what happened - we're just asking was she even in the men's bathroom? Easy question and someone remembers. If she did go in the men's bathroom, then the theory that George was just "joking" is BS.

 

[guru_007]

Bet right now Man with yellow hat wishes he had checked the bathroom out. Truth be told, at this point I doubt you're ever going to find out really what happened. I'd tend to believe my wife if she told me she doesn't remember. It's not as if Steve is ever going to come clean. I'd probably have a sit down with my wife and try to hash out everything that is going through my head right now...because it's probably best to put this behind you now or it's going to haunt you forever. g'luck. I'm not sure what I'd do in your situation, but I hope it works out for the best.

 

[Fla\/\/ed]

Why not be upfront about it, be a man, and ASK your wife. Tell her that people have been saying a lot of things, and that while you don't believe anything to have happened, to be honest, considering how drunk everyone was, you really don't know. Give her a chance to come out in the open. Otherwise, this will naw at you forever.If you and your wife have a strong relationship, this is the only way to go. Just talk about it, get it out in the open and move on.

He did ask her, and she claimed she doesn't remember anything. If she was an honest person, we wouldn't be in this dilemma to begin with.

If she was an honest person? How do you know she didn't really blackout? It isn't uncommon for someone to have a blackout from drinking too much. She threw up the next day from all the alcohol. According to Yellow Man she has never given him cause to worry about cheating in the past.

I doubt she'd forget messsing around on her husband no matter how drunk she was unless she messes around so much it has become common for her.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

If she was an honest person? How do you know she didn't really blackout? It isn't uncommon for someone to have a blackout from drinking too much. She threw up the next day from all the alcohol. According to Yellow Man she has never given him cause to worry about cheating in the past.

Not only that, but if she was never in the stall with him to begin with, there would be nothing to remember. Again, the exact quote from MITYH:

Last night, I brought this series of events up to my wife, and she does not remember any of it. She remebers things from the night, but does not remember going into the stall with the guy, nor does she remember anything happening. She kind of freaked out about this, and I certainly wish I'd have listned to George and walked to the bathroom to check on them.

 

[Johnny Ryall]

As for me not going up there, I really didn't think George was serious. And since he can't remember, I question just how serious he was.

George looked and me and said "Dude, seriously. Where are those two? They went into the same stall together."

So does George always say "dude, seriously" when he's joking around?

He could have if they were playing some joke on him, and he really wanted him to go back there to look, cause the other two were back there waiting for him to show up.

And somehow her boobs fell out along the way?

Right. I have a hard time believing the 'they were playing a joke and then during an un-related event (puking or whatever) her boobs fell out' angle over the 'they had a quickie, she whipped them out and forgot to put them back' scenerio.

 

[Saints-Man]

I just read what happened and skipped all the rest, so not sure if I'm missing out on anything that may have been added.I say just let it go. You saw the flirting, George was trying to tell you something, and you just laughed it off. Y'all were drunk, which is no excuse, but it's over and done with. Next time listen to George when he points out that they're not back yet. He seemed more concerned about it than you did.

You cheated on your ex-husband, right?

Depends how you define cheating.

You must be a big fan of President Clinton.

 

[Bob Sacamano]

If you want to know what really happened this is what you do:Make up an email address that would sort of sound like Steve........on his provider or hotmail etc. Write an email to your wife as Steve. Say that your wife is asking what happened in the bathroom that nite and you only remember bits and pieces and ask her what she remembers.........They you will know what your wife knows.

You could have always checked the muff that night.........would have made it easy.

I've been wondering about this. Maybe you fondle around a little and don't remember it. Maybe you drink a few pints of protein and don't remember it. If you had sex, though, wouldn't there be SOME indication the next day? Maybe she doesn't know exactly what she did, but I gotta think she knows if she had sex or not. No? "Ladies?" Can we get some insight here? 'Cause I gotta be honest - it's a question I've never bothered to ask a SO. I just assumed they all wanted to pretend it never happened.Even Caroline Mulford, as out of it as she was, knew she had sex with Farmer Ted. I'm just sayin'.

 

[Stevie]

Here is a fun thought....what if she is pregnant

 

[Pick]

Nice friends.

 

[(HULK)]

If you want to know what really happened this is what you do:Make up an email address that would sort of sound like Steve........on his provider or hotmail etc. Write an email to your wife as Steve. Say that your wife is asking what happened in the bathroom that nite and you only remember bits and pieces and ask her what she remembers.........They you will know what your wife knows.

I'm (HULK) and I endorse this plan.

 

[PsychoMan]

Here is a fun thought....what if she is pregnant

then u have a kid

 

[LAUNCH]

How many questions did George ask when you asked him? A normal friend would be asking a lot of questions and would be asking you if you wanted them to dig around Steve for any info. I would definitely tell the wife that you want to know what happened and that if she can't remember that both couples need to have a sit down and sort it out. Maybe the threat of bringing another person into the conversation will jog her memory.

LAUNCH

 

[Dusty Rhodes]

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And for the record, something bad definitely happened here. Sorry MIYH, but it did. :(

 

[CrossEyed]

I just read what happened and skipped all the rest, so not sure if I'm missing out on anything that may have been added.I say just let it go. You saw the flirting, George was trying to tell you something, and you just laughed it off. Y'all were drunk, which is no excuse, but it's over and done with. Next time listen to George when he points out that they're not back yet. He seemed more concerned about it than you did.

You cheated on your ex-husband, right?

Depends how you define cheating.

Just out of curiosity, how do you define cheating?

 

[omally]

Why not be upfront about it, be a man, and ASK your wife. Tell her that people have been saying a lot of things, and that while you don't believe anything to have happened, to be honest, considering how drunk everyone was, you really don't know. Give her a chance to come out in the open. Otherwise, this will naw at you forever.If you and your wife have a strong relationship, this is the only way to go. Just talk about it, get it out in the open and move on.

He did ask her, and she claimed she doesn't remember anything. If she was an honest person, we wouldn't be in this dilemma to begin with.

If she was an honest person? How do you know she didn't really blackout? It isn't uncommon for someone to have a blackout from drinking too much. She threw up the next day from all the alcohol. According to Yellow Man she has never given him cause to worry about cheating in the past.

I doubt she'd forget messsing around on her husband no matter how drunk she was unless she messes around so much it has become common for her.

You must not understand what a blackout is.

 

[bigbottom]

I'm just saying that 95 percent of the people in this thread are convinced that his wife did something...

Just guessing that we're not the only ones. This thread didn't start out with "Hey guys! Check out this funny story that happened when I was camping! ". Dude was concerned about his wife spending FIFTEEN minutes in a bathroom stall with ANOTHER DUDE. I think that might be enough to almost convince me that something pretty UnWAR took place.

I guess 15 minutes is the gold standard for sexaul experiences. And the only evidence we have that they were in the stall together was George.

But we know that they were alone together for 15 minutes, whether in the bathroom stall or otherwise. We know that they were both drunk (and she was really drunk). We know that she had a crush on Steve. We know that Steve has a history of infidelity. And we know that at some point in the night, her boobs were taken out of her bra.MITYH: Were you otherwise with your wife during the entire evening? Was there another occasion where her boobs could have come out of her bra without her being aware of it?

 

[Brave Sir Robin]

Take her passionately in the middle of the night. When she cries out his name, you've got all the evidence you need. That's how I found out my ex was bangin' our gardener, Jesus.

 

[Fla\/\/ed]

Why not be upfront about it, be a man, and ASK your wife. Tell her that people have been saying a lot of things, and that while you don't believe anything to have happened, to be honest, considering how drunk everyone was, you really don't know. Give her a chance to come out in the open. Otherwise, this will naw at you forever.If you and your wife have a strong relationship, this is the only way to go. Just talk about it, get it out in the open and move on.

He did ask her, and she claimed she doesn't remember anything. If she was an honest person, we wouldn't be in this dilemma to begin with.

If she was an honest person? How do you know she didn't really blackout? It isn't uncommon for someone to have a blackout from drinking too much. She threw up the next day from all the alcohol. According to Yellow Man she has never given him cause to worry about cheating in the past.

I doubt she'd forget messsing around on her husband no matter how drunk she was unless she messes around so much it has become common for her.

You must not understand what a blackout is.

I do understand what a blackout is. I'm not buying her excuse that she doesn't remember.

 

[Nigel Tufnel]

Here is a fun thought....what if she is pregnant

then u Steve have has a kid

 

[tommyboy]

Quite honestly, this all does not sit well with me today, which is why I can't sleep. So, what's my next move?

first thing, you and your wife need to quit drinking. 2nd, punch steve in the face. 3rd, punch your wife in the neck. everything will be better

 

[Third]

I just read what happened and skipped all the rest, so not sure if I'm missing out on anything that may have been added.I say just let it go. You saw the flirting, George was trying to tell you something, and you just laughed it off. Y'all were drunk, which is no excuse, but it's over and done with. Next time listen to George when he points out that they're not back yet. He seemed more concerned about it than you did.

You cheated on your ex-husband, right?

Depends how you define cheating.

Just out of curiosity, how do you define cheating?

Please don't take this thread in that direction.

 

[Cavalier]

I'm just saying that 95 percent of the people in this thread are convinced that his wife did something...

Just guessing that we're not the only ones. This thread didn't start out with "Hey guys! Check out this funny story that happened when I was camping! ". Dude was concerned about his wife spending FIFTEEN minutes in a bathroom stall with ANOTHER DUDE. I think that might be enough to almost convince me that something pretty UnWAR took place.

I guess 15 minutes is the gold standard for sexaul experiences. And the only evidence we have that they were in the stall together was George.

But we know that they were alone together for 15 minutes, whether in the bathroom stall or otherwise. We know that they were both drunk (and she was really drunk). We know that she had a crush on Steve. We know that Steve has a history of infidelity. And we know that at some point in the night, her boobs were taken out of her bra.MITYH: Were you otherwise with your wife during the entire evening? Was there another occasion where her boobs could have come out of her bra without her being aware of it?

They were in a hurry, Steve wanted a shot at her best asset(s) and he knew he didn't have time to unhook so in the heat of the moment he just pulled out and down. Steve is money.

 

[Bob Sacamano]

I'm just saying that 95 percent of the people in this thread are convinced that his wife did something...

Just guessing that we're not the only ones. This thread didn't start out with "Hey guys! Check out this funny story that happened when I was camping! ". Dude was concerned about his wife spending FIFTEEN minutes in a bathroom stall with ANOTHER DUDE. I think that might be enough to almost convince me that something pretty UnWAR took place.

I guess 15 minutes is the gold standard for sexaul experiences. And the only evidence we have that they were in the stall together was George.

MITYH: Were you otherwise with your wife during the entire evening? Was there another occasion where her boobs could have come out of her bra without her being aware of it?

I don't know how you make S'mores, but I'm thinking I'd like to see it.

 

[omally]

But we know that they were alone together for 15 minutes, whether in the bathroom stall or otherwise. We know that they were both drunk (and she was really drunk). We know that she had a crush on Steve. We know that Steve has a history of infidelity. And we know that at some point in the night, her boobs were taken out of her bra.

MITYH: Were you otherwise with your wife during the entire evening? Was there another occasion where her boobs could have come out of her bra without her being aware of it?

She had a crush on Steve, before she met Yellow Hat. I've had a crush on tons of friends in the past, but those crushes dissolve.

 

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I'm sorry, this shtick just always makes me chuckle, even when it's overused. MITYH's Cheating Wife, Steve The Camper, NY Flight Attendant in Otis' thread. Never not funny.

 

[PsychoMan]

MitYH - you've gotta interrogate the wife & george more about this ... what are you waiting for? maybe you're just being terse with us, but it seems like they're just doing this: with their short responses. if it were me, those answers would not be remotely acceptable, especially because they seem to be ignoring questions that would have disastrous consequences. if this is true, then i think you're learning a lot about what happened based on their avoidance of and indifference about the issue.

 

[urbanhack]

I'm just saying that 95 percent of the people in this thread are convinced that his wife did something...

Just guessing that we're not the only ones. This thread didn't start out with "Hey guys! Check out this funny story that happened when I was camping! ". Dude was concerned about his wife spending FIFTEEN minutes in a bathroom stall with ANOTHER DUDE. I think that might be enough to almost convince me that something pretty UnWAR took place.

I guess 15 minutes is the gold standard for sexaul experiences. And the only evidence we have that they were in the stall together was George.

But we know that they were alone together for 15 minutes, whether in the bathroom stall or otherwise. We know that they were both drunk (and she was really drunk). We know that she had a crush on Steve. We know that Steve has a history of infidelity. And we know that at some point in the night, her boobs were taken out of her bra.

I hate making assumptions, but these points of the story really bother me when you add them up.

 

[Bob Sacamano]

There's part of me that thinks this is a fantastic fishing trip, and I hope that part is correct.

If it's legit, I'd have a hard time believing nothing happened here - whether your wife recalls it or not. If George saw them go into a stall together, the other guy did, too. No e-mail. Phone call.

 

[Woz]

Jesus Christ you guys are scaring the hell out of this poor guy.

 

[AnonymousBob]

Jesus Christ you guys are scaring the hell out of this poor guy.

I think we're only confirming the fears he already has.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

If George saw them go into a stall together, the other guy did, too. No e-mail. Phone call.

You'll start to look like an overjealous husband, but if you want the truth this is good advice.

 

[Cavalier]

Are you and Steve really good friends? Would it be that bad if he rang up your wife?

 

[Man in the yellow hat]

I'm just saying that 95 percent of the people in this thread are convinced that his wife did something...

Just guessing that we're not the only ones. This thread didn't start out with "Hey guys! Check out this funny story that happened when I was camping! ". Dude was concerned about his wife spending FIFTEEN minutes in a bathroom stall with ANOTHER DUDE. I think that might be enough to almost convince me that something pretty UnWAR took place.

I guess 15 minutes is the gold standard for sexaul experiences. And the only evidence we have that they were in the stall together was George.

MITYH: Were you otherwise with your wife during the entire evening? Was there another occasion where her boobs could have come out of her bra without her being aware of it?

Good question here. She was with us all on the volleyball court. She was with us all in the bar on the campground. She was with us all at the site after we left the bar. As I recall this, she was not near me on two occassions.First, when she went to the bathroom with the guys.

The second was later, just before she went to bed. I knew she was pretty drunk, and she headed up to the women's bathroom to take out her contacts and possibly yack. So, I walked up there to check on her. She was sitting on a chair in a bathroom stall by herself. She said she didn't puke, but wasn't feeling well. She got up, and we walked back toward the site. This is when she mentioned her boobs were out and I asked how that happened. I guess what I don't like about that is not that her boobs weren't in her bra, but that fact that it was still fastened. If she were taking off her bra to get ready to go to bed, I'm guessin she would've just taken the thing off completely. That didn't make sense to me.

 

[Third]

Jesus Christ you guys are scaring the hell out of this poor guy.

In before Woz finds a way to relate this story back to his hot-ex.

 

[Wyldfox]

I just read what happened and skipped all the rest, so not sure if I'm missing out on anything that may have been added.I say just let it go. You saw the flirting, George was trying to tell you something, and you just laughed it off. Y'all were drunk, which is no excuse, but it's over and done with. Next time listen to George when he points out that they're not back yet. He seemed more concerned about it than you did.

You cheated on your ex-husband, right?

Depends how you define cheating.

Just out of curiosity, how do you define cheating?

There's physical cheating and then there's emotional cheating.You guys are torturing MITYH.

 

[flufhed]

If George saw them go into a stall together, the other guy did, too. No e-mail. Phone call.

You'll start to look like an overjealous husband, but if you want the truth this is good advice.

I really don't understand where you are coming from in this thread. The poor ******* can't sleep over worrying about this. Even if 100% nothing happened, he is a hell of alot better off trying to get to the bottom of it, and looking like a fool in the process, than just dropping the whole thing. MITYH's gut is obviously telling him something happened here - re-read the original post if you think I'm makiing this up. My gut tells me that too.

 

[phillybear]

Enough about Steve and the wife. I want more details about the bathroom stall.

 

[tommyboy]

you already know what happened. Steve and your wife got freaky. End of story.

Its how you handle it that matters. I'd let it go, but I'd probably just forget I was married the next time I had the opportunity to get laid. Payback.